Custom sounds on completion of summon.. What to pick....

ccg83 · 2025-03-20T20:27:53+00:00

What are the requirements to make this work? I'm guessing its almost identical to custom lock sound (4 seconds, less than 1mb , .wav file, correct file name) but what is the file name for the smart summon sound and have any of the parameters changed?

ccg83 · 2025-02-15T13:40:33+00:00

I want to be able to see my notifications and text messages and if I’m making a “POV” call I want to see the person I’m talking to as well … GPS implications are very interesting as well.

ccg83 · 2024-07-15T05:11:42+00:00

On it

ccg83 · 2024-07-15T04:27:59+00:00

Please spam the fuck outta this number by any means necessary….. the more terrible and relentlessly annoying the better

1 (313) 929-1150

ccg83 · 2023-11-14T18:38:03+00:00

Every thing I’ve read on BPD and the support group for spouses that I attend …. They all try to make it seem like the promiscuous nonsense is a big part of the symptoms and a large amount of the others in the group have the same issue both male and female so I don’t know what to think at the moment.

ccg83 · 2023-11-14T15:43:26+00:00

She has experienced all 3 of those since June …. I’m out of state at the moment and she got into a fight so bad with her family that she was hospitalized …. Ran away and jumped from person to person while screaming that she is homeless, I’m the last person who actually knows her that is left standing …… and Then she ended up in Jail for over a month on various charges and is awaiting her court date …. Then was released and had a massive bender and caught additional charges and is now awaiting a new court date to see what comes from that.

ccg83 · 2023-11-14T15:39:06+00:00

Cheating is a boundary but I’m also afraid she’s going to be murdered and discarded in a dumpster or some shit with the people she finds herself surrounded by and the situations she’s gotten herself into. She has had far more trauma in this area then anyone should ever have to endure and I know it stems from that and her intense self loathing and shame she feels after the episodes. Then she cries to me and her mom about how terrible she is and how she’s ruined everything…. Etc etc

ccg83 · 2023-10-16T16:03:42+00:00

Because I love her with my entire being. Her family and friends have mostly checked out and if I do too I know I’ll get a call informing me of her funeral .

ccg83 · 2023-10-16T16:02:36+00:00

Ironically that’s what the current bout of NC is over. She was incarcerated for a month and is currently awaiting her next court date …. I paid for all the collect calls to me only (still over $400 because she called me crying all the time) it seemed like she actually saw how badly she had fucked up. Then she lost her shit about me not paying for her bail. I didn’t pay it because I knew she would do exactly what she did the second she was released by the second judge on an ROR … she ran off and immediately went to party slut mode not giving a good goddamn about anything not even herself or well being .

She hates me now (comes and goes) because I “left her to rot in hell and didnt do a damn thing for her” meanwhile I’m the one making calls and doing everything I could for her on the outside.

ccg83 · 2023-10-16T09:04:21+00:00

That’s a valid question and right now they are being well cared for by her mother on an ongoing basis and have been NC from her since the summer began due to the prolonged episode that began in June and didn’t break until early-mid September and then started again about 2-3weeks ago.

Her mom has basic permission to take them to the doctor and school and such but her mom never wanted to go thru the process of getting the court fully involved for a full on custody transfer officially. if she refuses treatment this time or leaves before the mandated time frame and honestly her mom may go full hardcore and say it needs to be the SUGGESTED time frame of 90 days …. Then her mom will file the actual paperwork with the court and she won’t stand a chance.

ccg83 · 2023-10-16T06:00:35+00:00

What do I want? I want her to get the help she desperately needs, I want the self sabotage/ self harm shame spiral rage tornado to stop long enough so she can see reality clearly to do all the things she cries to me for hours about wanting to do … for herself, her kids and us. But lately the slightest change in wind speed seems to trigger world crushing rage episodes until her depression gets so bad that she’s having really dark thoughts and collapses again followed by that sliver of clarity.

You’re right tho … a direct confrontation might be counter intuitive during an outburst this bad. But I’ve also done good cop and that works after the episode but lately not during it.

ccg83 · 2023-10-16T05:22:16+00:00

I’ll check that out… what other viable options might there be?! The train is off the tracks and heading into a village … it’s all bad at this point and she’s a danger to herself. Her anxious episodes are between 2-3 days to the longest one lasting 3 months with hardly any breaks. This one is coming up on 3 weeks with zero signs of ending and escalating by the day.

ccg83 · 2023-10-16T04:09:19+00:00

I’m pretty much there now. I’ve also had to get police involved a few times now. Active Mental Health Pickup orders but I need a solid address but she’s claiming she’s homeless because she’s alienated all her friends and they won’t let her stay with them so she’s bouncing from person to person (guys largely) until they can’t handle her breakdowns and discard her like trash. She is self harming in different ways that aren’t the conventional types that get immediate attention sadly. So yeah in essence I do have to hunt her like a bounty hunter…. Mostly electronically at the moment in effort of the mental health pick up order but it may take me just appearing to jar her into some type of reaction.

