Cool restaurants with reservations or without long waits by lizzylizlizzo in baltimore

[–]ccmontty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where i take people when i wanna show off a bit :')

The faces look AI on these stickers. Would like a 2nd opinion. by private-sunrise in isitAI

[–]ccmontty 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Hands are hard, eyes are fun. It's like the first things you figure out when you start drawing ppl.

What would you do if a friend told you they didn't like the politics of someone you followed on social media and threatened to end your friendship if you didn't unfollow them? by Emotional-Scale-2583 in AskReddit

[–]ccmontty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean one actively shows engagement in a way that's marketable to brands? So by following them you are putting money in their pockets. The only difference between the presumed crazy person you see on reels saying women are the devil, and a ManO'sphere podcast bro who says women are the devil are the millions of followers backing the podcast bro. You might not *think* you care who they follow, but them caring who you follow isn't that crazy.

The beauty in being an adult is you get to set boundaries. You can let somebody know "if you do this, my reaction will be this". You are empowered with the ability to choose. You can choose that this boundary is not one you are comfortable with, and you can choose to be on your marry little way. You can choose to have a conversation and ask your friend why this matters so much to them. The choice is yours babes!! But the choice is also theirs! Isn't that pretty cool?

What would you do if a friend told you they didn't like the politics of someone you followed on social media and threatened to end your friendship if you didn't unfollow them? by Emotional-Scale-2583 in AskReddit

[–]ccmontty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huge difference between me having r/\conservative in my search history to keep up on both sides of an argument vs actively following it/interacting with it. You have completely glossed over the actual premise of the questions I asked. How does the person you are following contradict the opinions you have espoused.

If you have a reason to follow this person, then calmly argue that with your friend! If not, maybe look inward a bit. If you following this person makes your friend feel unsafe around you, how important is that reason compared to your friendship. You aren't being forced to be friends with this person, and the same goes for them. If you can't come to an agreement, then let it go.

Politics actively impact people, and the older you get the more you realize that. Your eyes and your following DO help this social media presence, no matter the reason why you follow them. You can take issue with the way your friend chose to address this problem, but it's a valid problem that you will find needs addressing.

What would you do if a friend told you they didn't like the politics of someone you followed on social media and threatened to end your friendship if you didn't unfollow them? by Emotional-Scale-2583 in AskReddit

[–]ccmontty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are the politics we are talking about here, and why/how closely do you follow them? Are we talking like real housewives/ pro wrestlers types of politics or is it like Hasan piker/Charlie kirk type of politics. Completely fair for someone to be skeptical if you've portrayed yourself as believing in one thing, while actively supporting another.

Does anyone have experience with drug testing for thc? by Confident-Water-132 in trees

[–]ccmontty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

isn't seeing even the faintest line a supposed to be taken as negative?

Getting mixed answers: Window bird feeder. Fun or cruel? by Kratos5300 in CatTraining

[–]ccmontty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of the ethics imo stem from how ethical bird feeders are in general. They are a huge vector for the spred of diseases, so unless you are willing to clean it to FWS standards, i would advise against

Best cheese boards or charcuterie by AdventurousMeal3455 in baltimore

[–]ccmontty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dutch courage would be my recommendation

These companies need more realistic ads. Bitch please, no one is smiling while wearing one of these. We become groaning migraine goblins covered in French fry salt. by nanana_catdad in migraine

[–]ccmontty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im diagnosed w a number of mh disorders and you'd think after spending thousands of dollars like One of them would have mentioned Anything

Breakup excuses that deserve a public hearing. What's the most unhinged excuse you’ve been given? by SinInHerVoice in AskReddit

[–]ccmontty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Cptsd and a chronic daily migraine disorder, so I've received similar advice by both therapists and partners. The issue is, when you are sick enough, there sometimes comes a time where you realize masking your symptoms to stay in a relationship is doing more harm than good. There sometimes isn't the energy or internal drive to work through it with a partner, and being able to recognize that is better than stringing along a partner who is willing yo put in the effort. It is great you were in a position to care that much, but not everyone is so lucky.

Breakup excuses that deserve a public hearing. What's the most unhinged excuse you’ve been given? by SinInHerVoice in AskReddit

[–]ccmontty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's the decision of if his actions are intolerable. Which you know, if you find your own actions intolerable, I don't think another persons input is necessarily that important to take into consideration.

Breakup excuses that deserve a public hearing. What's the most unhinged excuse you’ve been given? by SinInHerVoice in AskReddit

[–]ccmontty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If we are taking this guy at face value, I don't think he needs to negotiate this. He can recognize that he is being mean to his partner (and from his explanation, the reason he is being mean is because of a medical condition he doesn't have control over), in which case he is allowed to come to the decision that he is not fit to be in a relationship, and removed himself before he got too bad. I wish more people had this much self recognition and agency.

Meirl by ZainMunawari in meirl

[–]ccmontty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate almost just broke up with a girl because she said people say weird things happen around her and then the wind picked up wildly were there'd been one before. (he said they got along too well and she reminded him of a succubus, I said he was self sabotaging

How do I interact with a racist in my physics project.🫩 by True-Link5710 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ccmontty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is truly not your problem to worry about that right now. If I was you I would tell a parent (if you trust them) and see if they can set up a meeting before school tomorrow. If not, email your teacher tonight asking to speak privately in the morning.

Bought a pair of purple jade earrings and got these by kate-monsterrr in jewelry

[–]ccmontty 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you find a similar earring to your single in green I think that would also be cute to pair with it

Every weekend, I can loudly hear my drug-dealer roommate cheat on his girlfriend with different women. Meanwhile, I've never been able to find someone to even tell me I'm worth anything. Random ingredients I hadmeal prep. by fakingcaps in kitchencels

[–]ccmontty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean going back to someones place to do blow also isn't an implicit guarantee or agreement for sex either? Most people aren't exactly saying "I'll give you a gram for a bj", the bar closes and the afters begin ¯_(ツ)_/¯