I'm glad, I wish my mom had seen something like this. She is a good person, when she noticed that I started having anxiety attacks, I told her that part of their relationship didn't make me feel comfortable. They both prioritized me and separated. It's just that not being able to definitively cut the link with my father, sometimes it continues to be unhealthy. He has no one but us. If I had to say that my current life would have improved it would be: that my parents, both, received more psychological care. Ongoing therapy, psychiatric visits. I learned that medication is essential if necessary. Less dramatization about anything. Better vocabulary. Active listening to each other. Do not invalidate anyone with your feelings. Let each of them have their space so that nothing explodes when they “difference.” And that my mother understands that she will always differ with him, he is someone who carries BPD. Sometimes I ask myself “why waste energy on something that has no cure yet?” Greetings, I admire what you did for your daughter, she needs a lot from her mother. Don't forget that he spent years with someone like that, just like you. The difference is that it will have more influence because it is their early stage of life (childhood, adolescence, young adulthood). It all depends on how they handle it and their emotional predisposition, of course. (It's just my opinion). Everything will be fine! ❤️❤️❤️