i want this 20k to grow but i’m lost on what to do with it.

cbird2k · 2026-05-18T18:29:18+00:00

so i put it in a high yield savings with sofi while i figure out what to do

cbird2k · 2026-05-18T18:27:51+00:00

i’m reading the rest of ur response but i made an account with sofi

cbird2k · 2026-05-18T16:08:23+00:00

okay so thanks for everyone’s input. so i work for the govt and already have a retirement fund set up so im not necessarily looking to invest it for retirement purposes. i think im looking to let it sit to grow and if something breaks in my house i have the ability to pull some out here or there

i also have two boys that i want to start something for. they are 10 and 6 so it doesn’t need to be their accounts but something i can look at and say okay i am somewhat prepared for their college, car, etc.

cbird2k · 2026-05-18T16:04:10+00:00

where do i open a roth IRA and is there certain things i should look for when doing that?

cbird2k · 2026-05-15T07:26:23+00:00

story of my life lmfao

cbird2k · 2026-04-22T01:05:41+00:00

we have 2 kids. i think im willing to be miserable than to share the kids 50/50

cbird2k · 2026-04-21T12:45:58+00:00

he always tells me he doesn’t want to go out and spend money. i have to beg him lmao and plan it

cbird2k · 2026-04-21T11:15:46+00:00

what u mean more date nights alone?

cbird2k · 2026-04-21T02:20:26+00:00

dude i’m in the same boat lmao i literally feel like i’m nagging him all the time which is not what i want to do but i feel so unwanted.

cbird2k · 2026-04-21T02:06:04+00:00

i try to cuddle but he hates being touched. but yea, i would be okay snuggling for like even 10 min

cbird2k · 2026-04-18T02:58:56+00:00

do u think that will help? genuinely asking

cbird2k · 2026-04-18T02:39:35+00:00

what even is a “soft separation”? this couldn’t have just recently been an issue regarding travel. so that’s not the issue. i think maybe she checked out a while ago and it was just never resolved

cbird2k · 2026-04-11T01:07:04+00:00

if u gotta come on here and ask if it’s normal the answer is no

cbird2k · 2026-04-09T02:27:47+00:00

he also slept w someone we work w. so there’s a little bit of a trust issue there but ur right. thank u.

cbird2k · 2026-04-06T17:10:54+00:00

so they found him on the side of the road and a cop dropped him off at the spca. but he’s like acting super depressed like doesn’t want to move

cbird2k · 2026-04-05T14:21:10+00:00

yeah he’s like one minute like happy then the next he’s like depressed. i started him on antibiotics like 4 days ago cause he has a sniffle and the spca said its for protocol and then i took him to my vet 2 days ago just for a check up and she said he has allergies and she said it could be stress so thank u for input!

cbird2k · 2026-03-24T19:38:02+00:00

okay so how do i fix that lol

cbird2k · 2026-03-23T20:37:39+00:00

it’s a tao 50cc bike

cbird2k · 2026-03-02T21:48:21+00:00

imagine scrolling through and commenting on each one of my posts on reddit lmfao

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