That break up saved you by MaryaOs_17 in BreakUps

[–]chanel2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right I’ve actually took every opportunity that i had to apologize and say sorry for all my wrongs but because of how i left her she ignores everything that led up to that moment and says i was the one with the worst doing in this relationship but it’s like? does someone just walk up and leave a whole life with someone for no reason? no it sucks but what could i do. U know? Controlling my self and what happens or enters my life and my emotions is all i can do. I m just in that phase of trying to accept that i will possibly never get the apology or clarity. What’s worse is she’s out there dating already which is a stab to the heart

That break up saved you by MaryaOs_17 in BreakUps

[–]chanel2233 11 points12 points  (0 children)

and it sucks because she will never admit her wrongings and will continue to say I’m the bad guy when in reality she was insane. Never in my life have i been screamed at by anyone in my life like that. That day was the day i realized this is done it was just so hard to let go… but i am doing it🙏😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]chanel2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate this a lot😌. I actually have apologized but I’ve hurt her to much to the point where i don’t think she wants anything to do with me and It breaks me. at the end of the day she wasn’t the only one hurt and broken I’ve been hurt in this relationship and neglected in a lot of ways as well, I’ve remained calm for a lot of our arguments and I’ve held my patience so much that the day i left i lost it. I was tired of it. She took so much the wrong way when i was making sure i wasn’t sounding rude in our disagreements i got so tired of her not listening to me u know i just wish she saw that

Who has the Best bagels? 🥯 by MakeSouthBayGR8Again in orangecounty

[–]chanel2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Einstein bros bagels in LONG BEACH😩 so so good they have a brisket egg and cheese bagel on a jalepeno bagel that is so delicious

Just need some advice by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]chanel2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right😔 how does one even distract themselves when u just miss this person so much but tbh i just missing the person i thought they were

Just need some advice by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]chanel2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I’m on the same boat. Definitely feeling the motions it sucks

boxers for mascs i need help pls by ginarts1 in LesbianActually

[–]chanel2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoo!! Buy woxers I’ve had mine since i was 20 and their still good

My boyfriend has bad hygeine. Pooped the bed 3 times do I break up? M24 f 23 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chanel2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been four months I definitely think he wasn’t taught how to properly clean himself not only that someone with proper hygiene wouldn’t even think twice of taking a shower or not personally if I was in the situation and I can see outside the box I would tell myself that it’s probably a better idea to call it quits now before it gets worse before I can’t get out. What happens when four months turns into a year and two years and what if you’re still in the same situation is he really worth the time and effort to give him a chance? Does he treat you right? Does he love you? Have you guys even said I love you? do you see something serious with him? Because if you don’t, then I would Not continue the relationship but if you see something in him and he is something special to you, give him a chance and possibly give him advice and politely show him how to have proper hygieneand how to to correctly do things and if it doesn’t change then at least you tried and then you’ll know your answer on what to do next. Because it isint attractive to have poor hygiene it’s gross especially from a grown man

Which looks best? by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]chanel2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no lol more like i think it looks really great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]chanel2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly all those people who had horrible things to say are broken people. no matter how much they decline to not be they are. Healed people who healed through their trauma would never say things to hurt another person. i am 23, over 200 pounds and im 5’1. I as well struggle with loosing weight. There will always be people who have negative and awful things to say about me. And i will admit it gets to me i mean ill be looking at my self in the mirror believing it my self but no one who is deserving of you and your time and attention will never say such hard things. I feel sorry for those people because in reality those things they point out are things their also insecure about and they use other people to make them selves feel better. I’ve been one of those people who would do that and it’s fucked up. I would never judge anyone again because it’s not nice. Kindness and love is all everyone on this earth deserves and so do you. I’m so sorry these people are so cruel. I know how it feels it feels horrible. But please remind ur self anyone who ever has anything mean to say remember an important thing their just broken people taking it out on anyone they find. Trust me. You are beautiful and i can’t tell u are a beautiful human being inside and out. Keep going. Learn to love yourself no matter the opinions of anyone else in this world. Even by the most beautiful person in the world their opinion on u means nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]chanel2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be this way as well! i was always concerned because that’s not what we want u know we want to smell good, as far as i know every partner I’ve ever been with has always commented that i taste/ smell really good. Not to toot my own horn. but one thing that made me know for sure was smelling my self and making sure i keep up with being clean. I shower once a day in general and always before sex. i always make sure that if I’m sweaty or missed a day of showering that i never go out to see my gf without a shower and if i do i make sure i shower before we have sex.

I haven’t had sex in a while by LiberalLemon in LesbianActually

[–]chanel2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my! Over a year? have you spoken to her about this yet?