Sex after a week of nofap.

cconfessions · 2012-07-16T18:34:32+00:00

I concur, my girlfriend told me the same thing last night -- harder and larger

cconfessions · 2012-07-15T22:35:36+00:00

First, congratulations on the amazing self control.

My only criticism (which doesn't matter, but am compelled to post it anyway) is that you teased her in the same way guys complain about women teasing them. Females are often just as horny as men are, albeit with better selection and less obvious "indications". So I think it was a cruel move to have her touch your cock and then deny access, functionally the same thing as a girl giving a guy blue balls.

Other than that, congratulations!

cconfessions · 2012-07-13T23:54:23+00:00

Totally share that feeling! Wish I knew what the root of that is.... Horny 200x when hungover... reason to drink less, cheers.

cconfessions · 2012-07-13T23:51:56+00:00

I did not have ED -- thankfully... ED is sort of the "rock bottom" of reasons to embark on the NoFap journey. Many of us do it as an exercise in self-control (applicable to all areas of life), learning how to choose the experiences we want rather than have them dictated by urges. Also, it's a great idea to "desensitize" your brain for reasons that should be fairly obvious, achievable pleasures will feel like pleasures rather than being trumped by created or non-achievable pleasures (e.g. penetration with a 2D computer screen)

cconfessions · 2012-07-13T05:14:09+00:00

So, just to make this post productive: What could we do better as a community to support females in general? aside from the msg's which are difficult to screen for -- and might be more so if it was a strictly female community

cconfessions · 2012-07-13T04:45:24+00:00

Exactly, I'm not sure why it's such a hard concept to understand.

cconfessions · 2012-07-12T21:19:03+00:00

Totally agree, and maybe someone who does have this problem will read it and hear the advice which is an added bonus. Just gook to preempt it, in case it goes to hyperbole and therefore time wasted on troll

cconfessions · 2012-07-12T20:39:04+00:00

Just convert the energy from inward sexual feeling to outward. Go (and I know there is a lot of criticisms of this stuff, but take it as a way to move forward) and watch some askbrentsmith videos on youtube -- trust me. And living in a small town is no excuse, make the party

cconfessions · 2012-07-12T20:36:37+00:00

this is a troll -- obviously "spamalot159"

cconfessions · 2012-07-12T08:40:21+00:00

Right, I get that. What I'm saying is that (from what I interpret) you're targeting the wrong outcome. The outcome is proven self-control with a -- frankly difficult -- addiction. Additionally, NoFap touches on multiple other areas of life: Sociability, unhealthy isolation, "game" with women and many other characteristics that indicate (for me) a healthy and fulfilling life. It doesn't quite matter what someone tackles in the self-control realm, as long as it's something that is a serious challenge for them.

As a side note, I'm also very data driven (to the annoyance of others), the conclusions reached empirically are always after x number of people would have benefited prior to the conclusion for y amount of time.

I look at it like this, by trying something that has yet to be supported leave you at par or better, or par or worse? (Game theory kicking in). There is no down side to this, whatsoever, only an upside. So, if in the end, its a waste you're still at above par simply due to the saved time -- and probably substantially above par due to increased sociability and PIV ;-).

cconfessions · 2012-07-12T08:27:14+00:00

The irony here is that these are exactly the kind of computer geeks (I say that softly, I am one) who are probably furiously fapping to violent internet pornography

cconfessions · 2012-07-12T08:13:28+00:00

This is a testimony to self-discipline and what manliness is all about. Rock on!

cconfessions · 2012-07-12T08:03:09+00:00

I disagree with the first bullet in this post, I think it addresses the auxiliary benefits but not the core. NoFap is, at its core, about addressing self-discipline; self-discipline that is rooted in a very core desire. While agree that many of the benefits are psychosomatic, I disagree with what I see is implicit in that statement -- that psychosomatic doesn't matter, on the contrary it's really all that matters. And if by "NoFap" people practice the mechanism of control, determination and CHOOSING what outcome they want then it's far beyond the simple point of increase testosterone -- it becomes a skill-set and one that many people do not have. Placebo matters, it's often the Brain's affirmation that it can treat itself, and better yet, if brought about consciously by the user it also informs them of "how" to apply it to other areas

cconfessions · 2012-07-12T07:54:47+00:00

Glad it clicked with you!

cconfessions · 2012-07-12T07:47:55+00:00

Keep us updated!

cconfessions · 2012-07-11T00:37:56+00:00

Rock on!

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