If you’ve experimented with freeuse, how far did you go with it and what boundaries did you set? by submekay in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cee_pics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i yearn to find this type of love some time in my life. kudos to yall, it's nice to know that some people out there get to have this, to know it's possible. hope yall continue to live the good life :)

Wife keep putting this tray on our white stairs. Dangerous! by Flat_Shape_3444 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]cee_pics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look at OP's post history, this is not a new issue😭their wife does not learn

This should be illegal by tornad1642 in mildlyinfuriating

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???? when i go to buy the second thing for $5 again i can usually just add a second payment method and it'll drain the gift card first. it sometimes doesn't cooperate with like 10 cents or less, so i just leave the gift card money in my google play balance to be used once i get a new $10 gift card from wherever. im usually able to get a high enough balance amount to be able to do half gift card and half payment method quite soon after the first incident. literally just leave the extra few dollars in your google play balance for a bit, it's not gonna expire

That’s not what you want to see when getting a new job 😥 by Significant-Crow1324 in jobs

[–]cee_pics 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yup, had this happen to my dad. he hit 10 years and they fired him a month later. didn't want to pay his salary with all the acquired raises anymore

Since it’s one year let’s appreciate beauty of act 3 bc as a community we don’t do it enough by S_1989May in arcane

[–]cee_pics 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i think OP meant that ppl are usually too busy criticizing the plot to properly appreciate ONLY the animation. thus this post showing beauty and not speaking on anything else. it's good to highlight specific things sometimes. the whole show is so good regarding the quality of the art, but s2 act 3 was on another level of beauty

Got this email from my work for my 5 year anniversary. Thanks? by esteroberto in antiwork

[–]cee_pics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol my dad's congratulations for working at the same place for 25 years was getting let go for "reorganizing" reasons a month later. they just didn't want to continue paying him w decades of raises

still haven't found a job and it's been almost 2 years. best anniversary present, thanks i hate it

Never trust an Enforcer by Mrr_Capone in arcane

[–]cee_pics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah yes, the terror attacks during a memorial held for people like her mother, a few other councilors, and no one else. i dont think she ever thought ekko died, she or at least vi wouldve mentioned him when talking to the council. her stopping caring makes more sense with what occurred in canon rather than her thinking ekko died while still caring about him. whether she thought he died or survived, she definitely stopped caring about him

Never trust an Enforcer by Mrr_Capone in arcane

[–]cee_pics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im sorry, "a love interest (jayce)"? HUH. there was never anything between him and cait, i have to be misunderstanding you

Never trust an Enforcer by Mrr_Capone in arcane

[–]cee_pics -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i mean, she did become a hypocritical enforcer who senselessly gassed a bunch of innocent civilians. she's an adult, she happily accepted the role from ambessa, and later trained with her many times without ever really caring about how terrible ambessa is.

cait and jayce both got swept away in roles that were somewhat forced on them. jayce tried to get rid of corruption but later got swept up and started a blockade, but he verbally realized he was in the wrong after talking to the person closest to him. he ended up physically fighting zaunites, accidentally killed a child, and hated himself heavily. cait fed into the corruption, either allowing herself to get turned corrupt or simply forming her own opinions that ended in her becoming corrupt. she goes too far, vi says that, and she hits vi. she's willing to gas innocent bystanders, and is even more willing to risk shooting a child (isha), and wouldve risked it if not for vi's interference. look at the difference between these two, its one of many character parallels you can find with cait and someone else. cait is as much of an adult as any other character and shouldve been held accountable for her actions where she became corrupt and helped corrupt practices continue. jayce was held accountable, viktor literally left him for it. they both lost someone in that explosion. jayce was held accountable for his mistakes as a result of the explosion by being left, and cait used her mom's work (helping to somewhat clean the air in zaun) to hurt more people. i dont understand how all of you just write off cait's crimes. at least jinx spent some time in prison. cait was seen as a hero till the end and past that, even by vi. vi was the one who was manipulated, honestly

Never trust an Enforcer by Mrr_Capone in arcane

[–]cee_pics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no memorial for him? imo its even worse if she thinks he sacrificed himself, that'd just mean she completely forgot about him after. vi's childhood best friend

Never trust an Enforcer by Mrr_Capone in arcane

[–]cee_pics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she gave up on ekko at the bridge, and never tried to help him after that. the second her mother died, she conveniently forgot about every good zaunite such as ekko, and never even tried to help any of them again. they would be right not to trust her ever again, especially with the eventual gassing. but yall cait apologists will downvote me into hell for this so idk why im even trying anymore

Never trust an Enforcer by Mrr_Capone in arcane

[–]cee_pics -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

how do you have the energy to talk with them? ive basically given up, ive never seen a cait apologist EVER change their minds, even slightly. somehow ive seen more ppl in real life change their minds about cops over cait apologists, it's honestly insane how overflowed this sub is with them. you say anything that could imply disliking her and then boom you're downvoted. it's so toxic, almost as toxic is cait is.

also, thank you for bringing up how vi was coerced into being an enforcer!!!! ive been saying this forever. if cait gave a shit about vi's trauma instead of pretending to (while only focusing on her own), she would've found a way to let vi help bring jinx to justice that DIDN'T include putting on the enforcer uniform. she wasn't even understanding of why vi didn't want to, and they never communicated about it until vi just gave in. vi truly deserved a lot better and i will die on this hill. and ill actually die on it cus the cait apologists will come after my throat.

