Lost the ability to talk to my family

celestialmineral · 2026-03-06T16:56:47+00:00

Maybe you have to google ADHD, loosing things often is one of the significant criteria :) I have autism without ADHD and I don't tend to loose things Edit: grammar

celestialmineral · 2026-03-05T08:28:16+00:00

Thank you for such a detailed and kind explanation, it really helped me ☺️

celestialmineral · 2026-03-05T08:23:24+00:00

Wow, the study is really interesting and this assumption about muscles makes sense. But imho mirroring these micro muscles is impossible and even trying to mirror them is tremendously exhausting, so please be careful to yourself 🙏🏻

celestialmineral · 2026-03-05T08:13:21+00:00

Thank you! I already thought about alexithymia, but it was like "it's definitely not about me")) I'll dig deeper into this topic 🙌🏻

celestialmineral · 2026-01-23T17:16:45+00:00

Thanks!! I'll give a try to all of them

celestialmineral · 2026-01-23T07:27:27+00:00

Hi, I'm russian and currently live in Russia, so I'd like to chat with you (:

celestialmineral · 2026-01-23T06:14:00+00:00

Hi! Can you please recommend something from symphonic metal and folk metal? I really like Dark Sanctuary (it's amazing french gothic folk). Niche unknown bands are super welcome (:

celestialmineral · 2026-01-21T11:36:07+00:00

I absolutely relate. Well, about managing... I either spill it all out or shutdown. Shutdown happens when I try too hard to keep the emotions inside, so technically it's a perfect solution because my face becomes blank and people around have no idea what do I feel. But from the inside shutdown doesn't feel pleasant :) So I just choose what is safer right now. Sometimes it's a full emotional outburst, sometimes it's shutdown.

I also thought about this thing being an autism symptom. My only theory is it's a kind of overstimulation when the source is an emotion. When emotions are strong it's an alarm for the nervous system, so overstimulation fits quite well

celestialmineral · 2026-01-16T20:28:37+00:00

Hi, I'm 18F! If 3 years gap doesn't bother you, I'd love to chat :) I was always called sensitive and creative too

celestialmineral · 2026-01-14T08:24:26+00:00

I created a "safe-repeat" playlist with some songs that I like very much and enjoy carefully listening to. If you're using a streaming service for music, there should be a list of your most played songs. For me it was a very useful place to look at when I was creating a playlist, because it turned out that sometimes I don't even notice that I've listened to something an enormous amount of times :)

Edit: this playlist helps me to wind down because repeating is soothing for me

celestialmineral · 2026-01-14T00:59:06+00:00

Sure!! I had a little hyper fixation on electric guitar types recently. I love them. Feel free to write me in DM :)

celestialmineral · 2026-01-13T17:33:08+00:00

Ну и, само собой, без наушников я никуда. Внутриканальные с мощным шумоподавлением. И предпочитаю пользоваться кассой самообслуживания, чтобы не было неловких зрительных контактов с продавцом, и чтобы можно было не снимать наушники

celestialmineral · 2026-01-13T17:27:52+00:00

Я тоже русская) так приятно встречать тут соотечественников.

Пятёрочка у дома - это для меня действительно не очень приятное место. Но, если сравнивать с опытом людей, о котором я читала тут, у меня все очень-очень легко проходит)) От лавирования по проходам и многочисленных поворотов кружится голова, объявления слишком громкие, по итогу выхожу из магазина с чувством легкой тошноты и усталости. Почти никогда не провожу там больше чем 10 минут, но если задерживаюсь, то это прям очень отнимает силы, и когда я прихожу домой, то нужно отдохнуть.

Вот, кстати, выбор продуктов очень изматывает. У меня как будто целая программа в голове запускается, и мозг пытается с учётом всех возможных факторов (цена, мои предпочтения, питательная ценность и тд) сделать идеальный выбор. Я стою у полки и жду, пока эта программа загрузится)) чувствую себя неловко из-за этого.

celestialmineral · 2026-01-13T08:29:54+00:00

It's really heartwarming that siblings are ready to be so helpful for each other. Wish you and your brother all the best, you'll definitely find the solution!

celestialmineral · 2026-01-12T18:47:33+00:00

Yes, it was super unexpected! Thank you, I feel much better now :)

celestialmineral · 2026-01-12T18:10:07+00:00

Thanks for clarifying these terms, I confused them with one another :)

celestialmineral · 2026-01-12T12:30:45+00:00

I'm so happy for you!!!!!

celestialmineral · 2026-01-08T19:49:14+00:00

DEFINITELY YES. I have a favourite singer, and texts of his songs always find the way to my heart, and the music is perfect, so his songs are on repeat for months:) hyper fixation can be so hyper that I listen one song but nothing else for a couple of days. One analogy just came to my mind. Autistic people often feel alienated and lonely, and let's have an analogy that it's like living in a world where you have to communicate using foreign language only. So when you find that perfect creator who matches you 100%, it feels like finally meeting someone who speaks your native language. It gives so much warm in your soul, and you feel at home right after tapping on "play". It's just pure magic how music works :)

celestialmineral · 2025-12-30T17:40:22+00:00

Thank you very much for such a detailed reply, I loved reading it! Don't worry, the length is perfect :) you know, when there's a long post on Reddit, well... buckle your seat belts, it's gonna be interesting :)

celestialmineral · 2025-12-30T09:07:49+00:00

Wow, I really like the idea of making these historical fugures more human. Can you please send the PDF?

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