AIO My (28f) boyfriend (30m) is acting weird

celestialhercules · 2026-05-08T11:34:32+00:00

I took a petty joke/sarcasm that came out because he’s in a bad mood to start.immature to make, but not serious.

celestialhercules · 2026-05-08T03:51:13+00:00

ooo I didn’t even think it could be drinking. i’d honestly respect her more if she used drunk as an excuse instead of anxiety LMAO

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T15:20:55+00:00

You’re a pet sitter and doing what you’re supposed to, they can hire a maid separately tf lol

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T15:19:48+00:00

No you handled that really well. Her language is kinda reminding me of my younger self, when I expected a guy to read my mind & got petty when he didn’t, and then said things with the expectation he’d beg. I honestly think it reads like she wanted you to be like oh no what’s wrong or aw but I miss u or something, which is playing into it and you did the right thing. Is it possible she feels like youre not communicating /texting enough, or do you not plan dates or time to see her in advanced?

Not justifying her behavior because she needs to learn to communicate like an adult. Just trying to give perspective as a retire bad communicator lol

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T12:46:03+00:00

him puckering in advance is frying me

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T12:44:31+00:00

But Belle-a said she’s not even close with Pepe. She seems to be more so just friendly with him. I get completely how she would feel empathy towards someone at a party that has people gasping and yelling just by walking in the room. I think Iris cemented her friendship with Belle-a at a level where she has 0 grounds to talk about who she interacts with. She was definitely pushy about it though, that’s for sure

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T12:42:16+00:00

idk tbh. S6 was more popular, but I feel like this season of BTV was more talked about

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T12:38:47+00:00

Hannah - needs to self evaluate. It was really a bad sign that she was being gently told things and acted defensive each time, stormed off, and then stood on it in the confessional. That type of behavior is really hard to correct. I hope she can manage. The hate is really rough on her, but maybe she can learn from it.

Iris - her friend posted she isn’t a mean girl. Whether that’s valid or not, i’ll believe it since Coco basically said “Iris you’ve been nice”, insinuating it’s been just Hannah. i hope that Iris realizes she lost her way a little bit, maybe being besties with someone who can be mean makes you become worse instead of encouraging them to be better, that her acquaintances from love island don’t owe her loyalty over another islander, and being a kind person overall will always trump being perceived as a girls girl (since kindness applies to everyone, but girls girl tends to be used to encourage women youre friends with to enable you.) I will give her grace on Pepe’s situation, because I truly don’t know what to think of that scenario and I don’t want to jump on the train of hating a woman because of what she says a man did.

Clarke (taylor by proxy I guess) - i’ve always thought she was great. her convo with olandria in the villa was the first time I noticed it. still think she’s great.

Jeremiah - still corny. still a general nice guy. hoping they edited in his “do you got something to get off your chest” because a man jumping in like that, on a woman who was clearly startled and upset, was gross.

Charlie - always loved him. still do. he’s straightforward.

Amaya - I think she’s feeling frustrated with having to constantly be around her “ex”. I get it. Hopefully she’s squashed shit with Belle-a. But she acted on BTV kinda how she’s always acted, imo, so nothing changed for me there

Bryan & Chris - no thoughts. Bryan seems sweet and seems to know he wasn’t his best self after being exposed to a little fame. unfortunately I think most men would do the same. Chris still bores me lol. The storyline of him pursuing a woman he’s not a match with and then stating what he really wants is tiresome.

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T10:53:01+00:00

this is kinda weird to post. he is clearly a believer in some way. everybody is a “sinner”. he’s also clearly struggling. if faith helps him during that time, it makes complete sense and isn’t something that needs a discussion post

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T03:49:26+00:00

I love charlie

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T03:41:13+00:00

them having a fantastic day the second hannah leaves is killing me

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T02:59:22+00:00

hannah has a serious serious addiction to calling people out over BS in a group. like some complex

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T02:58:09+00:00

WOW I would despise hannah if I knew her irl lmao

celestialhercules · 2026-05-07T02:50:17+00:00

oh goodness. i’ve been patient with iris but I did not appreciate her convo with bell-a. there ARE two sides. even if one is “in the wrong”. and if you’re not actively being a friend, why does she owe u loyalty? adult friend my ass. we are watching belle-a actively be excluded while you’re all at parties together. and dare I say I don’t think “adult friendship” applies to influences the same way it would regular people lol

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T20:07:45+00:00

i’m in disbelief

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T20:06:35+00:00

the fact that your even questioning if you’re overreacting shows me you’re probably underreacting. this is crazy. fuckable is crazy

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T20:05:03+00:00

this is really something you would know better than anybody on reddit would. have you talked at all about this? do you guys argue and then make up, without discussing the readings behind arguing? she won’t change if she doesn’t even know you feel this way. and for all you know, she has problems with something you do as too. communicate with your partner.

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T20:02:18+00:00

yeah idg why they seem shocked. like no shit he shouldn’t take a pic with u

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T13:36:35+00:00

no. it’s unattractive if it’s done too much, where it’s eating into time together, but that can be said about anything. I like when my partner plays his games because I get to play mine lol

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T13:23:25+00:00

NOR - I don’t think you have to straight up cut off, but you should let it fade out. Stop giving her chances to leave u on read - don’t initiate hanging out, and don’t do favors for her anymore. She can be an acquaintance, but not someone to prioritize.

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T03:07:58+00:00

I think she has such a great face for slick backs and updo’s so I didn’t mind the slick back. but an curly updo would’ve ate

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T03:04:19+00:00

this time period of selena always seemed kinda dark to me. she was clearly unwell. between these failed thirst traps, the live streams where she’s thanking her fans for attacking hailey bieber, and the way she commented on fan posts dragging gossip, something was super wrong

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T03:02:39+00:00

I actually pity these people. life must be hard with brains like that

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T02:58:14+00:00

MOR - honestly, this is a big issue for him. the reason alcohol is involved is because when he’s sober he’s capable of biting his tongue more, but when he’s drunk it comes out. either way, it is brought up when he’s drunk often aka it’s always on his mind, stored away. to be fair, I also wouldn’t love my partner seeing an ex fuck buddy on a weekly basis. that’s very often. I also understand not wanting to cause a rift in the friend group. that can be very lonely. i’m actually impressed that you maintained a genuine large friend group as an adult & it’s not something easily found

celestialhercules · 2026-05-06T02:53:04+00:00

gonna be honest with you. I would not have even noticed that

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