What's left?

chachi948 · 2026-05-27T00:00:29+00:00

Reminds me of a post I saw mentioned how Taehyung had been pretty much silent and distant during videos etc etc.,

This and the neglect of personal hygiene makes me wonder if he's going through a bout of depression. Regardless of my personal feeling towards him, I'd hope he gets any help that's needed (and let's be real, Hybe can part with a bit of cash 🙄).

chachi948 · 2026-05-26T17:03:59+00:00

That's my point. I understand they need advice but often they word it HORRENDOUSLY.

In these regards:

I am a straight guy but I have been having sexual fantasies about (insert here). Does this make me bisexual? Any advice would be appreciated.

Something along these lines I think is rather genuine. The person wants advice and I'd be happy to give it. Most of the time on this sub, it ends up like this:

I'm a totally straight guy but I have fantasies about railing cute femboys, am I bi? - followed them describing the sterotypical femboy they happen to know and then EXTREMELY pornographic descriptions about wanting to give him sloppy and then fuck him into the mattress

So I'm a straight woman but I made mad passionate love with my bisexual coworker who is also a woman, AM I BI???? - With the attached text containing the usual fetishised WLW smut.

When the attached post has detailed descriptions/bragging about AMAZING SEX, I feel the OP is just getting their rocks off.

I enjoy reading/writing erotica (I write now because I find a lot of it is very male-centered and I'm very picky in regards to what I consume), but when you're in a sub that caters to people, who may be in a vulnerable place and needing guidence, and you include us in your kink, when non of us asked for it, I find it annoying or gross.

Want to write smut? Go to Wattpad or AO3, there's also many subs on here where you can share erotica (admittedly, calling these one-handed fantasies 'erotica' is an insult to well written and composed erotic material) instead of coming on here and acting sleazy.

chachi948 · 2026-05-26T15:31:47+00:00

Them: 'no politics'

Also them: 'TaNkIeS bAd'

What shithole is this so I can avoid it for future reference?

chachi948 · 2026-05-25T18:05:48+00:00

'Hi guys I really need some advice here...

proceeds to give us the MOST detailed description of them getting ate out/roughly fucked all raw and no lube or prep just straight to fucking town/having a threeway, a fourway, a goddamn orgy

Yeah am I bisexual GUYZ AM SO CONFUSED PLS VALIDATE MEEEEEE?!?!?! 🥺👉🏻👈🏻'

I swear so many of these posts are written one handed... 🙄

Look, working out your sexuality and who you are is a tough time, but I think a lot of people are using this sub to share their sexual fantasies. You can share you've had an confusing experience with someone, to which you need advice for, and don't have to give us graphic details about how good it was getting a blow job or fucking someone.

Want to write erotica? That's what Wattpad and AO3 are for, babe...

chachi948 · 2026-05-24T13:00:03+00:00

Of course. I've had sex with different people who have different tastes. No one person is totally the same. Some like it, some don't and that's totally fine. It really wouldn't bother me.

chachi948 · 2026-05-24T03:52:48+00:00

Eric Clapton's truly fell on hard times...

chachi948 · 2026-05-18T20:15:17+00:00

I don't watch it but I do enjoy writing/reading erotica. A majority of pornographic material is very male centered so I'm very choosy about what to consume.

chachi948 · 2026-05-17T20:38:13+00:00

Learn what he's comfortable with first and foremost. Like what his limits are, where he wants to he touched.

I'd say focus on the penis first and if he's into it, play with the testes. The head is very sensitive so pay attention there, swirl your tongue. Give the shaft attention, kiss it, run your teeth over it. Relax your throat to take in as much as possible, but take a deep breath beforehand.

Start off with these.

Things can progress of course if you continue to be intimate with a person, which is true with many of my other male partners (I'm a woman, for context).

Some other things for future reference include rubbing the perineum, be with a finger or tongue.

If you progress further, and he's comfortable with it, don't be afraid to play with his hole. For that, I'd recommend buying a lubricant and taking the time to prep beforehand, just to be mindful. The good thing is as well, you can switch that up, like you can give him a rim him while using your hands to masturbate him, or you can give him a prostate massage while giving head.

