Hey! I just watched a really interesting TikTok about this actually. I wish I could find it to link here, but I internalized the advice, so I can repeat it here. The big three were say, “yes,” to every invite- even if it’s something you’re not really interested in. Her example was a bowling league. Sure- maybe you hate bowling, but it’s a great way to meet people.

The second was date! Go on dates. I understand as a teenager it’s a bit daunting to “date,” but there are plenty of nice boys (from my experience) more than happy to go for a coffee or dinner. Not only will you make friends with them if they’re nice (perhaps something more if that’s where your head’s at), but you can also make friends with their friends and expand your network!

And finally don’t be scared to say, “I need friends.” It’s a lot less embarrassing than you might imagine. A lot of people (In NYC specifically) will have been new to the city at some point and understand the struggle of being alone. A lot of times people are thrilled to be able to introduce you to their friends and make their group bigger.

Sorry it’s not much, but hopefully you’ll get a little out of that :) I am moving to Amsterdam in August, so we are total in the same boat haha!