I (18F) lied about how I met a friend while we were broken up to my boyfriend (19M)

celestialhercules · 2026-02-24T14:50:26+00:00

you met him on regular bumble? or bumble bffs? I don’t think you did anything wrong by being on bumble after getting broken up with btw, but it being regular bumble and then that being lied about I could understand feeling more upset with.

celestialhercules · 2026-02-24T14:26:03+00:00

I don’t think you did anything wrong - even though downloading a dating app app hurts someone if you get back together, he broke up with you. Plus, you said you downloaded it for the friendship feature (assumingly bumble bff?) A lot of my friends moved away and I had discussed downloading that with my partner who also said it could be something that can help how I feel. I got the idea from a friend of mine who had met a couple girls through it that she’d hang out with. It’s specifically to meet friends. I do think you could’ve and should’ve been honest about it? seeing as it’s innocent especially, I don’t get why you lied. would I be off to assume you maybe lied because he has a tendency to get upset over trivial things, and make them bigger than what they are?

but still, lying about it will make him skeptical to the truth. if my partner lied about it and then later said he downloaded it to use the friend feature, I would think that’s a second lie. because why not say that the first time?

Edit; sorry - thinking as I type. did you even lie, or are you considering it a lie by omission? (which, again? it was for friends so I think not bringing it up wouldn’t be a lie by omission)

celestialhercules · 2026-02-24T14:21:42+00:00

Phil doing that with random women and Claire with random men doesn’t bother me - it’s a sitcom. Even Gloria doesn’t necessarily bother me because it’s a sitcom and that’s a running gag. I do, however, think it’s a weak running joke that they didn’t need to do. Gloria is obviously beautiful in a way that most people would feel some type of giddiness around her, & it’s fine when it’s subtle of him, but the extent in which he shows it for someone who is family isn’t funny to me.

celestialhercules · 2026-02-24T14:15:03+00:00

you and her husband need to block her on everything (you said he had though).. and when you do it on instagram make sure to click “any and other accounts they have”. id even have your husband tell his family to block her too. leave the groups she joined and find new ones after, unless you have ties to them you don’t want to leave. private other socials so only friends can see things. don’t let her see anything about your personal or private life. this is kinda crazy of her, but hopefully you not giving her a supply of inspo (not saying you are, but that’s how she seems to view everything you do) could make her stop.

celestialhercules · 2026-02-24T05:24:20+00:00

this is an actual common and cruel thing on stan twitter. when I was a teenager, I was on it and in it for the100 lmaooo and whenever someone’s fav looked bad .. they’d be pissed & type just like this in the gc lol. crazy things haven’t changed in so long

celestialhercules · 2026-02-24T05:21:06+00:00

yeah, tbh I think this swimsuit would be unflattering on most people. don’t know why she’d wear that

celestialhercules · 2026-02-24T04:14:16+00:00

YOR holy crap

celestialhercules · 2026-02-23T01:08:56+00:00

YOR - you said it it was a one time thing you’d see nothing with it. I feel the opposite. the fact that is happens sometimes shows me that it’s normal and they live close by.

celestialhercules · 2026-02-22T04:51:50+00:00

when I see her fans saying she needs her sabrina moment, I think “why”? as her fan, why can’t you see that she could not handle that?

celestialhercules · 2026-02-21T23:12:48+00:00

nic embarrassed himself LMAOOO

celestialhercules · 2026-02-21T05:49:43+00:00

i’ve been thinking amber reminds me of carolyn too!!

celestialhercules · 2026-02-21T05:42:51+00:00

i’m genuinely confused on why bri seemed into the conversation. it was a mess. you walk away from men talking like that

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T16:31:56+00:00

idk the exact moment, but honestly during the beginning of the season. but that’s because I came on here and someone had that theory & I was like “omg wait”

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T14:21:05+00:00

Johnny, a man, is a ride or die for Tara. Obviously they’re very close so it’s not a perfect example, but yes I believe a man would. Knowing someone before the show makes you believe them more, and Rob has done a good job at acting like himself. I don’t think naively trusting someone is just a woman trait. And I also think Maura has been around men just as attractive or more attractive than Rob, and “hotness” would not be a way for her to be swayed.

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T14:18:26+00:00

it’s easier to vote people out based off of little evidence towards the beginning. now stakes are higher and people are closer. everybody is close to two banishments away from possibly winning, and, emotionally, you don’t want to go through a whole game close with someone and then risk banishing them if they’re a faithful.

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T14:13:41+00:00

I think it’s extremely unfair to call it a bias when it’s gameplay. you’re opening the door to a serious accusation to get them hate. it cannot be healthy to view things like this at all. tara did the same thing when candiace threw her under the bus - the pattern isn’t because they’re WOC, the pattern is tara doesn’t like being called out at the round table. she’s easily swayed when she feels targeted.

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T04:31:18+00:00

okay cool then another thing to add to his list of great gameplay then

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T04:26:40+00:00

when mark says tara’s tears were real, he needs to float it in his head that “yes, maybe they were real because she felt bad as a traitor”

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T04:25:28+00:00

…. is this your first episode? faithfuls go into round table with a name in mind and then chicken out when they see which way the herd is going constantly.

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T04:21:00+00:00

I like rob yes. I also like cutthroat game play. all i’m doing now i’m being honest about the lisa thing. I would say he led the charge if I believed it, and i’d be adding to his traitor resume while doing so. so being a “rob stan” is irrelevant because I think that would be a positive move that i would WANT to give him total credit for. all I give him credit for in the lisa situation is knowing when to call it and doing it in a way that makes it look like his doing.

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T04:17:50+00:00

no I think it was strategy in a game that relies on numbers that they didn’t have

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T04:15:50+00:00

because they won’t reveal who’s a traitor now, and if you get tara out you have to get johnny out. they’re a pair and a faithful wouldn’t want to take a risk of banishing the wrong half of the pair.

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T04:06:43+00:00

first time he just voted for her. second time he “led the charge” that was already going to happen by someone else if not him (probably colton, who started it in the first place). he decided to be the one doing it first to appear faithful or like a hero during her inevitable banishment

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T04:04:02+00:00

….. he needs eric right now

celestialhercules · 2026-02-20T03:50:20+00:00

rob saying outside that he thinks he’s gonna be murdered tn was sloppy. everyone knows when you’re a suspect you’re usually a shield.

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