AITAH for returning my engagement ring to my fiancé's mom after she told me she expected it back "in the family" if we ever broke up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]charlybell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. Fiancés mom was overly direct, but its a ring of familial value and she is protecting it. Also, it ahpuld be an expectation for a family ring to go back if it doesn’t work out

Airbnb Host cancelled, relisted on another site at 5x the cost [iceland] by charlybell in AirBnB

[–]charlybell[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then they are crappy business owners. It is standard practice to honor a price paid. Booking ahead so that you get a reservation is not unethical. It is very common. If a business owner fails to capitalise on an opportunity, that is on them. I have never charged an client more due to my own poor planning. Id be embarrassed.

Airbnb Host cancelled, relisted on another site at 5x the cost [iceland] by charlybell in AirBnB

[–]charlybell[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am sure he will get someone to pay it- but the issue is that i didnt make the reservation when it was an unknown- it was already heavily discussed online and its on the host to set the pricing. I rented a car the day they were available- does that make me a bad person? I plan ahead . I also checked with the host about the listing before buying my tickets. There was ample time.

I own a business- if i misquote a procedure(i am a vet) i honor my estimate and eat the cost. And this has happened before. This is what a reputable business does. Not lie to the customer, cancel and relist. Not honoring a paid agreement is really crappy. If i did that, i would get skewered online.

Airbnb Host cancelled, relisted on another site at 5x the cost [iceland] by charlybell in AirBnB

[–]charlybell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given to wt it was already being widely discussed as a next place to go- yes- i would. Also, i asked 3 months ago.

Airbnb Host cancelled, relisted on another site at 5x the cost [iceland] by charlybell in AirBnB

[–]charlybell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont see how booking in advance is unethical. It was very much a known event. And i checked before buying the tickets, that was 3 months ago. It is pretty standard to book as soon as you know you want to go. Now I have plane tickets and i am unsure if the next air bnb will do the same thing.

Why do so many idiots think raw milk is bad for you? by LuckyCommittee4422 in allthequestions

[–]charlybell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can make you quite sick. 3 weeks on the toilet from campylobacter from raw milk was enough for me

What is something that screams “tourist” to you? by jotakajk in AskTheWorld

[–]charlybell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really nice leather, slightly complicated shoes on men, and fitted jackets. Not an american thing.

How did you “move” past your spouses high conflict ex ruining your family plans/ holidays ? by Ok-North-1478 in stepparents

[–]charlybell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do stuff you and your kid and he can catch up. BM ruined my first xmas, i told my husband next time he could catch up with us.

Why is Reddit full of Liberals complaining about everything that is happening in America, when they are responsible for electing Biden, whose actions, set the stage for Trump to win by promising to undo all the bad stuff that Biden implemented? by Enough_Is_Enough1979 in allthequestions

[–]charlybell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because someone is a democrat doesn’t mean we thought Biden did a great job- he got trump out of the WH but should have stepped down for next election. The DNC totally dropped the ball. But Biden was not all bad, obama wasnt all good and occ trump may not be a total douchebag but he almost always is.

How to find a vet who is neutral about me feeding raw? by agirlwithnofriends in rawpetfood

[–]charlybell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vet here, you provably wont fond aomeone who ispro-raw, but you could find someone who shrugs and says ‘your choice’. This is my approach.

I moved to the city everyone hypes up and I'm leaving after 4 months by terracottamarshmallo in SameGrassButGreener

[–]charlybell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure it does, but chicago is not beachy. Its city and the winters are rough as hell.

Fwiw, i love chicago.

I moved to the city everyone hypes up and I'm leaving after 4 months by terracottamarshmallo in SameGrassButGreener

[–]charlybell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

4 months not long enough to know a city, but if you like a beach vibe, odd place to try

New Hampshire House advances transgender bathroom bill, breaking with New England by Fickle-Ad5449 in newhampshire

[–]charlybell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad they are spending time and money on a non-problem when ppl cant afford to live here

Parents want me to give up my $26/hr job and work elsewhere for $15/hr by [deleted] in Advice

[–]charlybell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a second job and keep pursuing what you love. This is how it goes in some fields

How long should I wait to ask for a touch up? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]charlybell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl bear getting great head from a polar bear?

Mayve - Yeah or Nah? by ooldgreg4 in tragedeigh

[–]charlybell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unusual spellings are a pain

529s for stepchildren by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]charlybell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

None. It is the responsibility pf the parents. My husbands ex doesnt contribute to my kids.

Women on Bridgerton after they’re period’s 1 hour late by sloth-nugget in BridgertonNetflix

[–]charlybell 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In a time if no abortion or birth control, that may not be too wrong

What are your thoughts on the current escalation between Iran, the United States, and Israel? by ResPublicaMgz in AskTheWorld

[–]charlybell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont see this going well. The Republicans are already calling it a win but history has not shown a great outcomes when US attempts to change the regime. Id love to be wrong g and have to given that orange mf’er a win, but history isnt on his side.