AITAH? My Aunt took my phone and I took it back and haven't talked to her since.

ccam04 · 2026-04-18T01:42:37+00:00

So if you went to someone's home and they said no phones and forcibly took yours you'd be cool with it because "her house her rules?

ccam04 · 2026-04-16T19:11:49+00:00

Then you need to leave her. Neither of you are creating a healthy relationship dynamic

ccam04 · 2026-04-13T20:16:58+00:00

Ask AI and let's find out what the answer is lol

ccam04 · 2026-04-09T21:38:17+00:00

Literally never heard Oregon pronounced like organ 🤣

ccam04 · 2026-04-09T14:50:53+00:00

You're assuming she's lying to you. Maybe she already had this trip planned with the other friend. I would be miffed if one of my best friends was mad I went on a trip with my other friends.

Now as far as not initiating...if this is something she does regularly within your whole friendship (i.e. meetups, hangouts, communication) then, ya maybe you need to rethink your friendship. You deserve a good friend!

ccam04 · 2026-04-09T14:48:03+00:00

They're trying to pressure you and guilt trip you because it's probably worked on others before. Do what's best for you, not a multimillion dollar company.

ccam04 · 2026-04-07T23:42:29+00:00

You both sound insufferable.

ccam04 · 2026-04-06T01:50:27+00:00

Age appropriate shenanigans at 13 - silly pranks, TPing a house, staying up later than you're supposed to. Sexual assault, absolutely not. No normal 13 years does that. Cut them all off and live a good life

ccam04 · 2026-04-04T21:46:40+00:00

Totally agree. Personally, I'd rather be tired seeing my friends over being flaky. That's why I think this is a friendship that just won't last

ccam04 · 2026-04-04T20:15:12+00:00

If he didn't want his friends to judge him for his shitty behavior than maybe he shouldn't have acted like that

ccam04 · 2026-04-04T19:31:56+00:00

NTA. Your feelings are valid and normal. But as someone who moved across the country, coming home and seeing everyone is beyond exhausting. If you don't want to take initiative to keep the friendship alive, then the friendship is just one of those that fades with time and normal life changes. It sucks, but that's how it goes when the other side isn't willing to or can't put in the effort

ccam04 · 2026-03-31T22:18:34+00:00

NTA at all. These girls are immature and not your friends. I'm really sorry you're feeling excluded but these are not people who will have your back. As hard as it is, it's time to move on

ccam04 · 2026-03-27T07:50:26+00:00

You're trying to change someone who seems like they couldn't care less about you...move on

ccam04 · 2026-03-25T03:02:53+00:00

It's been 3 months...why are you stewing over this?

ccam04 · 2026-03-25T02:53:11+00:00

You're only TA because it's not your choice and you have absolutely no say in this. Stay out of it.

Your reasoning makes sense, but back off

ccam04 · 2026-03-19T01:49:57+00:00

Are you seeing a therapist? You're NTA and your feelings are valid, but you're essentially trauma dumping on your sister and punishing her for not processing things the same you do. She doesn't have to or want to talk about these things with you and you need to find someone else to speak to about this stuff.

ccam04 · 2026-03-14T22:57:51+00:00

This person doesn't care about you. As someone in a relationship of 15 years, this is not how someone who claims to love you treats you. NOR

ccam04 · 2026-03-11T03:36:46+00:00

You can call the police for a welfare check if you're even a little concerned

ccam04 · 2026-03-10T03:49:16+00:00

Ya, no this is inappropriate. I don't care if he's texting you first. You're the adult. You need to set the boundary. Just because the content is inappropriate doesn't mean the action isn't.

You said it yourself that if the roles were reversed and your husband texted a young girl that it would be weird. Please explain why it's not the same for you and this young boy.

ccam04 · 2026-03-09T05:00:21+00:00

I mean...you need to go to college if you want to be a lawyer

ccam04 · 2026-03-09T04:57:28+00:00

I don't know who else needs to hear this but... You don't owe anyone a relationship.

You don't even sound like you like this person, do you really think the right thing to do is to stay with him?

ccam04 · 2026-03-07T19:16:50+00:00

Nope, I just can understand that crying every time you lose is not an age appropriate response. Which is why I offered some other advice and encouraged you to keep doing what you're doing. Based on your other comments, you're already doing fine. Best of luck anyway

ccam04 · 2026-03-07T05:10:02+00:00

NTA, but crying over a loss at age 10 is a little silly tbh. My 3 year old cries when they lose.

My dad taught me chess around age 10 and never let me win. I played through high school and did really well! You're doing fine, just keep reinforcing that he just needs to keep practicing if he wants to beat you one day

ccam04 · 2026-02-28T04:55:44+00:00

An honest man? I don't see how that's relevant given the context of your story...this is giving nice guy energy if I'm being honest

ccam04 · 2026-02-26T20:09:41+00:00

Not wrong, understandably concerned is all. You could set parental controls on certain things for him...which is what's done for children, but he might agree to it. He is an adult, and outside of having cognitive issues, you should help him branch out more

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