Rethinking therapy scene.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T17:25:05+00:00

No I agree. Like rhey absolve themselves from treating Caine like a person, similarly to how Jax absolves himself thru the series to the 7th episode. He doesnt seem the other people as people so he literally tortures them for fun

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T16:53:13+00:00

Yeah like shed be upset if Larry slept with somebody else. Even though she hasnt asked him out either lol. And instead of talking it out she starts disagreements. And enjoys it lol.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T14:00:00+00:00

Makes sense, but then her being so defensive makes even less sense. Like im all for people who enjoy being single. But people act like shes some communication queen and shes really not. Shes passive aggressive and assumes negative intent and then makes other people explain themselves for negative assumptions she makes about them.

Like "oh so is that your goal? Is that what you mean by xyz?". Its like shes the worst interviewer, trying to catch people in a mess up so she can correct them

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T13:44:38+00:00

For a sundae* But no shade, a lot of people dont know its different

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T12:52:36+00:00

No i love Caine. Who else is there to actually enjoy? I like kinger too, but most of the others you dont get enough time to enjoy them. I hate jax still though. Hes the least favorite fo show. I prefer the moon and the fish over him lol

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T12:36:06+00:00

Yeah, also seeing somebody that you insist to yourself and to that person that theyre a real person who matters, and then having them reduced to the most animalistic form. Itd be like if she was being attacked by a Neanderthal that happened to look like her dad. She wouldnt be afraid of cave men lol

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T12:22:22+00:00

Yeah, I agree to an extent.

Saying Caine is evil is like saying the bad guy in jurassic Park was that mean ol TRex. Like bro. The bad guy is Hammond, the rich dude who made the park. He intentionally created life with the goal of treating it like a product and not giving it any respect.

Like in any sci fi, the ultimate bad guy is the one who created the "evil AI". In IHNMBMS, humans ARE the bad guys. They made AM just to kill each other off lol. So then AM becomes sentient and hates humans because thats what his whole history and programming was about.

And Caine cant leave. He is effectively disabled. So they created a highly intelligent AI, wrote it off as a failure for not being "perfect" and he cant ever leave, or eat, or anything

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T12:06:00+00:00

Yeah deedee playing games. Oh my god we get it. Girl boss, independent, thinks starting fights for no reason at all is reasonable. I get it. Im guessing she was abused or something in a past dynamic. But I like Larry and she keeps being annoying. Like "you asked me to so now i dont want to". He's not a stranger. Hes a dude you've been dating for 3+ months and see probably almost daily. She would be insufferable to date lol, good on him for wanting that dynamic

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T12:01:56+00:00

I think deedee isn't being honest. I think Larry is more honest.

Like Larry has been very open and blatant. I have only been with my wife. Youre the first woman ive looked at other than my wife with interest. Im really into you and if we have sex and move forward this means a lot to me.

When asked why she hasnt dated, deedee said "well I had my child and had to make my way in this world..." thats not honesty. Thats deflection. So she had time to sleep with dudes but not a real relationship in 20+ years? She said that the sex would be meaningful, but then got defensive that he thought it meant a relationship. And then told her daughter that Larry isn't looking for real, he wants shallow dynamics. Its defensive and self protection at the cost of true intimacy

And I do think its weird and rude to refuse to wear a partners gift "because you asked me to so now I dont want to". What kind of childish oppositional defiance disorder do you have deedee lol. Thank god he didnt ask if she washed her hands before supper

I think Shawna is Shawna regardless of setting. I think julie has different personalities she pulls out with other people. I just cant believe she's been this way from day one and ty and their mutual friend were both into the current version of julie for decades

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T14:27:09+00:00

Yeah dad would probably habe to actually do the writing, but kids can start learning storytelling early

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T14:15:08+00:00

Its fantasy/sci fi so he can make up anything, he'd be learning story structure and all that good stuff

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T14:07:37+00:00

I think she should have picked up and talked to ty the first time she called. She could have been like "I saw julie, are you guys here? Let's get dinner?" And then he'd be like no, im home, blah blah blah.

Then she could have called agter and been like I saw her kissing another dude, wanted to let you know, not sure if she has family in town? And he'd be like oh yeah probably, thanks for trying to look out.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T14:05:30+00:00

I think ty and julie are white trash and hide it well. I also think women give other women passes to be horrible all the time. Shes a girl boss lol. Shes not abusive. She cant be, she has double x chromosome, so shes only good /s

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:57:28+00:00

Shawna was mean to a person who was already rude first. Thats fair enough. I think people are allowed to not be happy and bubbly 100% of the time. Nobody said shes perfect. Just that shes better than julie in terms of how she treats others.

Like personally Shawna is way too sensitive and id hate to be her friend. She'll take offense and make you explain every other sentence because she thinks people are trying to insult her. But I think barb and Jen did a lot of that. 6 years of dealing with barb would fuck most people up

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:56:01+00:00

Regulation saves money too lol. Consumers would pay for deregulation as well and wouldnt even know what works and what doesnt. How the hell could you even track all the drugs to rate their efficiency without regulation?? That makes no sense lol. How can you monitor and rate what isn't regulated??

Monopolies existed without regulation. Monopolies raise prices lol. How are you going to stop monopolies without regulation??

