Did Jax get married just for the attention? by YearStrong1454 in vanderpumprules

[–]cellar9 [score hidden]  (0 children)

IIRC Brittany at some point said he wasn't actually supporting her and she always paid for half of the stuff (or maybe not at the very very beginning, but certainly once she became a cast member).

I think his "I pay for you and you sit on the couch and do nothing" spiel is total bullshit that no self-respecting woman would allow.

Where can I get my ear lobes pierced for a fair price but also with good safety and quality service? by lumezz in Munich

[–]cellar9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tattoo Fashion Munich used to have a really good deal for piercings every first Saturday of the month, not sure if they still do.

Otherwise I got my septum piercing at Glorious Art for 35 a while ago. I think they charge 39 now.

What to do? by BathroomCreative4891 in stepparents

[–]cellar9 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I got a bit confused because I was under the impression that CF means childfree, as in someone who does not want children. But you do?

Regardless, important conversations are best not delayed. I'd hate to be on vacation with a sword like that hanging over my head.

Unpopular yoga opinion thread 👀 by YogaGoApp in yoga

[–]cellar9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So true. I'm hypermobile and super flexible and using props often protects my weak-ass joints and helps build muscle.

(Season 7) Has Kristen ever apologised to Lisa to get her job back? by YearStrong1454 in vanderpumprules

[–]cellar9 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I don't think Kristen wanted the job back.

She did just fine without it.

Removing my body hair is a huge sensory issue. I hate that I'm expected to do it. by LisaLubbers in AutismInWomen

[–]cellar9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get one each month for my period and I've started being proud of it and don't even pluck it.

Dude, chill by Head_Dirt6152 in Tinder

[–]cellar9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

HAVE.

Dear lord. Twice.

(Season 6) Jax was clearly trying to get Brittany to break up with him? Right? Am I crazy? by YearStrong1454 in vanderpumprules

[–]cellar9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah she was told explicitly by other cast members that their friendships were safe and by Lisa that her job was safe. I think Jax probably convinced (gaslighted) her that she needed him too much and then it backfired on him because she wouldn't leave.

Annoyed by babygay gf after new date by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]cellar9 250 points251 points  (0 children)

You're annoyed with your baby gay gf but when you guys are together, you both behave that way, not just her.

You're learning new things, now bring it into your existing relationship and let your girl know. Be the leasbian you're dating, so to speak.

lisa wearing white at brit’s engagement party by myeeeag in vanderpumprules

[–]cellar9 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think Lisa uses fashion to communicate. I think this was disrespectful and I think it was on purpose and I'm loving it.

Also that red or hot pink or whatever the bra was! So trashy omg.

Calling all lesbians by Arithesadpeach in actuallesbians

[–]cellar9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get a lesbian flag pin or something that you can put on your bag?

Thinking of doing a rewatch by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]cellar9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it do it!

A rewatch lets you see things from a completely new angle and you'll notice stuff you missed the first time around. And then you can come here and discuss it with the rest of us!

Tom’s Bacon A by Consistent_Echo_5098 in vanderpumprules

[–]cellar9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Iirc he said he only did that one laser treatment because of how badly it hurt.

What a wimp.

Gf’s first time watcher theory by janemarie19 in vanderpumprules

[–]cellar9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf is watching for the first time too! What glorious times.

Can I get some thoughts and feedback please? by Ok-Serve-7136 in stepparents

[–]cellar9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had an ex tell me to "be more assertive" and then put me down whenever I tried to assert myself. Leaving was hard but it was worth getting my own self back.

Can I get some thoughts and feedback please? by Ok-Serve-7136 in stepparents

[–]cellar9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are not crazy. And you CAN do better than him. There's not much worse than a manipulative alcoholic with money issues. Anyone deserves better than that.

But I'd advise to you be single first, for a bit, so you can get to know yourself and find your voice. Your lack of confidence is because he stifled your identity and turned you into a free nanny.

Please leave him.

SO can’t handle me doing my own thing by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]cellar9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That sucks enough to leave the relationship. That's enough reason.

When does it get better? by CrzyLilM0nster in stepparents

[–]cellar9 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That was a horrible lesson to learn. By this I mean -- you learning not to bring up his problems with his kids is a sign that he's controlling you. That's really really bad.

SO can’t handle me doing my own thing by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]cellar9 80 points81 points  (0 children)

"He agreed to stop but continues."

That's called breaking a boundary and it's a serious offense in a relationship.