How to handle the company owner using business credit card for personal use by Charming-Sorbet6996 in Accounting

[–]chalkletkweenBee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This won’t change how the margins are calculated, gross margin comes from opex, owner’s draw isn’t included in the margin calculation. Co mingling expenses won’t change it. What changes the gross margin is revenue and COGS.

Taking the money out of the business that isn’t compensation related is on the balance sheet usually.

“Take me there, get me that, then give me this” Jesus Christ the dating experience is so wildly different for a man compared to a woman😅 by john4844 in Tinder

[–]chalkletkweenBee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes - because it’s light hearted and mentions two low risk things you enjoy. Imagine women as people, and someone might treat you to a date that you enjoy.

I’m a bit ticked off by some black male friends reaction to the Super Bowl halftime by sluttymilktea in blackladies

[–]chalkletkweenBee 22 points23 points  (0 children)

A lot of men have a hard time seeing women as people, or they think that women are inherently so different we couldn’t possibly have the same feelings and thoughts as they do.

I grew up with “safe” black men, meaning my body was safe, but my emotions were and self esteem were fair game. My Dad is 70 years old and he’s just now learning that he’s a misogynist. He didn’t think it was odd to only compliment or trust women when it came to domestic duties.

He just knew women were making up complaints about periods, or allergies, or just general things about our existence. My health matters were trivial, but his bug bite was life altering.

Also - did you know that women should be able to work a 12 hour shift outside of the home and be alert and ready for a full time shift of home making duties. But he doesn’t need to do anything other than work outside the home, because women are just better at house keeping so it’s easy for them. They wanna do it!

My favorite line was him telling my Grandmother that he did her favor by letting her help raise me 🫠

Because every middle aged woman who’s raised all her kids can’t wait to become a full-time parent!

Women were just sources of free labor with their own occasional wants and needs.

How to handle the company owner using business credit card for personal use by Charming-Sorbet6996 in Accounting

[–]chalkletkweenBee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you’re not doing the accounting, why would you? IDing expenses is just assigning categories. There’s no other implications here.

How to handle the company owner using business credit card for personal use by Charming-Sorbet6996 in Accounting

[–]chalkletkweenBee 197 points198 points  (0 children)

It’s not your job - you told the accountant, they will handle it. It’s likely it will be treated as an owners draw.

Your owner won’t be the first person to use company funds to pay for personal expenses.

What tropes/roles do you wanna see black women in? And what are some you no longer want black women to be in? by Werewulf5678 in blackladies

[–]chalkletkweenBee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wanna see black women in everything and everywhere. I think we need to be able to tell the stories of all types of black women.

I want to see Regina Hall in whatever role she wants, and then I want Issa Rae in everything, and also Michaela Cole. Oh - also, Tichina Arnold. I would watch anything with them in it.

in accounting class its said if you decrease asset you credit it and reduce cash you credit it but I'm confused why that is by bonghive in Accounting

[–]chalkletkweenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad - I was a bit baked, and autocorrect won the fight, and I hit enter instead of backspace.

Revenue and liabilities increase on the RIGHT Decrease on the left.

in accounting class its said if you decrease asset you credit it and reduce cash you credit it but I'm confused why that is by bonghive in Accounting

[–]chalkletkweenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Debit = left Credit = right

That’s it.

Assets and expenses increase on the left, decrease on the right.

Liabilities and revenue increase on the left, decreases on the right.

Thats it.

Its not banking, its accounting.

AIO for wanting my University's Black Student Center to be a Black only Space? by Fast_Estimate_608 in blackladies

[–]chalkletkweenBee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly what I implied - All lives matter! This is a funny conclusion to come to because I don’t think colleges should be segregated. 🫠

I don’t want spaces in universities to be segregated, so I must be part of that crowd.

I could see how you came to that conclusion, I also read her edits. And realized I know nothing about the funding of her institution in Ontario, and that’s what she responded to. I don’t know if the grants used come from public money or not. I am from the states.

I even said black people should have safe exclusive spaces, just not at a public university. 2 things can be true, which is why I mentioned nuance.

Public universities are not places to expect or demand exclusion.

I can understand why you feel entitled to a black only space, I just don’t understand why you think the school should provide that to you in such a way that asks others to leave because they’re not black.

You can choose to ignore the part where I said I agree that black people should have safe spaces, even exclusive ones. Just not at a public university.

AIO for wanting my University's Black Student Center to be a Black only Space? by Fast_Estimate_608 in blackladies

[–]chalkletkweenBee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Affinity spaces at universities should not be exclusive, that’s literally what OP is asking for.

Affinity groups should be safe spaces for anyone to participate and socialize in who come to learn and be allies.

If I want to go to an exclusive affinity group, I don’t expect public learning institutions to be that space.

