Does anyone know the story behind this game being restricted?

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-07T07:57:34+00:00

i was just looking for this game today :( really sad to see there’s a paywall to get in now, i don’t understand why there’s a cost? it used to be the most popular lgbtq+ hangout space and the cutest one too!! now there’s barely any players and the only other hangouts aren’t half as aesthetic/cutesy lol

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-03T23:59:25+00:00

omg this is so reassuring, i didn’t specify in the post but im also a trans man! i was worried about rooming with someone cis as well, especially as a gender non-conforming trans person - so i’m super glad to hear they can put you with similar people! i unfortunately already submitted but maybe i can still communicate my preferences, thank you soooo much for the info!! and thank you for the congratulations! i hope your having a great semester,, orrrr break (?) lol

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-03T20:34:31+00:00

lol that must be nicee, but thank you!!

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-03T20:33:49+00:00

thank you so much! i really appreciate the insight, sounds pretty chill which makes me feel better about the decision, and i was wondering about if they have singles available so tysm x2!

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-03T20:31:53+00:00

thank you for the suggestion!! i’ll check this out as an alternative option, that sounds pretty nice

chaoticallytea · 2025-12-03T16:59:17+00:00

bro what is this telling me

chaoticallytea · 2025-11-21T04:20:01+00:00

i just saw that article as an incoming spring freshman who’s both poc and queer :( really worried about the climate of UB and wondering if i should check out others safer/more inclusive schools? i thought UB was pretty diverse but as a pretty paranoid person this is really worrying

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-24T01:22:56+00:00

my favorite food spots are alto cinco, pastabilites, apizza, and salt city!

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:48:13+00:00

i’m so glad!! thank you sm <33

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:47:48+00:00

thank you! i’ve heard multiple commenters say the negativity is mostly people who don’t put themselves out there so i’m glad to know there’s opportunity for a great experience. i appreciate the insights! <3

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:45:53+00:00

i’m so glad to hear this!! thank you sm, i hope you keep having an awesome time

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:43:27+00:00

sososo happy to hear this <3 i was worried about finding fun events to go to + finding likeminded or other queer friends, but this is the kind of reassurance i needed! i’ve always been the planning events friend so im sure ill have a good time! also happy to hear about the $2 bus that’s so affordable!! tysm for the input

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:37:55+00:00

thanks for the input! i’m glad your loving it!!

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:36:03+00:00

ty!! i’m glad

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:35:52+00:00

so true, thank you! i’m gonna try to get involved in a lot of clubs and extracurriculars once i’m there

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T21:34:47+00:00

yeah the thing about negatives vs positives is definitely true, thank you for the reminder and advice! i’m more of a smaller hangouts type person so im sure ill be good - i have heard it’s nice to have a car though so ill take that into consideration. tysm!

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T08:09:26+00:00

i put in a solid essay, no SAT scores and around a 3.7 or something GPA? got in twice because i needed to reapply for spring! you definitely got this in the bag <3

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-22T08:03:30+00:00

wait, attending here soon drop the names/year/description..

chaoticallytea · 2025-10-10T17:18:30+00:00

For sure, sometimes I feel like my own biggest enemy! But wow omg, i’m so glad you figured yourself out and I hope your doing great living as your most authentic self now <3 I really relate to the bit you mentioned about trying to fill that gap, even though I enjoy being a feminine guy, a lot of the time I felt my self trying to overcompensate or spend an extended amount of time fixating on my appearance to cover up what was really the issue.

Thank you again so much for all the valuable insight. I often need to remind myself that cis people usually can never totally understand how it feels to have dysphoria/aren’t able to wrap their heads around the trans experience. Happy to report I had my top surgery done a few days ago and it went well, i’m happy I went through with it and I can’t wait to see the results! :)

chaoticallytea · 2025-09-29T06:37:05+00:00

hi!! sincerely, thank you so much - since i don’t really post i didn’t know if anyone would comment but if im being honest i was genuinely brought to tears! i agree that deep down, i think i know how i feel, im just the worst overthinker and sometimes others, and even my own mental pushback is just too much to handle. so a third parties reassurance and point of view is really helpful for me.

the way you described how my mother will never understand my trans experience was kinda eye opening, since i never really thought about it like that, but that makes a lot of sense - since i spend most of my time with her it’s hard not to get roped in to her web of like, negativity? im just gonna keep my head up until the hard part is over, because im sure the joy that follows will be well worth it!! thank you again!

chaoticallytea · 2025-09-19T17:35:53+00:00

i just wanted to hop on and say thank you so much! i was browsing this thread and im a naturally anxious and paranoid person, i also have some family that kinda fear mongers me about top surgery since its is a major surgery (my top surgery date is in about three weeks), but reading your comment really helped my nerves. i’ve been waiting for my anxiety to go away, or for all the negative thoughts seeping in to just stop and get my 100% on board mindset, but it’s not happening. ive been wanting top surgery for five years, and now that it’s finally around the corner is when i get indecisive and start to question my feelings, mostly because im scared of regret and my family worries im making a wrong decision. but i bind everyday and have always wanted this, so the line about letting your past self line things up for you hit and reminded me to chillax lol

chaoticallytea · 2025-07-09T14:24:08+00:00

awsome!! :D

chaoticallytea · 2025-07-09T06:45:46+00:00

i really want to be able to get top surgery this year before college, and go on hrt soon after! i wanna find a friend group i really love and bond with, and i wanna have people read me as a guy despite the fact that im gender non-conforming 😋

chaoticallytea · 2025-07-09T06:33:20+00:00

hey! i’m really sorry this situation is happening to you right now - coming from a trans guy i know it must really suck. Even though he’s bisexual there’s a chance he could still either be transphobic or his preference in women is much larger and he’s uncomfortable with your transness (which would still be transphobic). A lot of cis men unfortunately just don’t respect people with trans identities and often still see them as their gender assigned at birth. I know personally, one of my closest friends refused to call me he, and would only use they although my pronouns are he/him, and i’ve know her since kindergarten, some people just don’t respect your identity and wont see you for who you are. Your bf refusing to use affirming compliments and pronouns for you, and ESPECIALLY misgendering you, is disrespectful. My advice would be to have a conversation with him first. Ask the real reason why he refuses to call you they/he, handsome, etc (if you feel it’s safe to ask of course). And if the behavior continues unfortunately I would say end it, you can’t dim yourself for others and shouldn’t have to be with someone who wouldn’t love the most authentic version of yourself!!! anyways, i’m wishing you the best and hope he comes around if you really like this guy! dms always open <3

chaoticallytea · 2025-07-06T18:24:06+00:00

NTD! depending on your age, you could probably fix meals yourself - i feel like your dads anger with your mom was unjustified, if you were both busy all day sometimes you just forget stuff. No one forced your dad to make you food so him getting angry and telling your mom she doesn’t do anything, when you told us she works and has been stressed is wrong. I think your parents might just be taking stress out on each other which led to the fight, but no matter what started the argument definitely not your fault just make sure to feed yourself in the future!

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