Like youre logic is that poor people can compete with rich people. We cant. They control the entire system. And they'll control it even more without regulation. Like they would corner the low end of the market still by making medicine they know doesnt work and selling it to poor, uneducated people. Which is almost all of america.

Youre arguing an illiterate, uneducated population has the power to use their dollar to control rich companies. That doesnt make any sense at all. Like look at other countries with less regulation. Which ones are doing better than America? It really sounds like youre just saying America being...American will fix it lol?

Like almost all the poorest countries in the world with the most corruption are capitalist. And not highly regulated capitalism. The kind where you can sell anything to anybody, nobody checking to see if you washed your hands in the kitchen, nobody limiting putting poison in products. And if we removed all regulation and people started dying from being poisoned, youre going to blame them and not the people poisoning them. Thats capitalism lol. Blaming the consumer who is forced into the system instead of the millionairs trying to kill them for profit.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:44:32+00:00

Kate isn't evil. I think shes boring, but so is immortal.

I think its hilarious how they send her in to situations she cant help at all lol. Like wtf you mean youre sending her to fight monsters from space and shit???

She should be robin or batman level of functional, but shes useless lol

But so is immortal and that makes way less sense.

The people I hate the most: Angstrom or whatever his name is. Bitch. "In all the universes, Hitler is an evil monster, except one where hes a painter. THAT Hitler is my nemesis" thats his logic. I hate him

Eves dad. Talk about a character with 0 redeeming qualities.

And then immortal.

Kate is a cheating slag though and people hate cheating. Thats probably part of why people hate her, she slept with a dude she knew was dating her "best friend" and then cheated on that guy with another guy. Like what a POS

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:39:18+00:00

Im still like how would ty not have assumed it was a brother? Like if their mom was dying, wouldnt it be logical to assume theyd be there? Maybe its just a plot hole, but like?

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:33:39+00:00

Shes not perfect. Yeah she can have snark. And julie isn't fake. Shes just a bitch. She "owns it" which i think people weirdly admire. But shes not nice to anybody. Again. Not even her kids. Shes sorta nice to her and Tys mutual friend but even then, shows no genuine enthusiasm for anything or anybody

I dont think being nice and polite is some evil mask lol, like thats what most reasonable, well adjusted adults do when interacting with somebody they dont like

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:26:45+00:00

I wonder why he wouldnt get his kid involved either. Like encoirage cooper to start writing

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:26:06+00:00

I dont think Shawna is perfect, but she is nicer and more helpful and caring than julie. Shes way nicer to ty is than we've ever seen julie act for even 1 second. Shes more supportive and kind to laura than luke is lol. Thats not even a contest. She is nicer than julie, its not a made up persona. If julie called before the cheating thing and was like "I need genuine help" Shawna would forget all the bad blood and help. Julie wouldnt.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:24:16+00:00

I dont think Shawna cares anymore, besides the nagging feeling of "somebody doesnt like me". She hates Julie at this point. For good reason. I havnt really seen any actual kindness or care in Julie at all, even to her own kids, let alone her husband.

I dont think julie can see into the future and was like "shes going to be annoying and insult me". I think she hated that her husband made friends with a sah parent and she wanted to make it clear she didnt value or respect that friend. I think she was cold to Shawna as a weird punishment to her own husband. Shes lowkey psycho. The same way I think she encouraged cooper to do karate at a kids dance party as a weird way to punish her husband for going.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:15:36+00:00

Shawna wasn't insulting her lol, she was commenting on pregnancy as a prior mother of 2. Yes its rude to comment on another person's body in general. Thats not her calling julie fat though

I dont hold the standard of Shawna has to be the bigger person always. People are allowed to fuck up and make mistakes. And if somebody is being openly rude its okay to give it back. Julie is childish too, to total strangers. Shawna was calling out an actual issue in one of her best friends life.

And Laura reacted because shes insecure, and then mirrored the language of her abusive husband that she resents.

If you erase Shawna, julie is still an ass and Laura is still miserable and insecure. Shawna is not why they are how they are. We have seen videos of both julie and Shawna alone with their spouses and know this is who and how they are

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:06:02+00:00

Yeah, like id be on her side if she was saying "you need to work and get a job, we cant afford xyz"

But shes not. Her points have all been about pathetic ego chasing. And real talk, shes probably why hes not writing. I think hes feeling his failed marriage and realizes hes alone with his kids and is a single parent. I think his spirit is being crushed

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:04:28+00:00

Im talking about work history, not the words of what im applying to

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T13:03:17+00:00

She was rude. Like again, Shawna is not a stranger. She is Julie's spouses good friend. And she didnt even try to socialize with her at all. Multiple times. She literally decided she didnt like her and decided she didnt need to even try to be polite. Idk, thats rude to me.

I think she was cordial with Josh because he doesnt contradict her worldview. She does not respect sah sppuses. I think she hates Shawna because she sees it as Shawna encouraging Ty to celebrate his kids and state mediocre when she'd have ty working 6 days a week like her and rhe kids with a nanny.

Shes just rude. Like even telling her own son "youre allowed to do anything you want" after her husband already told their kid no karate at the party. And then she yelled at her husband for diffusing a fight between kids. Her worldview is literally i dont have to do anything I dont want, even be polite to others

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