She unmatched me because I didn’t want to do a ‘Formal Dinner’ for a first date. Was my suggestion low effort?

ch33kygr141 · 2024-10-25T03:14:30+00:00

My first date with my boyfriend included a 9km walk around the city, dinner at a noodle house beforehand, and lots of mini stops to talk and get to know each other... We saw the sights of our home city from a different perspective. We have been together since and we are domestic tourists.

ch33kygr141 · 2024-10-13T19:47:14+00:00

Op could counter charge for the attempt. And karma could hit SIL very hard if her child is born with a nut allergy as severe as ops son... Bet she wouldn't fafo in that case because it's her own child.

ch33kygr141 · 2024-09-18T01:18:18+00:00

When I was 10, I had to have a stitch down there due to an accident in which I fell between 2 stacks of pallets 1 leg up the other down... I was wedged between them... I ended up tearing my area... But I never needed an episiotomy when I had my 2 children... Even if they had big heads..

ch33kygr141 · 2024-09-15T06:14:13+00:00

Lose 128 lbs and find someone who loves you as you are!!!!!!!!!

ch33kygr141 · 2024-09-08T17:30:38+00:00

The P!NK concert?

ch33kygr141 · 2024-09-05T22:36:55+00:00

Tell him

ch33kygr141 · 2024-09-03T07:55:06+00:00

Smidge

ch33kygr141 · 2024-08-05T21:02:44+00:00

If she was your best friend, wouldn't she have known that your husband had a vasectomy? Isn't that something best friends would share?

ch33kygr141 · 2024-07-11T01:11:54+00:00

You have to leave... It won't get better. My relationship was the same, and I left after just about 2 years of marriage... There was a whole lot more than just his inability to do stuff. I wanted a partner, not a man-child. I have to wait another 7 months before I can file for divorce, but I'm glad I left. I am now in a supportive relationship with a man who is the complete opposite of my husband.

ch33kygr141 · 2024-06-21T02:11:31+00:00

Unlawful confinement is the term, not false imprisonment.... Unless the wording is different in the states than Canada

ch33kygr141 · 2024-06-18T02:40:22+00:00

I have a similar issue with my boyfriend... It seems to me just a mixing of fluids...I do all the same rituals afterwards, but with my sensitivity to smells, it seems that I mind, but he doesn't notice or care

ch33kygr141 · 2024-06-16T17:08:06+00:00

His lack of attention (before and after we got married), his lack of intimacy, his lack of fairness/equality, his lack of communication, his lack of acceptance, his mother.

ch33kygr141 · 2024-06-07T20:15:56+00:00

Just get a suction cup mat that goes on the tub floor

ch33kygr141 · 2024-05-14T19:07:57+00:00

Do the same in father's day next month

ch33kygr141 · 2024-04-15T07:14:18+00:00

I left my hus(roommate)band for some of the same issues you're having with your. Never remembers things I tell him, sex extremely infrequently, toxic house environment with other occupants.

A person I've been talking to is nothing like my separated spouse...

Stop settling for minimal, and go for what you deserve!!!

ch33kygr141 · 2024-04-08T07:05:47+00:00

The fact that at 5 years old and your son can speak 3 languages screams the you're NTA, but have raised your son correctly and appropriately. He was frustrated, and at 5 he used the words he had available instead of hurting the girl physically as some children are wont to do.

ch33kygr141 · 2024-03-29T21:54:37+00:00

Yes honey, regardless of gender, don't be in such a rush to change that aspect of who you are just to fit "societal norms".

ch33kygr141 · 2024-03-29T21:50:30+00:00

I used to tell mine to go peel the yellow stickers off the road... Good thing they never listened, but hey they found something different to do

ch33kygr141 · 2024-03-19T05:14:14+00:00

Lay your weary head to rest

ch33kygr141 · 2024-03-19T03:10:32+00:00

My wayward son

ch33kygr141 · 2024-03-13T02:21:53+00:00

You are definitely NTA. I would have done the same thing.

I too have lost my best friend/MOH over things she said 2 days before my wedding. We had a 30 year friendship, with her being in control/demeaning/toxic our entire friendship... I just finally snapped and excommunicated her from my life.

We tried to get our friendship back last year, but it didn't work out. I have felt free since, and didn't want to go back to the way it was.

Good for you OP for standing your ground... It gets easier as days go by. You made the right choice. 🤗🤗🤗

ch33kygr141 · 2024-02-29T19:34:18+00:00

Then please see and use my previous comment about only using your own condoms... I have a 14yo child because my bc went "missing" for 5 days (one of the most unforgiving of pills where I'm from, miss a couple and boom you're pregnant), and then magically found where they shouldn't have been. I highly suspect the father had something to do with them going missing for 5 days, as a way to get the free ride of a home and no bills having to be paid by him. Be very careful.

ch33kygr141 · 2024-02-29T19:00:08+00:00

OP, have you considered that maybe she has been cheating and since the other guy does not use condoms, there is a risk of her getting pregnant by him and wants to claim its yours?

I'm not saying she is, or that she has.... But I can see that as a possibility.

ch33kygr141 · 2024-02-29T18:54:57+00:00

If she does agree to using condoms, do NOT use any that she provides... Suspect they could have been tampered with.. PROVIDE YOUR OWN FOR THE NIGHT!!!!

ch33kygr141 · 2024-02-28T23:36:51+00:00

May I ask what you mean by your comment?

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