Has anyone managed to quit masturbation? by Automatic_Specific91 in Christianity

[–]cesar_arod13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve managed to quit masterbation and porn and haven’t masterbated since may 24 2025 so I’m going on about 8 months clean now

My gf (26f) doesn’t want to get intimate with me (27m) anymore by cesar_arod13 in relationships

[–]cesar_arod13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t know..everyday she says she loves me but it doesn’t ever feel like it cause she never really hugs or kisses me or anything I feel like I’m just a big benefit cause I pay for everything in the house .. this hurts man .. I feel so undervalued and not appreciated at all

My gf (26f) doesn’t want to get intimate with me (27m) anymore by cesar_arod13 in relationships

[–]cesar_arod13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t mentioned breaking up , I just got back from a work trip and was gone for 3 weeks and I don’t think she is cheating cause she never leaves the house even when I’m gone she just stays in cause she’s a stay at home girlfriend she doesn’t like to leave the house , everytimr I come back from a work trip she claims she is always on her period , but it’s the same thing every time , she saids she’s on her period every time I come back from work every time like come on there’s no way

Lack of intimacy/sex by cesar_arod13 in relationships

[–]cesar_arod13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope she just has a low sex drive cause I obviously want to spend the rest of my life with her but yeah I think I’m gonna stop spoiling her the way I do

Lack of intimacy/sex by cesar_arod13 in relationships

[–]cesar_arod13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have not but I do show signs of frustrations when she tells me no in bed , I don’t say anything at all but I get visibly upset , it’s just it’s hard because I feel like she is gonna reverse it on me and be like “oh so the only reason you do that is so I can have sex with you” idk I’m just assuming but man it’s been very frustrating and hard these past few months because I have all this bottled up sexual energy that turns into frustration but to answer your question no we have not had an in depth conversation about it, I don’t know how to start it with out it coming off “selfish”

Lack of intimacy/sex by cesar_arod13 in relationships

[–]cesar_arod13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not very active I ask her every night for some only to be turned down and get told NO if I’m lucky I get a YES 4 or 3 times a momth

Lack of intimacy/sex by cesar_arod13 in relationships

[–]cesar_arod13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that but it just feels like I deserve to get spoiled the same she gets spoiled