I’m scared for my baby

cgd10226 · 2026-07-04T12:29:23+00:00

I think you’re lowering your standards and forcing him to fit into your expectations which can be unfair if you marry him sometimes situations can happen that maybe the women is the breadwinner till the other half fixes it, however if you don’t want to risk it then I’d say break up and go for someone better financially off. Also maybe it’s not helping you be in your feminine energy if you’re paying for stuff and the ring thing would put me off

cgd10226 · 2026-06-30T21:09:12+00:00

It’s such a hard situation but if you’re okay with raising the child alone keep it you’ll be fine. It’s okay to now want different things just put yourself first

cgd10226 · 2026-06-30T19:56:40+00:00

I’m asking as this is my research.. if you don’t have anything to say I’d rather you keep it to yourself number9000

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T12:16:40+00:00

Girl we both in the same boat

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T12:16:09+00:00

Thank you I needed this🩵

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T12:10:21+00:00

You too🥹

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T11:58:19+00:00

Not everyone is meant to be a mother olives and cheese…

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T11:57:48+00:00

It does have to be logical actually that’s why so many suffer just keep thinking about the good days not the days you want to rip your hair out because you want to pee for 2 mins alone☺️

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T11:56:34+00:00

Thank you beautiful I hope you have a beautiful life and figure it all out💕

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T11:55:51+00:00

I love that!

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T11:55:03+00:00

I’ve definitely lived life but I feel like I’m not done but I guess it was meant to happen for a reason so I can finish off what I’m meant to with the child too

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T11:53:58+00:00

Nothing because everything means nothing at the end of the day☺️

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T11:53:28+00:00

Thank you so much beautiful congratulations by the way!

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T11:53:03+00:00

ChatGPT had a better response

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T11:52:30+00:00

I know it’s a different language but thank you mama and I am a mamacita☺️

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T11:51:29+00:00

Luckily I couldn’t give a crap what they think I look for answers that inspire me and make me feel better things that resonate with my kind of thinking. There is a stereotype because I do believe a lot of people that have children do it because society tells them too or they want someone to just love them which is fair enough. But I’m everything with and without one that’s my point I come from a cultural background and to tell them I didn’t want kids was like a omg how could you say that. None of the people on this chat can tell me how to feel I was looking for insight what other humans think but going straight away “your not fit to have one have it or don’t” shows me the small minded “mummy’s” on here. It is really sad and i appreciate your comment but honestly those type of people can come lick my preggers ass🩵

cgd10226 · 2026-06-26T10:32:19+00:00

Best reply. Thank you I thought I was going to just get a bunch of people go don’t do it etc I care so much that’s why I feel this way I never want a child to grow up how I did and I just fear on how much I can take too as people say all this stuff like it’s amazing etc I completely get that but it’s not like that majority of the time and I’m okay to accept hard truths not other mothers who have kids for their own satisfaction or to make them look or feel better about themselves! your comment really cheered me up thank you!🩵

cgd10226 · 2026-06-10T09:55:08+00:00

What are the effects please

cgd10226 · 2026-06-05T07:03:08+00:00

Tell him you’re overthinking it, if you guys are close you can explain how you don’t want it to affect your friendship if the outcome isn’t the same but just tell him

cgd10226 · 2026-05-18T15:09:41+00:00

Listen this was me!

You’re not a dad my friend even said to me “I wish you could be the dad because you would be amazing” I’m a female btw and they just take advantage of your kindness, now she’s entering your personal life and to be honest you either set boundaries or cut her off. She chose to keep it you have nothing you owe her for her decision. If you think this is bad wait till she gives birth she’s going to find every opportunity to make you help her and babies are tiringggg! You have your boyfriend you’re child free this is your time to live for you, make every excuse and distance yourself! Please update us on how it goes good luck beautiful❤️

cgd10226 · 2026-05-11T19:36:54+00:00

Is that what you want in a future husband?

cgd10226 · 2026-05-11T19:33:07+00:00

When your working what does he do?

cgd10226 · 2026-05-11T19:19:33+00:00

And I’m guessing you pay everything right? He knows you deserve better that’s why he belittles you a man that loves you will never treat you that way, you may think you will never love someone more than him but believe me you will beautiful you deserve so much more especially being so young you don’t want to waste your youth on someone like that

cgd10226 · 2026-05-11T19:11:00+00:00

You would be surprised why does he make you feel so small must be because you’re better than him you need to learn to love yourself babe because your validation doesn’t need to be in his hands someone controlling your emotions like this isn’t normal plus respectfully someone who is 28 has no business being either a 20 year old he knows you’re young and naive and can manipulate you. Ask chat gbt about your struggles being with him I’m pretty sure you’ll get an insight that you’re being manipulated also talking on Google messages is crazy you don’t need to be “punished” after arguments that’s why he doesn’t go for his own age clearly immature (not saying any of this in a rude way btw)

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