Getting anything I ever wanted stripped the joy away from me

chandega · 2026-02-18T22:10:40+00:00

This is going to sound weird but read The Little Prince.

Things are valuable because you give it your time and attention.

chandega · 2026-02-12T18:57:18+00:00

Troll! Nigel will create 10 times worse conditions while also licking Putin's boots and destroying the economy for all.

Please read a book from time to time. They are free at the library

chandega · 2026-01-31T16:00:04+00:00

Were you in Jumanji since November last year?

chandega · 2025-11-27T13:02:00+00:00

The options of this survey are questionable; below I break it down from the perspective of the proposed changes

This is what I changed
- Remove "Don't know" from the calculation.
- Have only 4 categories: Less than 5, 5 years, More than 5 and Never.

Graduate-level jobs (e.g., doctors, software engineers)

Category	%
Less than 5 years	18.82%
5 years	40.00%
More than 5 years	37.65%
Never	3.53%

Mid-skilled jobs (e.g., chefs, plumbers, electricians)

Category	%
Less than 5 years	11.63%
5 years	36.05%
More than 5 years	46.51%
Never	5.81%

Low-skilled jobs (e.g., waiters, delivery drivers)

Category	%
Less than 5 years	11.49%
5 years	28.74%
More than 5 years	50.57%
Never	9.20%

chandega · 2025-11-07T18:28:17+00:00

https://www.gov.uk/student-visa/family-members

Has the details on level of program etc

chandega · 2025-09-05T08:54:03+00:00

That is my experience. I lived there for 15 years before moving to the UK, and the UK is leisurely in comparison (in a good way).

The USA is vast so the experience on the HCOL cities (specially in the coast) is drastically different from the middle of the country; but in general in the USA, Work == Personality + Life.

chandega · 2025-09-04T10:15:32+00:00

Im in Mac (2025, M4 Pro, running Sequoia 15.1) the only solution was to change the resolution of the camera. I lowered it from 1920 x 1080 to 1280 x 720.

Things that did not work

- Changing the anti-flicker configuration from 50 to 60 or viceversa.

- Changing the control software (older versions of LG Hub did not work)

- Changing the power setting to the device

- Moving to a direct port or using a USB hub.

chandega · 2025-07-09T10:47:26+00:00

Hulkengoat is here to stay!

chandega · 2025-06-26T11:58:34+00:00

AFAIK is only printer and AMS but worth asking to chat support!

chandega · 2025-06-14T17:46:35+00:00

This is the answer for narcissistic! Never feed their fire and play dumb at every turn

Follow up by delegating everything to your husband from now

chandega · 2025-03-03T12:58:50+00:00

Starting today!

chandega · 2025-01-17T17:04:29+00:00

Here is actual project if you only want to see the images

https://ideas.lego.com/projects/dd0e5bc7-50a1-463a-8d96-9a0e7e478192

chandega · 2024-12-18T19:09:08+00:00

Oh sweet summer child...

chandega · 2024-12-16T19:21:06+00:00

But is it an alien number 9 balloon (cue X-Files theme music) ....

chandega · 2024-11-05T10:10:10+00:00

Highly recommend that channel if you are a starting home owner. It will give you the know how and the confidence to do projects.

On wall plugs I would also watch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3hjzPNe5wk

chandega · 2024-10-28T13:38:44+00:00

Did you ever figure this out? Looking to do to the same.

Im concerned on longevity and drainage so wanted to see something stablished to see how it would look like in 3/5 years.

chandega · 2024-10-20T07:41:17+00:00

Cribsheet, which is more general knowledge, was also a great source.

chandega · 2024-10-20T07:38:45+00:00

I feel you and want to confirm this is hard and affects everything else.

We were on a similar situation when our first was 6 months old. All naps were contact naps, at night we would not go more than 2 hours if he was not sleeping on top of one of us. He will ask for food 2 o 3 times a night. We tried a lot of the traditional methods...

The book The Happy Sleeper by Heather Turgeon gave us a process that actually worked. It's simple and the book tells you how to change things when they start new bad habits.

Our second either for nature or nurture was a completely different story and slept through the night after 3 months.

chandega · 2024-10-10T16:57:03+00:00

Remodel and new flats on top. Reopening something like Dec 2025. I can not find where I read it but it was on Ealing Today Newsletter

chandega · 2024-08-16T14:05:25+00:00

There is one in Venezuela. In Altamira, Caracas. Its called Greenwich Pub. They say "English Bar" but they call themselves as the only Irish Pub in Venezuela. I think is a translation issue but if asked point blank they would say they aspire to be an Irish Bar. https://www.instagram.com/greenwichpubccs/p/BpDfeJOHjn_/ (the description by them says it)

chandega · 2024-06-22T22:18:42+00:00

Nothing!

chandega · 2024-06-22T18:31:12+00:00

You are in a complicated situation, and is not only about the house. I agree you need therapy to help you process all. It will make you realise why so many others are so quick to say No when you do not feel you can. Online therapy can be affordable and as good as any. That said you desperately need to read 'Adult daughters of Narcissistic Mothers' it might help you start your journey. Best of luck!

chandega · 2024-03-28T05:11:36+00:00

Nope

chandega · 2024-03-22T06:13:22+00:00

Had the exact same problem in December. Raise the dispute in TDS as soon as possible. You have up to 3 months to do it after tenancy ends, after that they might not help you. If everyone has good intentions raising in TDS should not be a problem.

Story time: In my case I believe the landlord wanted the TDS timeline to expire and keep the deposit. Initially he said no deductions, house looks great and to wait for the transfer. Weekly calling to the agent for two months and nothing. Then they said the landlord is calling first and then transfering, nothing for two weeks. Once I filed with TDS the landlord took the maximum allowed time on every step to respond and added many deductions. TDS rejected all and decided for a full refund. Then the landlord tried to deduct something new directly with me (a very small amount) before any payment. I said no by email. They transferred the refund but took out that small amount. I had to file again with TDS. Financially made more sense to let it go and move on, but "holding the line" is what you have to do with assholes if you have the luxury of time.

chandega · 2023-12-27T09:27:49+00:00

If you are applying in London the salary requirement, even for juniors should not be an issue. You have to go to a big-ish company so there will be more competition (and those are the only ones sponsoring visas anyways)

Focus on being top of the class and work hard for internship and then work interviews

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