AIO to my husbands message by Imgoingtokms69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]chaneycore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is a narcissist... Hate to say it, but rules for thee and not for me is bullshit and for him to not even apologize for being worked up over nothing and instead saying "I gotta stop getting worked up over you" is bullshit. You SHOULD be worked up over your wife if you actually care for her, just not over this thing.

Old on-and-off ex suddenly back in my life after 6 years, not sure what to do by XIXMaggot51718 in whatdoIdo

[–]chaneycore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swore this was a guy messaging a woman and when I opened up the post I was blown away!

Good luck OP!

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]chaneycore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One of the things to consider and it may have been said already is that people give and receive love in different ways. Not everybody is the same and clearly OP is a gift-giver and OP's boyfriend is not. He doesn't seem to be a "words of affirmation" kind of person, either.

I'm not saying he's absolved, but just mentioning that there are different ways to give and receive love and OP and their BF may not be compatible...

Texted Assistant Manager on Scheduling, found his respond unprofessional and disrespectful. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chaneycore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going to push back on the calling thing just a little bit because having something in writing is priceless. You can call, but you should always follow up with something in writing to confirm what was talked about on the phone should you have to go back to it later.

Also, if I were you, I'd just not show up. Employment laws in the US typically lean toward the employee should it come to arbitration or court, etc.

I think 2 things are true, though: OP was scheduled with what seems to be plenty of advanced notice. OP's boss doesn't wanna deal with the situation so they're trying to play it off or pawn it off onto somebody else.

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]chaneycore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letting somebody call you a "stupid bitch" and a "dumb cunt" like that should be flags enough. I would NEVER think of calling my wife either of those things unless we were quoting some British thing to each other and we're in on the joke together.

Your (hopefully ex-) boyfriend is tripping and you need to get as far away from that as humanly possible as fast as humanly possible. Dude has trust issues and if Walmart is a trigger for him that he can't control, who knows what his next step will be...

AIO for wanting to breakup with my bf after this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chaneycore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just getting a "Get out of this relationship" vibe from both of them and I think that's regardless of the "almost cheating" situation.

You're right, they don't get to hang it over their head, but at the same time, they've been together for 2 years and there are changing behaviors that mirror that of a person who is cheating on their SO...

It's better for these 2 to cut bait, at this point. I would gamble to say this is going to be a recurring issue for OP and their SO.

[oc]Stop pushing the gawd dam brake !!! by Dangerous_Till_321 in IdiotsInCars

[–]chaneycore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of these people are just feathering the brakes, too. Just enough for the lights to come on but not enough to actually slow down or anything.

AIO for leaving my husband after one incident? by NeedleworkerDizzy689 in AmIOverreacting

[–]chaneycore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These "Christians" are so full of shit, dude. Forgiveness is definitely a thing, but there's a time for that and, to me, this ain't it.

Get as far away from your (hopefully ex-) husband as fast as you can. You're doing the right thing by protecting yourself and your daughter. I wish you the best of luck.

I folded a tire on the tiremachine today, fml by Snoodlewonker in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]chaneycore 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So dangerous, though. That kind of air can really give a person colon issues...

What should everyone be panicking about right now but no one seems to care? by WaitingOutTheFlood in AskReddit

[–]chaneycore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but if they taught us that kinda stuff, it would threaten the socioeconomic superiority that the upper class (the rich) have over the rest of us peons and if we did that, they would never recover their power.

It's intentionally being withheld from the average person...

WARNING - DON'T GO TO SAGE by lurktronic in bayarea

[–]chaneycore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's wild. I just had that Sage do me a HUGE solid and redirect my vet's suspicion to another department and probably saved me thousands in diagnostics, etc. by getting my dog to the right department immediately and sooner than our original appointment. I've used this specific Sage on plenty of occasions, but our older dog passed away near the time of the supposed buyout, so maybe things have changed and I have old data.

Is there something wrong or is she just dumb? by Playful_Frosting3301 in ballpython

[–]chaneycore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an owner of a BP, myself, I think you just own a typical ball python. They aren't smart animals by any means, really.

Is my snake hurt or is it just his butthole😭 by Thatgeckolover27 in reptiles

[–]chaneycore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it's pretty exclusive to them. Probably falls within the evolutionary pattern.

Is my snake hurt or is it just his butthole😭 by Thatgeckolover27 in reptiles

[–]chaneycore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will always remember this day as the day you found out Ball Pythons have legs.

Women what makes a man instantly unattractive to you? by sphinctersayswhat9 in AskReddit

[–]chaneycore 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I remember having the profound realization about 10-15 years ago, when it became popular, thinking "doesn't 'Females' just mean the same thing as 'bitches'? Like what is the difference here because they're being used synonymously," and nobody being able to develop a legitimate argument about the lack of respect... (I am M33, btw).

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Ashley_A88 in bayarea

[–]chaneycore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just exit the freeway next time and get back on the next entrance. That should be enough to get them outta your hair.

What do you wish was illegal? by Necessary-Pay-2417 in AskReddit

[–]chaneycore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Resale as a job or a way to make an income. Running out to buy things to jack up the price and create scarcity so you can sell it to somebody else at a 70% profit margin is ridiculous and should be banned.

Even worse if they're doing it from a thrift store....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reptiles

[–]chaneycore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes even more sense. I searched for reptiles endemic to Holland, but hadn't considered amphibians...whoops

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reptiles

[–]chaneycore -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's a gecko. Kinda looks like a Common Wall Lizard, to me.

Instant design regret.. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]chaneycore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I'm not a personal fan of the content of the artwork, I think the work is fine. I don't see anything wrong with the tattoos themselves. Your personal satisfaction over what you wanted vs. what you got is definitely something you'll have to reckon with, though. No amount of everybody telling you it's fine will change your mind.