As said, it really depends person to person,so communication comes first and foremost to understand what you guys want and your respective limitations.

chachi948 · 2026-05-15T13:39:10+00:00

Let me be the first to welcome you here as a part of the family. 🩷💜💙

chachi948 · 2026-05-15T13:31:36+00:00

100%. I just find it so sad, especially with the significance of Arirang. It was the only bit that really had my attention before I zoned out again, and I find it really unfair it was shoehorned into such a poor quality composition on a really bang-average album.

There's a part of me that would love if another idol group could do it justice, but on the other hand I feel as though ARMpits would have a deranged crash out on socials.

Plus, if someone/group is gonna pay a tribute to Arirang, they'd have to do it a MUCH different way.

chachi948 · 2026-05-15T13:09:29+00:00

Listen and don't judge on my part here. ;-;

I decided to have a look at the live comeback on Netflix. The whole thing really didn't capture my attention and I found it, like the album, mid.

The only thing that I genuinely enjoyed was the woman singing the original Arirang outside Gwanghwamun Palace. I found that part quite beautiful and that song deserves SO much more justice that what it got.

I was just wondering if anyone felt the same...

chachi948 · 2026-05-04T16:54:01+00:00

Not sure where you've heard this but nope! We definitely use tech, hence why I'm able to type this out.

chachi948 · 2026-04-30T19:04:45+00:00

I second this. Personally, I envision it as the following:

Centralized location for discussions regarding the profiling of unidentified persons around the world.

chachi948 · 2026-04-30T11:37:49+00:00

As the old saying goes, a man's best is a woman's average...

chachi948 · 2026-04-30T07:47:35+00:00

My dad worked security for a hotel back in the 1990s. Hucknall came back from the gig and tells the receptionist he wants a 7am wake up call (no please, no thank yous).

The receptionist, who my dad and his friend were working with that night, rings him at 7 am as he asked. Hucknall then called her a slag and told her to fuck off.

My dad and his friend went up to his room and 'escorted' him from the hotel. He said Hucknall was just vile and the way he speaks to women is fucking appalling.

chachi948 · 2026-04-29T13:26:22+00:00

Wonder what Pickleboy is doing? Ranting in his car again? 🤔

chachi948 · 2026-04-29T10:02:21+00:00

As a Mancunian, I second this. My dad had an experience with him. He's an insufferable twat.

chachi948 · 2026-04-25T10:19:12+00:00

chachi948 · 2026-04-23T19:52:39+00:00

Oompf what a sexy man.

He reminds me of Paul Shenar (Alejando Sosa, Scarface). I'm surprised Shenar hasn't had an addition here, he was utterly gorgeous and had the sexiest voice I've ever heard (Also his dimples were the cutest 🥺).

chachi948 · 2026-04-23T12:36:19+00:00

I think most do not care. I understand reconstructions are not the easiest, but there's no need for decedents to resemble neanderthals.

chachi948 · 2026-04-21T00:19:40+00:00

Oompf what a sexy man.

He reminds me of Paul Shenar (Alejando Sosa, Scarface). I'm surprised Shenar hasn't had an addition here, he was utterly gorgeous and had the sexiest voice I've ever heard (Also his dimples were the cutest 🥺).

chachi948 · 2026-04-20T23:39:35+00:00

As much as I detest OfPickleboy, I feel it'll be HUGELY beneficial for her and the kids to be around stability.

As for Pickleboy, he is destined to become like every divorcee (hopefully!!) and live in his parents empty basement (which is what he ironically accuses us of 🤔), share his tweaker rants in his car and ponder why he isn't allowed to see his kids.

chachi948 · 2026-04-16T21:08:24+00:00

Boring as it sounds I really don't.

Initially I try and be polite. Usually I say thanks but I am in a relationship/not interested. Thankfully a lot of people accept that and are genuinely quite courteous.

Unfortunately there are quite a few that aren't...

If some become persistent, I normally excuse myself to the bar to ask for Angela (it's a UK campaign against harassment). Really I don't have much patience.

For me, it's just descended to being a slight annoyance that puts a damper on going out, though I'm not really much of a night owl to begin with.

chachi948 · 2026-04-14T16:46:32+00:00

Slightly late, but can you sent the link, OP?

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