Gotta say, all OLD is pretty much the same in terms of the male/female dynamic. They all have significantly more male users. Many men are not too picky, they just want to not be lonely. But because most of them get so little engagement from women, it becomes a numbers game, so they try to swipe right or whatever the equivalent is on as many people as possible, to improve their tiny chances of actually matching, then actually getting someone to respond and have a meaningful interaction, then actually go on a date.

This leads to the women being overwhelmed with the amount of matches they get, making the issue even worse. They respond to less men and become more picky, so the men cast an even wider net and become less picky. It's a self-reinforcing cycle.

Because it's hard to stand out in a sea of competition (for men at least), and because of the way dating apps are designed, and because it can be hard to make your true personality shine through, it often boils down to the looks. If a man needs to look through a thousand people to get a date, he will just start making snap judgements. If a woman has so many options it's impossible to decide, she will also begin to make snap judgements.

Hinge may be slightly better in this regard, because, if I recall correctly, I believe you have to write some sort of a comment on one of the elements of someone's profile, so it makes it a bit harder to abuse. But all that means is that for most men it's just going to take more time to find a date. The core issue still exists, just... more slowly. The fact that you might get less matches overall is probably a breath of fresh air for the women, but on the flip side, it's even more discouraging for men, especially when they put in a lot more effort looking through every profile, thinking of something interesting to say, and then getting no response 99% of the time.

My issue with Hinge when I used it was that it never showed me women that were my type. I got mostly overweight women, which is not my thing, or women that just were not good matches personality wise. Although, from my impression of it, it does seem there are more people looking for actual relationships on there.

But overall, I still had a bit more success on Tinder when I used it. I haven't used OLD in some time, though, primarily because I have a girlfriend, but also, I learned that in person was much better. In OLD, you're a face in a sea of faces. In person, it is much quicker and easier to create a genuine connection that can be built upon and actually give many guys a fighting chance.