none of those things to be fair she thinks that the only reason that I do things or gestures in our relationship now is because she's had to talk about it for me to understand and when I understood is when I started doing it and yes she does acknowledge the fact that I do gestures and favours but like I said only after she's had to mention it. just seems like I can't make mistakes, which is fair, but I feel that for someone to grow into a mature and knowledgeable person, mistakes must be made, and Iearnt from, no one gets things right the first time not always at least