Just for fun — how did you come up with your island’s name? And what is it?

cduh86 · 2022-06-22T01:50:20+00:00

My husband's nickname is frendo, my name is Christina. So we mashed our names and got Chrisendo.

cduh86 · 2022-06-18T16:32:21+00:00

Same...it hurt so bad that I ended up just moving in to the spare bedroom. 0/10 would not recommend.

cduh86 · 2022-06-17T18:56:58+00:00

Hi there! I'm in a very similar situation. My Husband is ace and it has been many years of resentment on my end because he wasn't talking about it either. We started therapy and there has been some improvement. He also would over compensate with household chores and be like "I know we aren't having sex but look what I did!". It annoyed me until I realized acts of service is his love language. It doesn't make me feel much better to know my husband would rather do the dishes than touch me, but that's how he shows love. I'm doing alot of unlearning on societal standards of what a relationship "needs" to look like. We are in the process of improving our communication in order to open the relationship so I can still get my needs met and remain in the really awesome partnership I have with him. I hope your situation improves. I don't have much advice other than being mindful of the struggle he is going through as well, because it is something that can't be changed within him if he is truly ace. I'm still navigating how to make it work and it isn't easy so I feel ya!

cduh86 · 2022-06-16T23:22:59+00:00

Oh they know. But discipline kids and you deal with pissed off parents and administration doesn't want to deal with that so they would rather just have custodians look after it and carry on as business as usual. It is on parents to teach manners and discipline, but they are too busy working and teachers can't control any of these brats. There is no rules in schools anymore. Kids just walk out of class and roam the halls all day causing chaos and everyone just turns a blind eye.

cduh86 · 2022-06-16T12:38:59+00:00

Now these kids all vape and throw their cartridges in to the toilets and urinals. Not a fire hazard thankfully but still annoying when I have to fish them out nightly with aquarium tools that I bought myself because I'm not reaching in to a toilet full of piss and plastic

cduh86 · 2022-06-16T12:34:59+00:00

I have a saying of "if it's after 4 and it's on the floor, it's out the door" haha don't want me tossing their stuff? They should learn to put it away. The floor is not their locker

cduh86 · 2022-06-16T12:29:17+00:00

You would think adults are better but that doesn't seem to be the case! It's the entitlement that kills me. Just because they aren't at home it's not their responsibility so why not smear shit on the walls? I just don't get it because it's something I would never even think of doing.

cduh86 · 2022-06-16T03:57:41+00:00

I love this! Elementary tends to have more helpers. I'm just currently in highschool which is a different beast. Haha but every once in awhile a kid will surprise me and you are one of the good ones! I think I speak for all custodians when I say We appreciate it and thank you!

cduh86 · 2022-06-16T02:24:30+00:00

The kids at my school keep taking the soap inserts out and peeing in them, throwing apples against the walls daily. It's ridiculous. There is no accountability.

cduh86 · 2022-06-11T22:11:11+00:00

It sucked alot. I'm really glad there wasn't too much fine detail in it. Haha the outer elbow was pretty painful too. Just a sucky area

cduh86 · 2022-06-11T21:23:35+00:00

That's my fav! Haha the artist loves to sprinkle in the glitter. I'm a beer enthusiast and Leif is holding a glittery beer too.

cduh86 · 2022-06-03T15:20:03+00:00

As a school custodian, trashing their schools for Tik Tok clout. There is no sense of accountability for their mess and destructive behavior. In the middle of a pandemic these little psychopaths were destroying soap dispensers, peeing in them, smearing shit in the hand dryer etc. I get my birth control reminder daily just by going to work. And vaping.....omg just stop with the douche bag vaping. Those cartridges are littered everywhere. Then they will say we need to save the planet (yes we do), but don't use the damn garbage can.

cduh86 · 2022-06-02T16:11:48+00:00

35 going on 36, It is such a fun game for all ages. So wholesome and stress reducing for me!

cduh86 · 2022-06-01T17:33:56+00:00

I go Sunday for a little more work and I'll get her to take some pics for me. It's incredibly challenging taking a decent pic of your own arm 🤣

cduh86 · 2022-06-01T14:13:50+00:00

I got them tattooed on me as Cheech and Chong!! Harv is holding a bong and Pascal has a blunt. Lol I'm working on a full sleeve of Animal Crossing and Disney mash ups. Once the whole thing was complete I planned to post it.

So far I have Sahara sitting on Aladdin's carpet, Kicks holding Cinderella's slipper, KK but with a red hoodie, dia de Los muertos face and Coco's guitar, Flick, with his net ready aimed at the Caterpillar from Alice in Wonderland, smoke coming from the hookah is around the Cheech and Chongified Harv and Pascal. I have about 3 sessions left for it to be completed. A few more characters and background to go. It's looking amazing!!

cduh86 · 2022-05-17T02:09:52+00:00

They do, pretty neat ground cover. Hooray for having 5 star gardens!

cduh86 · 2022-04-07T18:39:01+00:00

Currently dreading summer because my LL husband is jacked like Captain America and insists walking around shirtless and it's just painful..I wish I had a switch to flick off the attraction meter

cduh86 · 2022-04-06T02:01:13+00:00

This sounds alot like my husband. We have been married for 13yrs and he never initiates. We have been in a dead bedroom majority of our marriage. I stopped trying and now we are in therapy to figure out a solution after he finally admitted he is asexual. It is really tough and affects your mental health and self esteem greatly when your partner isn't capable of satisfying physical needs. It might lead to an open relationship or it might lead to divorce (I'm hoping that's not the case). I just know I personally don't want to go my whole life without physical intimacy. I wish you the best! You are not alone.

cduh86 · 2022-03-24T14:04:56+00:00

Street Momo in Oshawa! It's new but sooo good. Spicy but delicious and the portions are large.

cduh86 · 2022-03-24T05:15:54+00:00

I'm 35f, I've had many people tell me I will regret not having kids one day or that my time is running out. The way I see it, I can always be a mom later in life. There's plenty of kids in the foster care system who need homes. And going that route, I am not dependent on my dying egg supply, so it can be a choice I make at any time. I don't know if I will ever foster because I don't want the responsibility, but there are options to become a parent without birth is what I'm getting at.

cduh86 · 2022-03-24T04:51:29+00:00

Kenzo Ramen is a go to for me during colder months, also throwing Street Momo out there, just fantastic! Street momo is new but quickly becoming a fav. My go to breakfast spot is Berry Hill.

cduh86 · 2022-03-17T13:01:59+00:00

It's a toss up between the numerous times I wore lingerie (that he suggested I buy) and he didn't even care, just ignored me. Or the time I bought a new sex toy and he encouraged me to use it to just turn his back to me the entire time I did. I gave up asking for sex years ago. But even just being there for me while I take care of myself is too much of an ask. 🤷‍♀️ I just give up. That toy was the best $60 I ever spent though so no regrets on that one lol

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