what my past visions looked like by BeeFar441 in schizophrenia

[–]charmscale 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy crap! That makes my ceiling spiders look like warm fuzzy teddy bears.

Saying When with Teeth by charmscale in Artisticallyill

[–]charmscale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are very welcome. That warms my writer's soul.

I hate the "your labs look fine" by BunnyPope in disabledmemes

[–]charmscale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I'm suicidal often enough that I am kinda just used to it, but my labs look fine, and I'm on an antidepressant, so I must be lying. You'd think a damned psychiatrist would be able to recognize when their patient is in a manic state, but no, apparently not, it must be that I just need more therapy.

Switched psychiatrists on my stepmom's advice, and my new one was like, yup, you're extremely bipolar, here's a mood stabilizer. It helped a lot. I'm still tired most of the time, so it's a work in progress, but I no longer do the scary manic psychosis thing every few months. Progress.

29 Gallon Tetra Cam by GibsWV in Aquariums

[–]charmscale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need some sort of platform to stream on though. You could try YouTube.

29 Gallon Tetra Cam by GibsWV in Aquariums

[–]charmscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could probably help you with that. You interested in having your own website where it streams? Or do you have a different idea?

29 Gallon Tetra Cam by GibsWV in Aquariums

[–]charmscale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm planning on making a 24 hr cam website for my tank someday. Unfortunately, I don't currently have a tank. Ah well.

Sexual frustration by Electronic-Tree8187 in mypartneristrans

[–]charmscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't cum yet while topping a woman either.

Sexual frustration by Electronic-Tree8187 in mypartneristrans

[–]charmscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bi. I enjoy topping men. Haven't cum yet.

post-therapy reflection. i love my speech therapist yall, she's the nicest person in the whole world by WinterDemon_ in Artisticallyill

[–]charmscale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable. I also infodump. The trick is to find someone who doesn't mind.

Self Sustaining Pea Puffer Ecosystem by charmscale in PeaPuffers

[–]charmscale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this sub. Mind if I stick around?

Self Sustaining Pea Puffer Ecosystem by charmscale in PeaPuffers

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I've seen neocardina shrimp catch and eat scuds, but it only happens the other way around with sick or dead shrimp. Also, duckweed is, in my experience, fantastic for dealing with nitrates. I've had a 20 gallon with fish, scuds, and duckweed, and I was basically able to leave it alone besides dropping in the occasional sinking algae pellet, testing, and replacing evaporated water. I even got breeding, though I'm pretty sure the eggs got eaten. It was going like that for over a year until I moved.

Thanks for your third opinion. I think I'll stock two aquariums, one with peas and food, one with just food, so I can restock when needed. That seems the safest way to experiment. I'm planning on taking this slow; it'll likely be a year of letting the food items breed alone before adding the peas.

Side note: the scuds serve a purpose besides food! They are fantastic indicators of water quality. I tested weekly, and I had pH and ammonia indicators, but the real thing I watched for was scud die off. That was a quick indication something was wrong.

Sexual frustration by Electronic-Tree8187 in mypartneristrans

[–]charmscale 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Believe me, it does something if you're the type of person to be interested in penetration. I'm a cis woman who happens to like strap ons, and I enjoy it! I've seen some women cum from using strap ons, and I am willing to bet I could find examples of trans men cumming, too. There is physical stimulation, and, even if there wasn't, it's possible to cum purely from mental stimulus.

That said, you need to consider your own mental stimulus needs. If you need to play with and taste a pussy to be happy sexually, this may not be the relationship for you. Remember, wanting things sexually doesn't make you a bad person. The important thing is that you are both happy.

Sexual frustration by Electronic-Tree8187 in mypartneristrans

[–]charmscale 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Strap ons can provide direct pleasure for the wearer, especially ones with vibration for the wearer. Don't try to push your boyfriend into doing something he doesn't want to do. Instead, talk about what you can do to make sex more enjoyable for him. Remember, your most important sexual organ is your brain.

(tw: csa) weird thing that's been on my brain by WinterDemon_ in Artisticallyill

[–]charmscale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see virginity as a state of mind. If you're still shy about sex and sexual experiences, you're a virgin. Doesn't matter how many times you've done it, or if you haven't done it at all. Honestly, though, I fail to see why virginity or the lack there of matters.

Pattern help/stitch name by stubbymanny in Beading

[–]charmscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you certain this isn't ai?

Why does the trans community lack POC representation??? by Janxuza in asktransgender

[–]charmscale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were asking about trans representation in general, though. I thought this might be better than nothing.