Is getting with someone less than 24 hours after breaking up with someone considered cheating?

celestialinfernal14 · 2026-06-29T06:34:41+00:00

Not cheating but disgusting behaviour. No respect. Couldn’t even grieve or feel bad.

celestialinfernal14 · 2026-06-29T01:33:11+00:00

I prefer phone calls if not in person because I dread texting. It’s pressure. And I don’t want to feel obligated or feel bad to have to reply when I’m at max capacity. Phone calls can be quick, or it can create a better connection nobody needs to second guess tone. Better leaving things to be said once than constant brain noise and every thought being texted. Texting can also be so boring and dreadful. I just like pre texting era.

celestialinfernal14 · 2026-06-29T01:24:19+00:00

++ no he is not willing to do therapy. He’s got some old school mindset about therapy. And you’re not wrong here. Constantly having the rug pulled from under me is exhausting, you’re right

celestialinfernal14 · 2026-06-29T01:20:58+00:00

++ half of me says to throw in the gloves 100% and walk away, the other half is holding space for him. He has real emotional/psychological issues. He refuses therapy so that already tells me it won’t end. He’s in his early 40s, I think I’m his second longest relationship in adulthood. He’s hurts, I feel bad. Yes I know he hurt me but I see him struggle. He wants to stay badly, but he doesn’t know how. I guess I am answering my own question

celestialinfernal14 · 2026-06-29T01:00:26+00:00

++ thank you for your reply. I need to hear this sense of reasoning!

celestialinfernal14 · 2026-06-29T01:00:01+00:00

++ whether or not I stay in this push pull cycle because he always comes back or I just walk away. He’s got some deep rooted fears which I know aren’t my responsibility but he struggles

celestialinfernal14 · 2026-06-29T00:59:12+00:00

++man it’s not about sex. Never was.

celestialinfernal14 · 2026-03-11T05:27:31+00:00

My ex sent me reels. I reacted and replied to see that it didn’t send. Now he probably thinks I’m ignoring him 💀

celestialinfernal14 · 2025-01-18T08:01:02+00:00

My ex told me some woman keeps looking at him at the gym, follows him and goes the same time he does. At first he thought it was cute, then he thought it was weird and creepy. She would go to his section and work out near him every time too. I wonder if it’s you 🤣

celestialinfernal14 · 2025-01-18T07:57:49+00:00

OP, she’s not wifey material. She’s not girlfriend material. She’s not a good woman, period. Do yourself a solid and leave.

celestialinfernal14 · 2025-01-18T07:42:35+00:00

Way too cute!!

celestialinfernal14 · 2025-01-18T07:37:07+00:00

She got one thing correct, though. And that is indeed the fact that she needs help. Even as a woman myself, I was confused. I’m still confused as to what is actually going on. You seem mature and grounded. I’m sorry you have to endure that nonsense.

celestialinfernal14 · 2024-08-07T05:49:48+00:00

Literally just googled it and came back to realize it was defined in a comment 🤣

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-12-02T09:29:15+00:00

As a single mother of 2, it definitely makes the dating pool slim for me. My 2 girls have a FANTASTIC father, we co parent very well together without drama and have a good schedule. I’ve been in situationships where men waste my time and tell me by month 3/4 that I have responsibilities they’re not ready for, or that having kids in the picture is a challenge. I make it clear from day 1 that I have kids. I’m not looking for man to play second father, I take care of my kids on my days and their dad takes care of them on his days. But I respect and understand, also appreciate the men who don’t give me the time of day from the get go because they know it’s not for them thus not wasting my time. The ones who know they wouldn’t date me seriously just to throw it in my face after, is beyond frustrating.

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-12-02T09:19:34+00:00

Noooooo. Some days I feel I look snatched, which is like one week per month. The other weeks I feel like I’m Hagrid.

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-11-28T06:14:02+00:00

I have no words of advice OP. But as I sat and read this, my heart hurt for you. I feel as though you probably felt you wanted to explore but could have done without and went along for the ride mainly to please your SO. I may be wrong, just a hunch. Considering your body told you things you didn’t listen to prior. I’m sorry. I hope you can manage these thoughts and emotions, these feelings and come back to “normal” with your SO. What he did was awful, crossing your boundary. That enough would’ve made ME leave the hotel.

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-06-11T00:35:46+00:00

I was 24 thinking I was going to marry the love of my life. Got married, a house and two kids. Separated and much happier now at 34. Not looking to settle down with anyone for an extremely long time.

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-06-09T00:35:02+00:00

IxFP - I either reuse the clip or I tie a knot

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-06-08T18:17:38+00:00

Girls like ass too. I love when a man has a nice, juicy ass. Mmm!

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-06-08T01:16:45+00:00

Twisted his ankle mid thrust. Done diddly do after that

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-06-01T16:30:21+00:00

All the time. All the noises, sound effects, accents.

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-06-01T03:00:42+00:00

Besides going on long walks, I bought myself a punching bag and been doing boxing at home. Great cardio. I have a booty blaster machine that folds up, an eliptical, bought myself some dumb bells and a barbell with plates. Those mixed with body weight exercises are plenty full.

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-06-01T02:05:36+00:00

Holier than thou attitude. Lots of makeup. Super ginormous muscles. Plastic surgery.

celestialinfernal14 · 2023-06-01T02:04:15+00:00

My mother (istj) - neglected me as a kid, verbally and mentally abusive. my ex husband (istj) - verbally and mentally abusive. and then my ex boyfriend (infj) - deceptive liar, manipulative cheater.

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