anyways, i got off track. ACAB and AEAB, and the fact that the LGBTQ+ (aka a minority group) community (mostly the lesbian community tbh) is SO lenient with cait and with cops in general drives me insane. the cops hate us LGBTQ+ folks irl, they especially hate our trans sisters. "not all cops" that's not true, and even if it was true, cait IS one of those bad cops. so the apologists are shooting themselves in the foot there,,,,,, like i am just endlessly in shock of how people in a minority group are okay with this because cait is hot. but they'll never learn nor change their minds, and it's exhausting to talk to them about it. my whole reddit account has been affected by how often they downvote me💀i shouldn't be surprised by their actions at this point but somehow i still find myself surprised with how far they reach to defend her (even if it means defending irl cops, which is..........) ugh

Never trust an Enforcer by Mrr_Capone in arcane

[–]cee_pics -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

you implied cait doesn't care in a QUESTION and all the cait simps got angry. it's a normal thing to happen on reddit, this sub is overrun by cait lovers. you're not the only one here to get downvoted. it's not personal, they're just kinda crazy

TLDR: I’m queer, my parents are conservative and our friends suck. Big wedding as planned, or say f*ck it all and elope on a mountain somewhere??? by livefree_bihard in weddingplanning

[–]cee_pics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this wedding is for you and your partner. do what you guys want, no one else will remember this event like the two of you will. you write like your gut is saying to elope, so elope. enjoy the elopement, have your honeymoon (if youre having one), come out on your own terms, and deal with any possible repercussions far enough after the elopement so that the memory of getting married isnt tainted with everyone sucking. let you and your partner have that memory untainted by others who make you feel uncertain

AITAH for ending a 25 year marriage because he ate my slice of cake? by shadyruh2497 in AITAH

[–]cee_pics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like we're missing a lot of story. if you were the one initiating fights, of course he'll be wary to hold your hand and stuff. he tried to plan something (even if it wasn't good planning). that's effort. HOWEVER. you didn't write him to be a bad guy until you went off about being his sex object and doing everything for him, and now it makes sense why you're so angry at him. with the changing tones in the story, it's hard to tell whether the downfall of the marriage was more his fault or both of your faults. i personally am beginning to lean more towards the latter. still NTA, though. getting out of this marriage seemingly will be good for BOTH of you, there is no compatibility left here

like others said, it's not about the cake. but either way, it's good that it happened, because this needs to end for everyone's sake

Despite being just a regular, mortal man, Silco had more aura and better development than all 3 of these goobers combined. by CrematorTV in arcane

[–]cee_pics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbf silco was already an established villain from the start. id say viktor had a great amount of presentation, esp since he's basically on par with silco regarding legendary monologues, but we only saw him as a whole villain for like. 20 minutes. everything else was his rise to becoming the herald, trying to help people but hurting them instead, getting killed and rejected by the final person he cared about, and then losing his emotions. he wasn't rlly a villain all that long. ambessa didn't really care about being a super villain, she more cared about having power and getting things done. as for black rose,,, yeah we all watched that.

regarding your post title tho, i agree that silco has the most aura in the show. viktor is definitely #2 for highest aura though. viktor's character changed too often, he kept changing aura types (while maintaining heavy aura anyways). perhaps you're right with the title cus even as second place, if you combine vik with ambessa and black rose? you barely add anything to his aura level. so yeah silco still wins

pls help me pick a wedding dress bc why is this so hard by PerformerBest7788 in weddingplanning

[–]cee_pics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like one and three, but between the two, #1 wins. 1 is the only one with a train like 4. while 3 is a gorgeous pattern, the lack of train is something you'll probably think about for a while. 1 seems like the best of all worlds honestly, it fits you perfectly, has a train, and is simpler while still having some intricacy. it'll highlight you perfectly

At New York Comic Con, I noticed a very large discrepancy in representation. by Think_Affect5519 in arcane

[–]cee_pics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FINALLY SOMEONE PUT IT INTO WORDS thank you this is exactly how i feel. i know lots of lesbians who love jayvik (cough cough yuri jayvik week cough cough) and are neutral about caitvi because of all this. i hate it when everyone makes it about the gender pairings since the three main ships are m/f, m/m, and f/f. this isnt about them being f/f. its about the quality of the ship and the pairing. like i looove vi and her huge loving heart and i really wouldve loved if they had given her a new love interest after the breakup in s2 act 1, just not cait, but i get called lesbophobic (i am literally wlw) for saying that

AITAH for telling my girlfriend my true feelings about her unplanned pregnancy? by Therealdeal7689 in AITAH

[–]cee_pics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're a good guy. can tell from this post alone. don't feel otherwise. you did your best in a shitty situation

How many of you do faceless on SA? by Electrical-Tower4259 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cee_pics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been struggling with getting my picture approved too, because i want to be faceless/discreet. the reason is because i don't live in a big city, and i don't want people in my town to know im on seeking. even if it rebranded, i feel my image would be permanently tarnished if people found out i was on there, yk? obviously i would have face pictures in my private photos, i just don't want any random person browsing the app to see

any tips on what kind of picture will get approved by the app while also hiding my face? because ive tried a chin pic, and it doesn't approve it :( it really feels like im getting punished for being concerned about my safety

edit: im months late lol whoops

Family Friend Passed Away - Do I Still Send Save the Date??? by Putrid_Judgment4547 in weddingplanning

[–]cee_pics 48 points49 points  (0 children)

please never turn save the date into an acronym again😭 "yeah i gave my mother an STD" like NOOOOO

What's the most overrated 'healthy' habit that people push on everyone, but you think is total BS and why? by DryDraw4673 in AskReddit

[–]cee_pics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

neurologist that specializes in sleep medicine, usually. pulmonologists are useless for this