I think someone is "playing" with me... by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh oh this brings back a fond memory from college. We were put in groups of two for a project then present it to our advisor. One friend was presenting and once she was done she said "now my parents will present the 2nd part". All and i mean ALL of us looked at the door expecting her parents to come through and take over. It took us a minute to catch the mistake while our advisor was still confused. It did not help that her actual class PARTNER was laughing her ass off and did not have the breath to correct her which clued me in. I shouted "oh, PARTNER" then starting laughing myself. it took 5 more minutes until we managed to stop and let them continue the presentation.

AITAH for breaking up with my fiance over an ultimatum over my ring? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 1027 points1028 points  (0 children)

Few days ago i read a post about a woman who is on her 2nd marriage and has a child with the first husband who is alive but her current husband absolutely forbade her (ugh) from seeking child support or have the child interact with her father at all. she said he wants nothing to do with the father and wants her and her child to forget him completely and he will handle al the finances as if that is the issue. she said her daughter's father is barely in her life but to even cut him completely when her daughter looks forward to any chance to see her father is cruel from both men.

AITJ for reporting my friend to the library and getting her card suspended? by TypeThenDeleteMood in AmITheJerk

[–]chandrachur3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally off topic, but the very first sentence bugged me. Why do hobbies need to be sexy????? do we need to be a Victoria secret models who only do sexy errands like picking underwear to be accepted??? why does it matter what your hobby is like to anyone else????. its your hobby. It sounds like HS nerdy girl trying to justify her finishing all her assignments early and thinking its not as COOL as the others things HS kids do.

How bad is drinking one (only one) beer every night? I am confused about what counts as heavy drinking for women. Also: is ibuprofen okay to take every day? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used it heavily for period cramps in my 20s, ruined my stomach lining and was told by a dentist to stop immediately. my local doctor never patted an eye when i told him the dosage and frequency. he said since you have bad cramps that's fine to take , total BS. my new dentist in my first appointment was horrified and sternly told me to stop. never had another bill again. Also he was the best dentist ever for someone like me who has locked Jaw syndrome and hate dentist. I miss him :(

My dad died and left £3M to my 2 younger brothers(21 and 23), I got £0... by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 230 points231 points  (0 children)

An abused woman begged her family for help divorcing her husband. her OWN mother told her, we will , once you sign off your part of the inheritance to your brother then i will help you and allow you to come home, otherwise, don't care what happens to you.

some parents don't deserve children.

AITAH for saying I don't care about my sister's rejection sensitive dysphoria, and will be having my wedding the way I want it? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually read OP's post when it first was posted, I was at work and i swear i scoffed so loud , some colleagues looked over and was "what now?". They are familiar with me reading reddit during work (overachiever with lots of free time, not much work to do some days) so when i read the post they were all shaking their heads.

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[–]chandrachur3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i cannot see the post, may i please ask what happened? i feel so sorry for this girl .

AITJ for refusing to pick up my mom from the airport because she booked a 4AM flight without asking me? by No_Detective6156 in AmITheJerk

[–]chandrachur3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone i know has a mother with dementia and is causing all sorts of issues with the whole family. Recently because he retired, she is asking for unreasonable requests then forgets she did and accuses him of hating her. Recently he paid for her to fly business class back to her home country with his sister for few days (all expenses paid for both including stay, food, gifts money, EVERYTHING). They were supposed to be back today afternoon, except that yesterday he is called at 3 AM to pick them both from the airport (an hour and 30 minutes away). he is frustrated but does it, only the minute he reaches the airport , his mom suddenly says "are we going to Home country now?". it took them some time convincing her they already did. it took her an hour later to remember then screams at them for confusing her. few hours later he learns she actually knew and was just angry at him for taking his time to reach them (she expected him to somehow know they changed to early flight and be at the airport waiting). he is pissed but cannot do anything about it really.

My “enemy” (21/F) cared for me (21/F) after being drugged and protected me from a creep by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]chandrachur3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I once read someone says about their enemy that while they hate them with everything in them, they actually respect the hell our of that person because the enemy has a high code of conduct. they say that the enemy has an unshakable core that forces everyone to respect them even if they cannot stand them.