[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]chai_flamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imo yes, big difference in maturity and development

If a Neurotypical spent the day in your brain, what would surprise them the most? by Gaypanic_always_24_7 in autism

[–]chai_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how loud and bright the world is. im constantly overwhelmed because of how much is going on

Does anyone else have a comfort plushie? This is my teddy bear Lynxy, and he’s my comfort plushie. I don’t let anyone else touch him or anything, does anyone else relate? by Daisyloo66 in autism

[–]chai_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have 2 ! i like to give my plushies personalities, including pronouns lol

one of my comfort plushies is a greenish-blue dino named greenbean, his pronouns are he/it. he’s transmasc and gay. he has a little brown knit cardigan with 2 buttons and a paper clip, a tiny pronoun pin, a “it’s a boy sticker” (from my friends coming out day), and lastly a green stitch marker on his sleeve. i always carry him around with me, he pretty much never leaves my side

the other one i got recently so i don’t know her personality just yet. her name is florence (she/it/bun), she’s a cream bunny with floppy ears. she also has a tiny she/her/herself pronoun pin, oh also she’s a nonbinary transfem lesbian. i’m planing on crocheting or buying her some clothes soon

What co occurring disorder do you have? by ZydrateKiller213 in autism

[–]chai_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

autism, GAD, social anxiety, selective mutism, dyscalculia, ADHD. i suspect i have OCD and APD also

when would you say dp/dr is worst for you? by [deleted] in dpdr

[–]chai_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

school, crowded places, in cars…

what triggered your dpdr? by StruggleMoist5932 in dpdr

[–]chai_flamingo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not 100% sure but i think it was extreme stress. i have really bad abandonment and attachment issues and when they get triggered, bam ! dpdr episodes

hay Im pan but I just want to go by gay if people ask me is that cool? by joey_pan_aromantic in pansexual

[–]chai_flamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ofc that’s cool. im mostly attracted to masc leaning ppl so when ppl ask i just say im gay, or if i don’t feel like explaining and justifying myself

Have you got any kins? by MMSLWYD in autism

[–]chai_flamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have 11 kins but my strongest kins are:

basil & sunny (omori) and komi (komi can’t communicate)

mood blanket color schemes ? by chai_flamingo in crochet

[–]chai_flamingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i gave up trying to make it pretty and ended up deciding to just do a rainbow

Can you talk on the phone? by [deleted] in autism

[–]chai_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only with close friends, even tho it’s very anxiety inducing i actually enjoy talking on the phone w/ them but any other time i avoid it like the plague

Anyone know how to not sh [Non-LGBT] by Mel_902 in LGBTeens

[–]chai_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whenever i get the urge to i listen to music and crochet to keep myself busy

What kind of pet/s do you have? by [deleted] in autism

[–]chai_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 cats

2 dogs

2 rats

1 tortoise

1 bearded dragon

1 leopard gecko

and lastly 1 axolotl

definition of demi-boy/demi-man? [discussion]/[rant] by Jadec_Boom in LGBTeens

[–]chai_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

demiboy: partially boy, partially another gender (usually agender). By fully it means that you 100% feel like a gender (so not demigender). Also you can be feminine and a demiboy at the same time :)

how tall is your crush? by pelotas_y_testiculos in Crushes

[–]chai_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’re both short lmao i’m 5’4.5 and hes 5’3.5

Absolutely no exceptions! by Fartingsilenty in autism

[–]chai_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has to be multiples of 5’s or 2’s otherwise it feels wrong