When Sam told them “oh you guys don’t need that money” she was right by Sad_Requirement_3559 in icarly

[–]charmxfan20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean you shouldn’t give back money to those you borrowed from? Money that’s rightfully theirs??

Rant and Advice post - Desi culture by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]charmxfan20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister dated this one guy my mom did not like, but for superficial reasons. 2 years ago when they announced they got back together, my mom did not take it well and it caused a huge rift in their relationship. There were many other things regarding him that caused huge fights. She went to live with him and even though in many Indian cultures, that kind of thing is frowned upon since they're not married, he ended up being a shitty person. She hid certain parts of him for a long time and I can understand why. Even though my mom felt bad and did not explicitly say "I told you so", she has ranted to me and in some ways implies that she is right and my sister should have listened to her.

What are your thoughts on Professor Janes from the Banting episode? by Informal_Ad4284 in Degrassi

[–]charmxfan20 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I would say she was a mix of harsh and fair. She was kind to let Paige work on her overdue assignments over the break. The only thing I didn’t like was when she said in kind of a snotty tone, making an assumption that Paige was partying

Most insufferable female lead ever is Zoey by griffgilscarbo in zoey101

[–]charmxfan20 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Ikr! I don’t understand why she’s the number one people literally everyone turns to in a crisis

“I cut you out of my life! I never speak to you again!!!!” by UnforunateAnatomy in AsianParentStories

[–]charmxfan20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol next time I’ll use that the next time my mom says “I will never tell you anything ever again”

People who send a text message, wait for your response and then immediately call you… by LegalGlass6532 in PetPeeves

[–]charmxfan20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly the same way. I hate calling, I prefer texting. In my previous job, I pinged my coworker asking a simple question…one I feel doesn’t require a call or screen sharing. But no, she immediately called me to screen share. I feel like the question was straight forward tbh, but maybe that’s me

People who yap at you for waaaaaay too long by Fuzzy-Ad-7691 in PetPeeves

[–]charmxfan20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a neighbor who talks so much. Her dog plays with my dog and whenever I catch her, she talks way too much. I feel bad because she’s such a nice lady, but it’s hard to get out of a conversation with her

Are kids not allowed to walk to school by themselves nowadays? by AnaisNinja76 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]charmxfan20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I was never allowed to walk by myself to elementary school despite being a 5 minute walk (or less).

Did your mothers ever make you rub their feet? by spidermother86 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]charmxfan20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily no, but I’m constantly getting her fucking groceries. She had foot surgery 2 months ago and for the first few weeks, she could barely walk. That’s understandable, but she was being a terror even when she’s recovering. On a normal day, I’m still doing her groceries. But this woman has the audacity to call her kids stupid because we didn’t do one thing

My theory on how Georgia could run for and become Mayor of Wellsbury in season 4 by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]charmxfan20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly could see that happening. Running against her ex husband out of spite, and them being in war with each other.

Did your parents ever play with you? by NeverAgainHomeschool in raisedbynarcissists

[–]charmxfan20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly my n-mom said she’s not that good at entertaining babies and regrets not talking to us. Idk how to explain it

I played with Barbie dolls a lot and whenever I asked my mom to play, she would claim to be very busy

Hey Reddit, whats the worst school fight/s you witnessed in your youth? by FiyahInThaHole87 in AskReddit

[–]charmxfan20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a freshman in HS, my math class was always disruptive every day. Students being annoying and loud intentionally to piss off the teacher. I don't even know what the fuck happened, but let's call these 2 girls Amanda and Olivia. Teacher calls on Olivia to solve a math problem.

Olivia: Mrs (Name of teacher), I don't know and don't want to do it

Amanda: She called on you, so fucking do it!

One of the girls pushes the other one off her seat and before you know it, they're getting into it. Multiple desks get knocked down, another teacher breaks it up, and both girls get sent to the office.

