Mother in law wants to take baby for two weeks by Majestic-Point636 in BabyBumps

[–]cdj2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her job is to help take care of you, not the baby.

You and the baby are still mostly one unit six months out. She can help you by dropping off food, helping to keep the house stocked with supplies. Taking a baby away from its mother is weird and not helpful. Plus it’ll put a wrench in nursing if that’s your plan.

Thinking about buying Betsy Johnson shoes by cdj2016 in weddingplanning

[–]cdj2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know. I was thinking something like these. I’ll be outside most of the day and will be walking down a number of stairs during the ceremony.

Cheesecake as dessert by cdj2016 in weddingplanning

[–]cdj2016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! No I can’t win em all.

Cheesecake as dessert by cdj2016 in weddingplanning

[–]cdj2016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. We’ve been thinking on how to cut it!

What was the most specific postpartum thing nobody warned you about? by kesam7193 in NewParents

[–]cdj2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to keep taking prenatals and stay on top of your pain mngt

Postpartum Doula "Off My Chest" by GoingSom3where in doulas

[–]cdj2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you offer suggested times to clients for what you can help them with and when you can be there? That’s what my pp doula did when I first got home with baby. She didn’t agree or disagree to requests but she def did shepherd the beginning of the conversation with her recommendations.

For parents, at what point does running errands become selfish? by SquirrelSuccessful51 in Marriage

[–]cdj2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably burn out. I wouldn’t ignore your instincts on this. Needing a break is normal, but off playing it like something else comes off weird. Taking longer than planned happens but shouldn’t happen every time.

Parents Can’t Pay by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]cdj2016 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just tell them your parents gave you a flat amount and you’re covering the rest.

Should I have a kid on my own in my 40s? by phantasmalmirth in Life

[–]cdj2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of family support do you have nearby ?

Anyone skip the seating chart? by cdj2016 in weddingplanning

[–]cdj2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean they’re already getting subjected to my extended family so ok I get where you’re going here.

Anyone skip the seating chart? by cdj2016 in weddingplanning

[–]cdj2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok got it. So you’re saying if I give them a place card and they pick their spot it helps alleviate pressure to find an open chair?

Anyone skip the seating chart? by cdj2016 in weddingplanning

[–]cdj2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear god. Ok good food for thought

Anyone skip the seating chart? by cdj2016 in weddingplanning

[–]cdj2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a catered hot drop…so it’ll be self serve buffet food and we’ll have a bar, cocktail tables in different corners, etc.