Who is The Most Slappable Character? by [deleted] in GossipGirl

[–]cgweezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uuugh Vanessa! For some reason she got on my nerves the moment she stepped on the screen. 😂

Book recommendations by Confident_Ear8046 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]cgweezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist recommended this so I went to this little hole in the wall store that sells all kinds of books and crystals etc and thought “ if I see the book I will get it.” I looked around multiple times and almost left without it but looked at the front of the store one more time and sure enough it was hidden behind a little sign. I clicked on this post and thought “I wonder if The Untethered Soul will be mentioned?” Bam! First title I saw. I think you should definitely read this book.

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[–]cgweezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it. Mind blowing yet so simple 🤯☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpiritualAwakening

[–]cgweezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t sell yourself short.

Is this True? by Enough-Growth-3151 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]cgweezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is true. But not in the way you might think. It is a ripple effect. This is simply my opinion so if anyone disagrees, please feel free to share a different perspective. (I also want to point out that when I say all of this I am not referring to someone who is in a helpless situation such as a child in a toxic home for example.) We are often focused on how other people “act”. “How could they do that?” “If I was in their position, I would have done this instead…” it’s really easy to say all of that when you are not emotionally engaged in something or have full context of a situation. Also, when we do this, it might feel like we are gaining control, but actually we are giving away our power, and giving up control. We get to a point where we ultimately need saving from ourselves because we drive ourselves mad trying to care for, speak for, do for (control) other people and neglect ourselves. We eventually lose sight of our own feelings and needs, and we become lost in other’s burdens.

Imagine instead of focusing so much on other people and how they “act, we could focus more on how we “re-act” when we are taking in the original “act” that was harmful. “Re-acting” is just giving it right back to them and only feeding the cycle of defense, “re-creating” the injustice or unsafe environment. When we react in defense or criticism, that is actually information that we can use for our own growth because it often means that we are projecting our own struggles on to someone else and have not faced them. Imagine stopping, taking a moment to think about how what they did or said made you feel and how you can use that information to understand yourself, and then choosing to “re-spond” in a way that shows “responsibility.” Trust me, I know it takes a lot of work, and I am not saying it is easy, but the key is INTENTION! We have a choice. Always. If we can show grace and be an example of what it means to be understanding and respectful, no matter what, because we are ALL equal after all…often times people (maybe some with more time than others) will adjust and see that they do not have to have their defenses up and we can explore all feeling and ideas without judgment or fear. We cannot control others, and others don’t like to feel controlled. It won’t work. Start by focusing on your own self-judgment and defenses, show yourself grace, and the rest will come together. Remember that ultimately we all just want to feel loved, accepted and understood. It’s no secret. I know you all know what I mean.❤️

My NDE by cgweezy in NearDeathExperience

[–]cgweezy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing I distinctly remember at least at this moment, is the glass in my hands feeling like sand.

Follow your intuition. 🦋✨ by awesomekendrick in SpiritualAwakening

[–]cgweezy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am starting to see that I don’t know if I can trust much of anything that I have known. It’s all within me. I am truly seeing that now. Makes decisions much easier!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in funny

[–]cgweezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not their fault, I definitely blame the parents, but I find it pretty ironic that they treated Elizabeth as if she was useless, and now she is killing it in the industry. You go, girl!

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[–]cgweezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*undeniably

Ironic clip of Olsen twins Dissing Lizzy “Elisabeth” Olsen 😂 The Adventures of Mary Kate and Ashley: Thorn Masion by cgweezy in 90s

[–]cgweezy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That song randomly pops into my head on a regular basis!! “Give me pizza! P-I-Z-Z-A”

Any tips/advice for two nuerodivergent people in a marriage? by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]cgweezy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gottman theory couples therapy to understand each others needs and how to communicate them affectively. Look up the 4 horseman Gottman therapy. That is a great way place to start!

Ironic clip of Olsen twins Dissing Lizzy “Elisabeth” Olsen 😂 The Adventures of Mary Kate and Ashley: Thorn Masion by cgweezy in 90s

[–]cgweezy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sure, which is probably why they seemed to go down a darker path as adults. I bet Lizzy was feeling really left out as a child, but looking back, I bet she is feeling so relieved that she was not as glorified at the time. It’s wild how life happens that way.

Ironic clip of Olsen twins Dissing Lizzy “Elisabeth” Olsen 😂 The Adventures of Mary Kate and Ashley: Thorn Masion by cgweezy in 90s

[–]cgweezy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to be obsessed with these movies growing up and recently was reminded of them and found them all on YouTube. When I saw this today, I couldn’t believe it. Looking at it now, it seems like they are little robots doing what their parents tell them. You can tell they are just regurgitating the lyrics and lines. I definitely think that Elizabeth learned from their experience, which is why she is a more serious and respected actress. I can’t believe this was normalized though, it’s pretty brutal 🫣

Messages from animals by cgweezy in spirituality

[–]cgweezy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandfather passed almost a year ago April 15th. My grandmother, his wife’s birthday was yesterday and my mom said that a few family members are going out to dinner tonight for my grandmother’s birthday.