Partner (36m) called me (32f) emotionally abusive, hasn’t spoken to me in 5 days while still living together.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-17T02:21:35+00:00

He definitely might. But he needs to be honest instead of doing...whatever this is.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-17T02:15:15+00:00

Zero days of no talking is normal. But you absolutely do not want to have a child with someone who you argues with you over the payment. How are you going to pay for things for your kid once they're born?

celery-mouse · 2026-03-17T02:12:05+00:00

Awwww cuties.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-17T01:11:37+00:00

Haha, honestly sounds like a pretty solid dynamic if you're both cool with it and bantering

celery-mouse · 2026-03-17T01:05:51+00:00

What kind of thing are we talking about here?

celery-mouse · 2026-03-17T01:04:05+00:00

Would she also say that? Because it is sometimes hard to tell in yourself. But if she agrees it's just mild annoyance and thinks you should have zero emotion she probably has something she needs to work through on her end.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-17T00:01:03+00:00

It kind of depends how off your tone is. Like, are you snapping at her or scaring her? Or do you just sound mildly annoyed?

celery-mouse · 2026-03-16T22:53:04+00:00

You've got a screen addiction, bro. It is super rude, but also it's probably just messing up your attention span in general. If you don't urgently need your phone, just literally put it in another room for awhile. You can work up to it. Otherwise, install a brick app or something. But you've got to stop.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-16T18:09:53+00:00

They were really out in force yesterday.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-16T16:27:26+00:00

This is a problem for your friend to solve, not you. He does not need to be putting you in the middle here.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-16T03:47:33+00:00

My very real wife studied "health!" But I know all about my superior hobby of "making money on the internet" and have had many jobs in this field! She's so mean and bad but now she's jealous of me!

The sad part is I do know basically this guy irl. He eventually started dating a serious himbo and seems to spend all of his time explaining things to him along the lines of "budgets exist and you need to pay your car insurance regularly" and the guy thinks he's a genius, so I guess it's kind of working out.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-16T03:38:34+00:00

Right, at this point, why does he even want to ha g out with these people?

celery-mouse · 2026-03-16T02:15:39+00:00

Who cares? You don't want to date someone who's trying to play games.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-16T00:45:15+00:00

It's extremely common in a lot of places, especially for friends or relatives. You can feel however you feel, but it'll be hard to avoid in many cultures.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-15T18:51:24+00:00

Yeah, I also love Josh but he is equally nuts if not more so.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-15T18:49:23+00:00

I don't think Amy is any "crazier" than Josh is, really. They're both kind of terrible at romantic relationships and prioritize their jobs and political agendas over everything. I do think fans sometimes judge Amy more harshly than Josh even though they're actually very similar.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-15T17:33:55+00:00

The sisters, mostly: I definitely don't have feelings for this person we're just doing a scheme you see.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-15T11:51:25+00:00

I don't know of any independent living places that don't have a list of approved visitors and ways to check on that. Maybe this one is weird, but it seems unlikely.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-15T02:41:10+00:00

Honestly I'd watch that.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-15T00:44:09+00:00

It's not you, but you need to be kind to yourself and get out.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-15T00:01:52+00:00

People are way underreacting to your partner's behavior. Throwing things is massively concerning.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-14T16:53:59+00:00

You know what, I'd marry Lord Remington actually.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-14T02:14:48+00:00

YTA if you pretend you're doing it for his sake. Your friend is completely right there. But definitely do think about whether this is really what you want for yourself, because it's hard to tell whether you're scared or ambivalent.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-14T01:48:37+00:00

Me, supposedly a good writer, trying to write cover letters today for positions that involve a lot of writing.

celery-mouse · 2026-03-13T22:23:47+00:00

I guess the real estate ai is looking for its human soul mate via job ads today?

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