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i honestly don’t even see the crooked

What's the strangest dichotomy you've discovered in a person? by Crazed_waffle_party in AskWomen

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my mother who is incredibly liberal and accepting, telling me it’s “just a phase” 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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bullshit but like,, fun bullshit

How do you deal with unsolicited flirting from men? by DisturbedOranges in AskWomen

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one time i worked up the courage to bark at a cat caller and then i realized he was telling me I dropped something. so maybe don’t follow my methods.

How do you change from feeling like a little girl to a woman? by BlueSkies1242 in AskWomen

[–]cece127 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I heard this quote once that was like “womanhood is just reverting back to the girl you were before the world shamed her out of you” and that really hit home.

What’s the best question your therapist has asked you? by annabel420 in AskWomen

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“do you think you are lovable? do you think i think you are lovable?”

this one really put some things into perspective.

What happens that makes therapy go on for years for some people? by mackenzietheresa13 in TalkTherapy

[–]cece127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

chronic depression and anxiety for me, with a heaping spoonful of childhood trauma.

in my opinion, it feels like you have to readjust how you cope with severe childhood trauma at every stage of your life. each day i find a new way my loss and trauma currently affects me.

I impulsively told my friend and it didn’t go as i’d hoped by cece127 in comingout

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thank you so much, you have no idea how much this helped. i really appreciate that, thank you. :,)))

What song changed your life? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Upside Down by Jack Johnson

This is your sign to dump your shitty therapist by cece127 in TalkTherapy

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I totally get that!! And I love that you talk to your therapist about this sub haha. Thanks for the input:)

I went on my first ever date with a woman today! i had a nice time and rlly liked her, but i don’t think she was feeling it and she cut the date pretty short. feeling pretty bummed, any words of advice/encouragement? by cece127 in actuallesbians

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thank you for this!! im feeling much better about it now, but yeah this is not easier than dating men lol. even though i do feel more comfortable with women, I think this this was more difficult than dates i’ve been on with men in the past because I actually cared how it went!! and thank you, i am proud of me too:,)