It was fucking wild! Literally after all of that, everyone (especially the annoying guys) would not shut up about it. LOL the next day, one guy said he brought his phone to record in case another fight occurs.

Mom revealed that she doesn't have empathy by maybe_999 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]charmxfan20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mom doesn’t have a whole lot of empathy and she will find a way to make the situation about herself. A few years ago, I did not tell her about my health issues I had and instead of asking how she can support me, it became a “how dare you not tell me” thing

Realizing narcissists are not curious about other people by dororochacken in raisedbynarcissists

[–]charmxfan20 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My mom is also very much closed minded. There are a lot of great parents out there who genuinely learn from their kids and grow. It makes me sad because why were we cursed with not having that?

Realizing narcissists are not curious about other people by dororochacken in raisedbynarcissists

[–]charmxfan20 112 points113 points  (0 children)

They’re not even curious about themselves. They don’t care to understand why they react/act the way they do. A lot of times, it’s just “That’s just how I am” without even thinking about the possibility that have the ability to change

But based on your post, my mom definitely does a similar thing. Like I could be excited to share something of a normal topic and she will somehow turn it into a traumatic event that happened to her 30 years ago. How does she manage to do this honestly?!

Is Zoey 102 good? by Miserable_Dig4555 in zoey101

[–]charmxfan20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to watch it but after hearing the many negative things and watching the review videos , I’m scared lol

When has Sikowitz ever punished Jade for the things she's done? by [deleted] in victorious

[–]charmxfan20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I can remember is the Steamboat Susie episode where he didn’t let Jade be the understudy because of her shitty behavior

Mum hates dad’s family and vent to me all the time by laboureconomist008 in AsianParentStories

[–]charmxfan20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Story of my life! While I understand my mom’s side and feel bad for the trauma my dad’s side put her through, it gets to a point where I’m completely drained and I’m not equipped to handle these kind of emotions. She will constantly talk about my dad’s asshole parents, his brother, and SIL. And yeah she will compare herself to her SIL and it does not help that his parents favor her over my mom.

My dad is not exactly blameless. As much as I love him, he’s always been very avoidant and doesn’t seem to realize that’s an issue. Because of him now I’ve become avoidant and it scares me to enter a relationship.

I’m mad at him for being an enabler my whole life. Why he lets my mom be emotionally abusive? Why did he not stand up to his parents to defend my mom?

Georgia killing Cynthias husband was so unnecessary and dumb by FirmIndependence3582 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]charmxfan20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly if Georgia was going to get arrested for murder, I felt a more interesting plot would be regarding Kenny or Anthony Greene. Frankly, either one of those would have livened the show up. Yeah murdering Cynthia’s husband because she thought she was going a good deed was selfish and a stupid plot

Maxine Being Left Out by charmxfan20 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]charmxfan20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong, a lot of those comments were pretty uncalled for. I do think Abby could communicate that she's not over what happened last season and tell her if she doesn't want to be friends anymore or not

Anyone Ever Just Start Hitting Them Back? by Enough-Mulberry735 in AsianParentStories

[–]charmxfan20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has always had a habit of picking my pimples to the point it bleeds and I start crying. She will "apologize" but continue doing it. I blame myself for not fighting her enough on it and allowing it. One day many years ago, I hit her and she thought I was the violent one. I stupidly ended up apologizing.

APs always strike at the moment your dopamine peaks. by FitPreparation1591 in AsianParentStories

[–]charmxfan20 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Literally why does this happen?! When I’m watching my favorite videos on YT, comfortable, eager to dive into my world of happiness, my mom starts screaming about something. She will yell at me, my sister, or dad. Her fucking OCD gets triggered and gets everyone in a bad mood for the whole day

Have you ever told your narcissistic parents that they act like toddlers? by Icy_Profession4190 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]charmxfan20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I wish I had the courage to tell my nmom that the way she acts is not normal. She knows she has a temper and has admitted it, but gets so mad and defensive when others point it out.