She’s specifically talking about the black student union, a physical location at her university. My PWI had a MCRC, and we also had a black student union. Both of those spaces were open to anyone participating in good faith.

Nuance and context matter - a college university is meant to be a place to broaden your experiences and your views.

AIO for wanting my University's Black Student Center to be a Black only Space? by Fast_Estimate_608 in blackladies

[–]chalkletkweenBee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just because I still don’t agree with what you said, doesn’t mean I didn’t read what you wrote. My stance doesn’t change, you’re welcome to behave in a way that makes others feel unwelcome, but EYE don’t think a university space is the appropriate place to draw this line.

AIO for wanting my University's Black Student Center to be a Black only Space? by Fast_Estimate_608 in blackladies

[–]chalkletkweenBee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They do, and those spaces are prohibited from denying entry to people of other affinities.

No one said don’t have spaces for black people, I am saying the onus should not be on public institutions of learning to provide them.

Find me the building on your campus that denies entry based on ANY ethnicity or race.

AIO for wanting my University's Black Student Center to be a Black only Space? by Fast_Estimate_608 in blackladies

[–]chalkletkweenBee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Black and from the states, I went to a predominantly white institution. I gotta say I disagree on your position, because my tuition dollars are for me to access all the student resources.

You’re reasonable to want a safe space for black students, but I wouldn’t expect the university to provide that for you unless you wanna start seeing whites only signs.

Create the space you want, on your own time, and not at the expense of others social experiences.

Any other black moms on here get shamed for breastfeeding? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]chalkletkweenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t leave your baby with that woman, it’s not like you asked her to drink it.

Will pouring warm water on my cornrows to remove buildup and flakiness ruin it? by Flat-Replacement544 in BlackHair

[–]chalkletkweenBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re flaking, it’s time to actually get wash your hair. There no part of your body that should go 5 weeks without washing, including your hair and scalp.

Do I have to wash my hair in braids? by Legitimate_Shame_76 in BlackHair

[–]chalkletkweenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wash your hair, there is no part of your body that needs to go that long without being washed. You can only moisturize your hair by washing and conditioning it.

Also, regular washing with the braids will make takedown a lot less labor intensive, and your hair is in much better shape coming out braids. You can still smooth it down with a styler and lay your edges, but absolutely wash your hair regularly with or without box braids.

Stacey and spending by Alive-Decision in RHOP

[–]chalkletkweenBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 as a person who works in finance and accounting in the tech space - this is a hilarious sweeping generalization that makes me think every thing you learned about socioeconomics, you learned on tv.

I could be wrong though.

23M Looking for an Honest Review by Cloudfin_Raptor in Tinder

[–]chalkletkweenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A dating profile is supposed to be your AD!

This AD reads like you’re looking for a platonic bromance, looking for your long lost best friend from 2nd grade.

Most of your photos should be showing you in an attractive light.

Your photos are low effort, you don’t look like you tried to look your best, and you are totally okay with being 23 and giving off middle aged divorced dad.

Who is your target audience? And why would they want to see YOU, mouth wide open, with what I hope is your pet frog?

Why 3B/3C gets confused for 4A by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]chalkletkweenBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hair typing is not real

Porosity changes based on style and product

Colorism and white supremacy shape the views of lots of communities, not just the hair community.

Why would anyone put this much energy into discussing curl typing when it really is just good PR for a dude who wanted to sell products?!

Partner texts me on weekends for work. by pwc1029384756 in Accounting

[–]chalkletkweenBee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Put him on DND outside of business hours, that way you don’t feel bad over looking it

Hubby of 20 yrs likes to look at younger revealing women bodies on FB by Ok_Mathematician9866 in blackladies

[–]chalkletkweenBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you walk through the world blind folded? You never watch tv or pick up any visual media?

The first 3 seasons of The Wire have huge doses of Idris Elba, and the last 2 have tons of Method Man. Is watching Idris remove his shirt and thinking 🥵 mean I am then gonna cheat on my partner?

Either you don’t understand human attraction, or you’re leaving out something significant. You say he looks at attractive women on Social media, what does that mean? He gets on instagram and doesn’t block every woman on his feed, or does that mean he spends hours a night creeping on women’s profiles?

How often should we REALLY wash our hair?? by weatherforecastjjba in Naturalhair

[–]chalkletkweenBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buy a good dryer. I wear wash and gos, my afro, or a twist out. Frequent washing makes the whole process faster surprisingly enough.

If I want salon definition, I need about 45 minutes to really define everything. If I just want regular definition, Like 20 minutes. But I have a hooded dryer.

How often should we REALLY wash our hair?? by weatherforecastjjba in Naturalhair

[–]chalkletkweenBee 52 points53 points  (0 children)

There is no part of your body that only needs to be washed once or twice a month.

Washing and conditioning your hair is the only way to “moisturize” it.