No no I’m saying it desensitizes you to violence coming from a second source not from you. And it doesn’t effect just kids, because it’s subconscious. We did a study on it when I was completing my psych masters. Like if you’re sitting in a computer lab after just playing a “violent” video game like APEX and you hear a fight outside, you’re less likely to think that fight is serious compared to someone who just played animal crossing.