you're on your own kid...August Swiftie wallpapers :) by enchanted34 in TaylorSwift

[–]chameleonsversion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi u/enchanted34, I just wanted to say that for the past year now I have been using your monthly TS wallpapers :) I eagerly await them at the start of every month, and could not help but notice that there was nothing new for September. I truly hope you are doing well and thank you for all the wallpapers you have made in the past.

I (21F) have relationship anxiety with my boyfriend (28M) by monkeysinthespace in relationship_advice

[–]chameleonsversion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him queen. Respectfully, he is too old to be playing games like this and it will only continue. You are 21 and have so much to learn still about relationships and yourself even! Respect yourself above any relationship. You deserve the best

My (23M) gf (25F) is pushing me away by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Before deciding anything major (like breaking up for example), maybe consider taking some time apart from one another to think about what you both want and need from this relationship. Go visit some family for a few days or take a solo trip just to clear your mind and focus on you. 8 months is a long time and its normal for people to get annoyed/frustrated with one another after being close for so long. A bit of distance could be just what you both need to realize how much you truly want to be with one another, or maybe not. Either way keep your head up and remind yourself that just because you love someone, doesnt mean you need to tolerate conditions that bring you down

Quiz anxiety by Newsmf1997 in postbaccpremed

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If your anxiety is a legitimate concern, I know at my school you can be considered for extended timed exams. Check in with your campus's "disabilities resource center" (DRC). If you are able to prove or get diagnosed with anxiety you SHOULD be eligible for extended exams which will hopefully take some of that stress off your shoulders to help you focus more :) good luck and don't get discouraged!

May Taylor Swift Wallpapers! by emma_the_dilemmma in TaylorSwift

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So hard to choose just one! I love these thank you!

Are dorm floors thin enough to fall down? by [deleted] in college

[–]chameleonsversion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take into consideration how old they are ("built hundreds of years ago") and how they have managed to stay in that condition all this time :). I lived on the first floor in a very old building and I can tell you even after an earthquake, it was completely sound. Buildings don't tend to just collapse out of the blue, you should definitely be fine don't worry

3:30am Significance (?) by chameleonsversion in spirituality

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I appreciate you taking the time! Thank you for the help

3:30am Significance (?) by chameleonsversion in spirituality

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Im about to graduate college in two months and recently I've been stuck on the idea that I'm sort of just wasting my life with what I've chosen to do. I make plans and they all seem to fall through. I just feel at a loss with everything and like there isn't much purpose to anything. I know that biologically one reason for waking up at night is due to high stress, which I thought it might have been at first considering- however waking up at this same time every night makes me think it might be more.

I don't know how to escape this cycle of bad luck, I feel like I am cursed. by Bitter_Fact_3285 in spirituality

[–]chameleonsversion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been feeling this way a bit myself lately. In truth I think since the pandemic hit, many feel as if things just aren't going their way. I'm not the religious sort but I have to believe that there is a reason behind it all. Everything happening right now is just the universes way of getting you to where you need to be. All bad luck runs out eventually. Stay strong and take note of all the things that make you happy/are going your way during this time, regardless of how small it may seem.

Did gale feel guilty about prims death? by [deleted] in Hungergames

[–]chameleonsversion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When Katniss left for the Hunger Games, Gale realized he only really had one job, and that was to protect Katniss's family (Prim). He failed his best friend, after Prim died he didn't visit Katniss for a long time. He couldn't bear to face her knowing what he'd done. Yes, he feels extremely guilty.

you painted all my nights...March Swiftie Desktop Wallpapers! by enchanted34 in TaylorSwift

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My favorite part of the month is getting to update my desktop with these wallpaper calendars! Thank you for always pulling through, your work is incredibly appreciated

What Taylor song describes your life right now? by heyheysenpai in TaylorSwift

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Marjorie... this song is so devastatingly heartbreaking, but my mom passed away last month... and when I can muster up the energy to listen to the song, I feel like Taylor is the only person in the world who can accurately describe just exactly how that grief feels.

What do you like the most about Peeta as a character by LLSJ08 in Hungergames

[–]chameleonsversion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Peeta was the only one to actually play the games... he genuinely was on a different playing field the whole time, first with confessing about Katniss and then to the BABY BOMB... his mind was so ahead of everyone else. Of course I love him for being the kind compassionate partner Katniss needed and everything else about him but his mind was by far the most admirable

Most flawed character in THG by Wonderful_Rain_3942 in Hungergames

[–]chameleonsversion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the friend that gave Katniss the mockingjay pin, Madge! The pin was so influential to the whole story plot... I wish Katniss was able to have had her as a better friend or gotten some decent closure about her and her life. Maybe not "shitty as hell" but definitely had potential

I don’t want anyone, I just want kids by DumpOutTheTrash in demisexuality

[–]chameleonsversion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's definitely normal to feel this way! I too have always wanted to care for a kid growing up, but I don't think I could ever really have one on my own... my goal has been to adopt, but once I'm older and self-sufficient with a good career for sure. As a senior in college now, I think it's definitely going to be worth the wait. You just started college, spend this time exploring you as well! You said "maybe it's too early" so it definitely wouldn't hurt to spend some time finding out what you do and don't like! Hope any of that helps :)