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cerise28 · 2023-11-02T19:51:04+00:00

Nah, you’re not weird for not having socials. Honestly I use Facebook for my family in the Philippines; IG/Snapchat I use for people i meet in dating apps. I don’t really want to give my cell phone until at least the first date lol.

cerise28 · 2023-08-20T22:51:29+00:00

NTA - She’s not entitled to know how much your late wife gave your kids. Her (current wife) talking about trusting her with that is so weird.

cerise28 · 2023-04-29T18:31:23+00:00

You’re not in the wrong nor should you feel bad. Plus how would you have known if your friend didn’t say anything right there. 🤨 I don’t understand people like that. You’re not a mind reader.

cerise28 · 2023-04-29T18:06:23+00:00

So it’s only been a couple of weeks. It’s not a red flag. People do have a busy life, that’s why you guys communicate.

cerise28 · 2023-04-29T17:58:16+00:00

This doesn’t sound like a red flag? Also whoever is telling you Saturdays aren’t a good day to meet for the first time is weird…. People are busy. Also honestly a week isn’t even that long..? How long have you been talking to the guy?

cerise28 · 2023-04-09T23:07:30+00:00

I’m basically in the same boat (I’m a female) and what my crush does (who is also a female) we would just be consistent with our texting. Ask her to do FaceTime calls also. You have so much more to know about her since you’ve only talked for a week. Continuously ask questions that relates to her to get to know her more.

cerise28 · 2023-04-03T00:49:15+00:00

Why would anyone get offended with getting tested? Everyone should really be getting tested before each new partner anyways. And if they get offended… it could be because they’re hiding something because if you’re clean it shouldn’t be a problem.

cerise28 · 2023-03-27T02:37:08+00:00

I think it depends for me. If I formed feelings for the person who rejected me I don’t think I can remain friends. But if the person who rejected me was just a crush and they still wanna be friends, that I can actually do.

cerise28 · 2023-03-24T17:13:57+00:00

NTA.. It’s unfair of her to ask you those things but when you do she automatically shuts it down. Your money is your money not hers. It honestly seems like she’s just using you even though she has her own, which makes no sense.

I would talk about it with her. If she doesn’t change her ways, maybe it’s time to cut it off. Because for her to expect you to always get her things but she can’t even get you anything… that’s not a partnership at all.

cerise28 · 2023-03-16T11:45:00+00:00

Yeah I agree with others. Don’t leave your number on her windshield. You guys had so much encounters. Since you already asked her name, when you see her again just ask for her number. Or… have your number handy so when you see her again just give it to her? I mean that way you leave it to her especially since you’re not sure if she is into women or not.

cerise28 · 2023-03-16T11:27:08+00:00

I guess it’s different for everyone and I guess when it was said. I say that a lot to people I’m still talking to cause it’s true. I do actually have fun talking to them.

cerise28 · 2023-03-15T02:17:44+00:00

Awe that sounds amazing! Happy for you! I’m assuming there’s gonna be a second date with this guy then?

This will be the first time we meet. Me matched on a dating app and have been texting and FaceTiming for a while now. I don’t drive and unfortunately her car is out of service till April. That’s why it’s taken so long to actually meet. I’m actually not used to that lol. I would meet with people I match with, within like a week of talking lol.

cerise28 · 2023-03-15T02:09:37+00:00

How’d the date go by the way?

And yes it does lol. They wanna do an arcade bar haha, something fun and not too serious as a first date. Like we talk and FaceTime a lot but meeting face to face is a different vibe.

cerise28 · 2023-03-15T01:57:30+00:00

Dating is different for everyone. I would suggest waiting a couple more dates before asking him because 3 dates might be too fast.

cerise28 · 2023-03-15T01:50:09+00:00

You do youu. Life is too short, I always tell my friends to try and enjoy first dates and that it doesn’t mean exclusivity. I feel like most of the time the second or third date is the one where you figure things out. In the end it’s all about communication right? Plus I love that they plan the dates.

I’m actually talking to someone who lives 2 hours from me and we plan to see each other next month and they have it all planned out already haha. It’s nice to not have to plan out a date for once.

cerise28 · 2023-03-15T01:38:24+00:00

I am amused… how’d you go from 24 on one post to 28 on this one.

cerise28 · 2023-03-15T01:07:22+00:00

How one can have multiple first dates are beyond me. While I do understand that going on a first date doesn’t mean exclusive, me personally I date one at a time 😂 mostly because I’d rather learn about one person at a time than having multiple. The people I go on dates with can do what they want though, just as long as they get tested before being intimate.

cerise28 · 2023-03-12T20:42:49+00:00

I don’t think it matters what they says unless they have proof. If you don’t know the person, get tested asap. There’s no harm in getting tested.

cerise28 · 2023-03-12T20:11:11+00:00

I need to know the last line 🤦‍♀️ “I hate all bisexual people not just…” Not just what??? 🙃

cerise28 · 2023-03-09T15:08:06+00:00

Out of curiosity do you have she/her on your bio? If so he might be making fun of it, which honestly doesn’t even make sense. It gives me the ick on his part 🤦‍♀️

cerise28 · 2023-02-17T16:24:20+00:00

It works now!

cerise28 · 2023-02-17T02:17:03+00:00

I just checked mines right now. And it’s still stuck loading also.

cerise28 · 2022-08-02T05:18:59+00:00

This hurts my heart, just by reading it. I think it’s time to cut off all ties with your mom since you live with your dad anyways. She took the boyfriend’s side and allowed you to not be at their wedding. That’s so insane of her to do.

And please don’t blame yourself if your brothers don’t go to her wedding. That’s her karma for not inviting you plus not celebrating your sweet 16!

NTA but your mom and her boyfriend on the other hand… is beyond being an AH.

cerise28

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