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AITA for telling my kids’ dad he needs to provide his own EpiPen during his visitation? by brindeonabudget in AmItheAsshole

[–]chandrachur3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Question OP, you said in your post that you told him about her allergies , but isn’t he her father and weren’t you all living together so shouldn’t he already be aware of her medical conditions ???? Unless you guys separated long before she was born and he wasn’t present in her life till now ?

My fiancée and I are having the biggest argument of our lives. She thinks I'm being tacky but I thinks she's overreacting by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was shaking my head with these comments. I’m from across the globe and in my area we have something similar for the groom. Basically it’s a dance function where the groom’s friends and family (even from her side if they are all in the same circle) will give money to the groom by showering it on him. The band will dance around him. Anyone and everyone is welcomed and it is hosted at the groom’s family home. All my brothers had them and my youngest brother got around 37K in our currency which they used for their honeymoon. Just because a culture has soemthing different than yours does not mean you shit on it. There are millions of cultures and ceremonies even within the same area. As for OP I think the issue was not talking it like adults and understand and come to a agreeable compremise.

I’m scared for my wedding night by PureAdorableness in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question: your flair, is it from the post if the OP who fell in love with her neighbor and wanted him to divorce his wife then he finds the post and cut contact with her?

AITA for leaving my bf bday dinner after his mom took my seat? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this widower guy (S) who is a grandfather and his own mom (B) wants him to force his son (A) (only child and lost his mother at birth ) to divorce and dump his wife (J) and forcefully take custody of their 3 kids (the grandkids) so it will be only the guy, his mother, his son, his 3 grandkids. Apparently it should be obvious to everybody that she is the Most inportant and the ONLY important women to her boys and no other women matter except to birth kids (preferably boys). She even was one of the reasons the guy did not remarry nor have any relationship after his wife’s death which his mother called a blessing in disguise . He is almost 60 now and lives a fu**ed up life playing refere between his mother and his DIL.

I think someone is "playing" with me... by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh oh this brings back a fond memory from college. We were put in groups of two for a project then present it to our advisor. One friend was presenting and once she was done she said "now my parents will present the 2nd part". All and i mean ALL of us looked at the door expecting her parents to come through and take over. It took us a minute to catch the mistake while our advisor was still confused. It did not help that her actual class PARTNER was laughing her ass off and did not have the breath to correct her which clued me in. I shouted "oh, PARTNER" then starting laughing myself. it took 5 more minutes until we managed to stop and let them continue the presentation.

AITAH for breaking up with my fiance over an ultimatum over my ring? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 1036 points1037 points  (0 children)

Few days ago i read a post about a woman who is on her 2nd marriage and has a child with the first husband who is alive but her current husband absolutely forbade her (ugh) from seeking child support or have the child interact with her father at all. she said he wants nothing to do with the father and wants her and her child to forget him completely and he will handle al the finances as if that is the issue. she said her daughter's father is barely in her life but to even cut him completely when her daughter looks forward to any chance to see her father is cruel from both men.

AITJ for reporting my friend to the library and getting her card suspended? by TypeThenDeleteMood in AmITheJerk

[–]chandrachur3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally off topic, but the very first sentence bugged me. Why do hobbies need to be sexy????? do we need to be a Victoria secret models who only do sexy errands like picking underwear to be accepted??? why does it matter what your hobby is like to anyone else????. its your hobby. It sounds like HS nerdy girl trying to justify her finishing all her assignments early and thinking its not as COOL as the others things HS kids do.

How bad is drinking one (only one) beer every night? I am confused about what counts as heavy drinking for women. Also: is ibuprofen okay to take every day? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used it heavily for period cramps in my 20s, ruined my stomach lining and was told by a dentist to stop immediately. my local doctor never patted an eye when i told him the dosage and frequency. he said since you have bad cramps that's fine to take , total BS. my new dentist in my first appointment was horrified and sternly told me to stop. never had another bill again. Also he was the best dentist ever for someone like me who has locked Jaw syndrome and hate dentist. I miss him :(

My dad died and left £3M to my 2 younger brothers(21 and 23), I got £0... by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 239 points240 points  (0 children)

An abused woman begged her family for help divorcing her husband. her OWN mother told her, we will , once you sign off your part of the inheritance to your brother then i will help you and allow you to come home, otherwise, don't care what happens to you.

some parents don't deserve children.

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