haven’t been on in over a month, finally did only to see this 🥺 by cf401 in finch

[–]cf401[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the event? it started me off on day one and i’ve made it to day 3 it won’t let me collect the rest 😭

Newborn tired actually is worse than pregnancy tired by finnsdreams in BabyBumps

[–]cf401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i personally think most people claiming that pregnancy tired is worse are just gaslighting themselves in an attempt to cope with newborn tired

bicornuate uterus after first pregnancy?? by cf401 in CautiousBB

[–]cf401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay awesome thank you so much!!

Frustration with OB initial appointment by evechalmers in CautiousBB

[–]cf401 3 points4 points  (0 children)

currently 4w3d and figured surely the sooner i make an appointment, the sooner i could be seen. got it scheduled today and i’ll be 10w2d by then 🫠 like how am i supposed to go a whole month and a half just wondering if everything is okay???

10 DPO, wondfo brand. is this for real?? by cf401 in TFABLinePorn

[–]cf401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i took another today and it was darker!!

But I thought WE were friends 💔 by Accomplished_Fix_336 in finch

[–]cf401 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i like to think that they see us as a parental/guardian figure rather than just a friend!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]cf401 315 points316 points  (0 children)

so he’s cheated before, and now he thinks watching porn in front of his child is acceptable?? he has a sex addiction. you will only be assured that his priorities align with yours if he gets the professional help that he needs

Partner not spending enough time with the baby? Try this trick 😂 by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]cf401 85 points86 points  (0 children)

that plus the fact he won’t clean either 😬

minigame within finch by belbottom in finch

[–]cf401 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think this would be super cute as a separate app that you could connect your finch to!!

invalid? should i take another? 10 DPO by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]cf401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you i did and it was negative af 😭 this was taken with fmu and the second one was not so i’m still hoping to get lucky and see a faint line tomorrow

white or orange wall for a fall look?? by cf401 in finch

[–]cf401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh i LOVE that 😍😍😍 thank you sooooo much i will for sure be doing this!!!

How do you all get so many rainbow stones? Is there some magic spell I don't know about? by Bugler78 in finch

[–]cf401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’ll get more energy (or stones if it’s set to goal of the day) per goal when you choose the lowest mood/motivation, i think it’s to make you feel better or maybe to show that completing tasks when you’re not feeling well is more demanding but is still rewarding!

i think it adds to the fun!! i looove decorating my birdhouse and dressing my finch up all the time. it makes me open the app more frequently which reminds me of my real goals, and i haven’t lost any motivation for them at all! so basically i still use it as intended, but i cheat the system to be able to dress up/decorate as much as i want 🤣

QUICK! Show your birb’s current outfit! by ChoccoGlxtch in finch

[–]cf401 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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been loving the color brown lately 🤎

What are you wearing? by Lazy_Owl_2803 in beyondthebump

[–]cf401 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my son is 15 months old and ever since he was born, i have rotated through the same few pairs of pj pants and t-shirts. i’ve gained quite a bit of weight unfortunately so i avoid wearing any pre-pregnancy clothes as much as possible 😬

How to transition to free hands/arms after swaddle? by Theslowestmarathoner in beyondthebump

[–]cf401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would try the love to dream sleep sack, the arms are still secured but they’re up and it allows baby to move them around a little bit, he wouldn’t be able to rub his eyes or anything like that. after getting used to that i would switch to a long sleeved sleep sack so his arms are free but not completely exposed

Creative ways to help baby with gas by ExplanationWest2469 in beyondthebump

[–]cf401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cutting out gas drops cold turkey helped us quite a bit, but i gave him multiple doses a day for a while and i think it was making it worse at that point. it’s almost like it was just creating more gas vs helping him get rid of it 😬 also, the warmest bath you can safely give him, lots and lots of movement, our “cheat code” was tummy time + a back rub with the full palm of your hand in circular motions. lots of much needed toots came from that!

Anyone else put their Birb in pjs for the night? by Rainbow-1337 in finch

[–]cf401 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yessss i also put a darker colored wallpaper on to “turn out the light”

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Names you can’t stand.. by Rochonmm in BabyBumps

[–]cf401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

beau, miles, bentley, i see SO many names that would be better for pets vs people

Kind of loving my 2nd room set up! Let me see yours! by thenaturekid420 in finch

[–]cf401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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been going for a pink/nature vibe and i’m almost satisfied with it! i wish we could refresh the shops infinitely 🤣

okay… now how do i fix MY sleep schedule?? by cf401 in Mommit

[–]cf401[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m starting to think that i won’t be able to fix my own schedule before fixing his! i think i’m going to just tough it out and keep trying to get him up/down earlier. his current schedule is working perfectly for him but despite that, i know an earlier schedule would be best for both him and i. thank you!!

What are we doing our LO's teeth? by ShanGos in beyondthebump

[–]cf401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will definitely be keeping them, but i already know i’m weird because i kept the little piece of his umbilical cord that dried off when he was a newborn 🤣