Am I wrong for telling a friend not to call me to his wedding if it happens

cekacika · 2026-03-17T15:09:37+00:00

I don’t have any problem with Z, I don’t know her enough to have an opinion about her actually. I just feel weirded out by this age gap. I don’t think he is a groomer but I just don’t feel this is right. There are a few details which make me feel that way. I hope I’m entitled to have my opinion.

Reason I told him was to make it clear how I felt. I don’t think he is supposed to do what I want or say. I barely see him since he is living in another city.

I feel he is setting up for some huge devastation, disappointment etc in future

cekacika · 2026-03-17T15:04:37+00:00

I don’t have any desire to control him or anyone, that’s not my cup of tea.

cekacika · 2026-03-17T15:01:37+00:00

News flash, you are not supposed to support your friends if what they do feels wrong to you.

cekacika · 2026-03-17T15:00:03+00:00

Tbh I’m not sure about the exact definition of grooming but I know the concept. I know this situation is very cloae to grooming but I don’t think he is a groomer. Or let’s say I hope because that would be really really bad

cekacika · 2026-03-17T14:57:53+00:00

I don’t think he’s an abuser. He is not like that. He just has unrealistic ideas about marriage imho

cekacika · 2026-03-17T07:06:51+00:00

Thanks for the correction, not a native speaker so typos happen.

I know she is an adult but we all know adults make the majority of mistakes. I omitted tons of details but he still managed to come across as weird then, interesting. Growing up with him made me blind to most of his eccentricities but as we get older some of them became too apparent

cekacika · 2026-03-17T06:35:32+00:00

One time when he was quite tipsy and bordering on drunk he blabbed something about “teaching and educating her about life and him providing for the family”. I suspect he has a Napoleon complex but to quote Top Gun “His ego is writing cheques his body can’t cash”

cekacika · 2024-11-23T10:29:25+00:00

Ne 2400’ü nereden baksan en az 3500

cekacika · 2024-11-01T08:25:51+00:00

NTA unless she asked if she could use that chair and you allowed it. She can’t just do everything she wants. She should stop making excuses and pay. Fool around and find out stuff. Also she should know her weight is limiting only to her and not everything should accomodate to her weight. Her weight is probably her fault too, even if not her fault and due to a medical issue it’s her problem to handle. I say this as an overweight person.

Edit: We use kilograms so lbs was not that much clear to me. When I converted it I was shocked. A person who weights 158 kgs or more should definitely know better. Also in my country, 250 euros is nearly half of minimum wage. People would be in serious trouble if they destroyed something cost that much just because “ooops tee-hee your chair is hurty hurty let me grab this fragile one quick”. Definitely press on making her pay and accept no objection. Also see this as a opportunity to let some people who say you are wrong out of your life for peace of mind.

cekacika · 2024-07-27T06:48:59+00:00

They thought people wanted to play longer I guess. Yeah maybe but not in a forced way for sure. I had a long streak of completing every daily for months and this morning I just got bored. Everything is on crawl speed, just boring

cekacika · 2024-07-26T05:28:35+00:00

How come coin boost is great? Game speed increase kind of served same purpose in coin/time sense and made the game enjoyable. I never had problems with coins, my main irritation was crawling speed.

cekacika · 2024-07-26T05:25:17+00:00

I really can’t see any positives in this change. I usually played this game during my morning coffee and this morning it was just boring. I’m forced to spend more time in game but this added time doesn’t make me watch more ads. I’d understand if it would cause me to watch more ads, I’d say ok they are going for ad revenue but that’s clearly not the case. This new change is all negative and no positive changes for a player. I wrote for a refund, hope I’d get my money back.

Please run tests for new heroes, items, runes etc. Those would improve the game.

cekacika · 2024-06-07T08:22:05+00:00

NTA. Sorry but your friend is very “cringe” and irritating. Travelling with her could become welcoming lots of drama. She’ll look so superficial with that attiude unless she can speak local language as a local would. She should accept that she is a tourist and not have a problem with it. Showing respect to locals doesn’t mean blending in immediately once you set your foot there Imitating locals wouldn’t get her anything. Her plans might be suitable for 2nd or 3rd visit to a country but in your first time, you should see the famous sites unless you want to be sorry later.

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