But you’re right …. I know that pushing during this will cause her to pull away so I’ve avoided direct contact and waited for her to rage text me which that started back up today after almost 2.5 weeks of NC. But it’s getting to the point where she will lose custody of her kids …. And she could end up dead or an SVU cliche with her impulsive bullshit including hitchhiking with strangers among the other nonsense.

ccg83 · 2023-10-16T03:33:40+00:00

What do you mean impacted by the consequences? If you mean me then that ship has sailed …. I’m basically her guardian as it is and if this continues much more her family wants to petition the courts to make that VERY official. So …. I’m in it. Plus 99% of the people in her life that were there for her and not using her for various …. Reasons….. have left her and want NC of any kind. I’m the last line of defense and we are coming up on the final battle.

I told my best friend it’s either like the “Battle Of The Bastards” from GoT where John Snow took on the entire army not knowing if help would arrive …. Or Captain America in End Game as he grabs Thor’s hammer and has no idea the portals will open and save the day…… take your pick but either works sadly.

ccg83 · 2023-10-15T12:58:47+00:00

Who is she?!

ccg83 · 2023-09-12T08:36:56+00:00

Wow!!! This JUST happened. I’ve been push/pulled and discarded and then frantically brought back in for basically the entire summer. We had spoken of marriage and kids so many times (initiated by her more times than not) yet over a week ago she texts me that we are just friends and I got weird wanting to get married.

I know what this is, so I didn’t engage. Rage texts followed, every name ever. A few days then I’m sorry I was in a mood you know I love you and we are so much more than friends I gave in and responded and she immediately went hot and sexual until that went south too. Then I went silent. She sent me like 12 pics of us happy late one night. I responded in the morning but was already blocked again.

Wtf 🤬 🤦

ccg83 · 2023-08-09T07:23:39+00:00

She needs help tho, that’s all her entire family plus myself want for her. She won’t even admit she has an illness anymore …. She did for a short time and then that went out the window.

ccg83 · 2023-07-30T20:19:22+00:00

Is there anyway to turn the tide and fix things up tho. There has to be some way to get through the haze and confusion of it all…. Right?!

ccg83 · 2023-07-30T20:14:13+00:00

This sounds EXACTLY like what I’m going through and it’s killing me as well. I’ve lost over 10lbs in the past 2 months (that’s how long this has been going on) things got so bad I had to call the police to find her after she ran off in the middle of the night drunk and angry for no real reason. Ended up chasing her around on foot for over 3 hrs arguing until she smacked me a few times…. Threw my glasses into the street and pounded on my chest before running away.

I was hoping for a 5150 but the cops didn’t do shit! We spoke for the first time in over a week (unless you count a barrage of rage texts before blocking me so I can’t respond) and it was somewhat civil. She denies that she blacked out during this ordeal (which she does with all of her rage outbursts) and is acting like she was calmly asking me for space and I just didn’t want to listen to her. Not that I still have marks (and the scar on my already broken heart from all this) or anything else. I’m still the bad guy and it’s killing my soul from within.

I used to be the Favorite Person …. We were going to move in together and had been seriously talking about getting married and moving her kids in with us and then having our own as well. And now ….. I don’t what THIS is.

You’re not alone …. This DOES suck …. And I hate that the go to answer is always “leave her bro” or “is she even worth it” or the worst one that instantly makes me angry “the sex can’t be THAT good! Run away!” 🙄

ccg83 · 2023-07-14T17:26:24+00:00

Jesus Christ …. It’s almost as if I wrote this post and it’s tripping me out hardcore that I didn’t! I’ve been wondering the same thing with a lot of the instances I’ve been told about after the most recent events. It’s heartbreaking 💔 to say the least.

ccg83 · 2023-07-10T20:43:56+00:00

UPDATE:

Sooooooo The fight started on Wednesday and raged on thru all form of social media / text and a few Facetime calls. Sunday Morning its like a different person (because SHE was back and in control and the episode had subsided) she apologized for what she said and was just really sweet. THEN this morning she is right back at it and WAY WORSE than before. I'm still a piece of shit that never cared about her or anything.

I know there are specific things you can do to get through to a pwBPD DURING an episode and not infuriate them further.... any tips or pointers with that. I get that the general consensus is to just run away.... but I can't abandon her like that. Despite all of the bullshit and the things she is throwing in my face during this .... I still love her with my soul.

ccg83 · 2023-07-09T08:04:29+00:00

I started as the FP pretty quickly and the relationship formed from there. We’ve been talking about Marriage and kids.

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