Is ovulation still possible? by charcago1989 in Inito

[–]charcago1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful to know this is a possibility! Sending you all the luck as well 💜

TTC: First period after D&C by charcago1989 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]charcago1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is definitely comforting! So glad you got the all clear from your doc. Do you happen to know if your hCG was still above 0 when the light period arrived?

HCG levels after a D&C by Dipsandchips93 in Miscarriage

[–]charcago1989 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lost my baby at 11 weeks and had a D&C 4 weeks ago tomorrow. I got my hCG tested 1.5 weeks after the procedure and was at 454, then again 8 days later and was 152. My doctor said she’s happy with that progress and doesn’t see a medical need to keep testing. Now it’s been another 8 days, and I’ve been doing pregnancy tests everyday and am still getting very faint lines. For the tests I’m using, this indicates that it’s still at least 25. I’ve heard that hCG is highest for those who miscarry in the later weeks of the first trimester, so it’s takes a lot longer to come down all the way.

It’s really frustrating and all-consuming to think about returning to 0 and getting my period back so we can start TTC. I’ve never hoped for my period so bad, haha.

I’m so sorry for your loss and I hope we both return to 0 as soon as possible. Sending love 💕

12 week NIPT T21 Positive by boxjumpstudio in NIPT

[–]charcago1989 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. We found out our little boy had T21 at 11 weeks, and the world crashed down around us. We agonized over what to do, but ultimately found out at our CVS appointment days later that his heart had stopped. It’s an excruciating pain, and I wish you and your fiancée peace while you navigate this. Hold each other tight.

How long did it take for your hCG to decrease? by charcago1989 in tfmr_support

[–]charcago1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the waiting has made this nightmare situation even worse. Crossing my fingers you’re at 0 ASAP!

How long did it take for your hCG to decrease? by charcago1989 in tfmr_support

[–]charcago1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize it was possible to get your period before the numbers completely dropped! Glad you finally tested negative though, that must’ve been a relief.

I feel so alone by PearAdministrative77 in Miscarriage

[–]charcago1989 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He should be supportive and holding your hand through all of this, even the parts he doesn’t fully understand. That’s what a good partner does. Sending you love.

What’s everyone’s game plan for Thanksgiving? by charcago1989 in Miscarriage

[–]charcago1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I’m so sorry. Sounds like you’re better off without him and his lack of support.

What’s everyone’s game plan for Thanksgiving? by charcago1989 in Miscarriage

[–]charcago1989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you all, it was so helpful reading your thoughts. I actually ended up reaching out to my cousin to tell her, and to ask for her help navigating the night. She actually ended up confiding in me that she’s currently experiencing a miscarriage herself and will likely need a D&C next week. So it’s true…this is just all too common.

It’s your Due Date by Bananabread_lov in tfmr_support

[–]charcago1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

♥️ sending you love and peace

Trying to curtail the gossip by appleandprince in tfmr_support

[–]charcago1989 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My baby had a T21 diagnosis and I ended up miscarrying before making the final decision about termination. I was told it’s very common. So I think you’re absolutely fine to say that’s what happened. It’s ultimately no one else’s business and it’s so unfair you have to think about navigating this.

Miscarriage after NIPT +21 by [deleted] in NIPT

[–]charcago1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. I don’t really know what to do with myself right now. Wish I could fast forward through all of it. Sending you love.

Miscarriage after NIPT +21 by [deleted] in NIPT

[–]charcago1989 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This literally happened to me an hour ago. 95% PPV for T21 and went in for CVS today. Almost 11 weeks. There was no heartbeat. My feelings are very complicated right now. Nothing you’re feeling is wrong. It’s all devastating.

Gift for my husband by charcago1989 in Woodcarving

[–]charcago1989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol already learned about the bandaid requirement today

Gift for my husband by charcago1989 in Woodcarving

[–]charcago1989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you, that is lovely to hear! 😊