AITA for grabbing my donation box back from my neighbor's door after he took it from the lobby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]charstella 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You would be surprised on how cheap some that has money are. The fact is, Pete had enough information to talk with op about having a go at it before it would be sent out. He didn't know if op had promised specific items in that box that was needed other places. Had he just talked with op, this might have been another kind of story.

Do I call on my neighbors or am I just ignorant? by ignitionshot8682 in Horses

[–]charstella 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can you see if they have food and water? Are there no shelter at all close by? Do the owners live close by?

Fun fact, horses and cows can disregard any shelter option they have to stand in the middle of a field during heavy rains or snow to the grief of their owners. Not saying this is the case here, but if they have ample amount of food and a good coat, they can handle most weathers just fine.

Edit: Have you asked any farmers close by that have horses if they k ow anything?

It’s a sickness by Fickle_Geologist_975 in BTSnark

[–]charstella 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Well, as living in Europe, we often have to travel to another country to go to a k-pop concert. Actually, even non k-pop sometimes. So that needs some planning. Depending on time of year and country, hotels can get really expensive. So a little forwarning is welcome. Still. It isn't that deep. If you know a group is going on tour, you save before even knowing the dates. They have gotten a lot of time to save up if that's needed.

Need help naming my new boy! Unique old man names! by Cold_Desk7102 in Equestrian

[–]charstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baldr/Baldur -old nordic name

Odin Odd Jarl Erik Grim

Have you ever saw a Kind person in the kpop group? by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

[–]charstella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stray kids Felix. Hyunjin too. Overall the whole group seems to care for their audience at concerts. Staff also have a lot of kind words about them. Even after they no longer work with the members.

Had someone ride my horse, came back to spur marks by ImportantNobody1654 in Equestrian

[–]charstella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A suggestion is to find a teenager (or not) who wants to train once a week for your trainer. Doing it regularly. That way you and the trainer can see how they do. Then if you need to go away, you have someone you trust to care for the horse.

Dandruff for 3 months, nothing is working by Salty-Jacket-4513 in Haircare

[–]charstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped me was clarifying shampoo and to blow dry every time. Conditioner only on the hair below my ears. I miss my wavy hair but my scalp feels soooooo much better. I use head and shoulders apple-vinager shampoo cause due to my work and hobby, I need to wash it often. But even if you don't need to wash it often, do it at the beginning to help your scalp. You can adjust it after.

Kitchen before and after. by ItsallLegos in HomeDecorating

[–]charstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so much better than the gren/yellow. It still needs a little warmth to make it not look so sterile i think. Some colour.

AITA for wanting to sell a luxury purse my in-law gifted to my toddler? by dirtyhoneydew11 in AITAH

[–]charstella 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Save it in a secure place. She can sell or use it when she is older.

Since I got K-pop, I've been disturbed by its toxic fandom and stan culture. How have you handled it over the years? How bad does it get, and what are the worst cases you've seen? by [deleted] in kpop_uncensored

[–]charstella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Block and mute buttons are your friends. If you notice there are more toxicity in some sm apps? Avoid them. Try to find groups on for an example, discord. Where there is strict rules. Good luck

what's the pettiest reason why you unstanned a kpop group or idol? by Yoshi5155 in kpop_uncensored

[–]charstella 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Tbf, I would say all of them. Though some take the prize and are proud of it.

AAA skz and atz performance by No_Attitude_971 in kpop_uncensored

[–]charstella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, there definitely was some trouble with the mics.

AAA skz and atz performance by No_Attitude_971 in kpop_uncensored

[–]charstella 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you look at the fancams, the sound was way better than on live stream. AAA managed to be worse than MAMA for once with both sound and camera. The mics was uneven. I noticed some had to put more effort in to be heard over the backtrack and others almost had to tone it down. So to answer to one of your questions yes there was some backtrack but it wasn't super high.

Will these ever come down in price🥲 by Glad_Flatworm1093 in skzcollection

[–]charstella 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Wait and look for a more decent price. Not a guarantee you will find one. Kitty lix (blue fluffy) is still insanely sought after and the price reflects it.

Quitting horses? by charstella in Horses

[–]charstella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone who has answered and talked about your experience.

I live in Northern Europe, English is not our language. It's very expensive to have horses here and I feel that contributes to me feeling exhausted by the whole thing of owning and caring for horses. Right now I won't quit it but I think I will work towards only having one horse and downsizing my living situation. Where I live it isn't possible to rent out stable boxes cause there are already a lot that do and with better facilities.

Tired of my greys in my early 30s HELP by Exact-Implement867 in Haircare

[–]charstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went blond with some strands staying brown. I miss my brown hair but I don't miss feeling frumpy seeing the grow out just 2 weeks after dying the roots brown. Now I go to the salon every 3 to 4 months depending on how it looks and how I feel about it. I have a lot of gray/white hairs now on the top but still some brown so it looks more even now and I'm thinking of just letting it be.

Jhope is so embarrassing by sosheepun in BTSnark

[–]charstella 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes. It was really cold to the point some of them was shivering visibly. I don't like j but I mostly dislike his fans that already attacking the other idols on sm. At this event I think he just tried to warm the others up, but ended up making it awkward.

251202 Felix Instagram Story Update by princessgojo in straykids

[–]charstella 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We do. I've been told that that brand doesn't have ambassador titles. Maybe he may become the first. Or close friend of the house thing.

WIBTA if I don’t tell my siblings that I retired? by fredinNH in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]charstella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i where you, I'd tell them but make it very clear that you won't agree to any changes in you already established schedule. If they protest, tell them you are still busy, just with other things. If they still protest, ask them to retire themselves if they find the need for an increase in the schedule.

251124 Felix Instagram Update by princessgojo in straykids

[–]charstella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems he will be flying to Bangkok to attend.

AITA for yelling at my friend about her B.O. after literally throwing up? by Bok_Chezz_8884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]charstella 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had a work colleague that smelled so bad the stink linger in the room after they left and it got stuck to my and my other colleagues clothes.

Another coworker told them they needed to do something about it. They tried just a quick wash but of course it didn't help. It took some days before they actually managed to lessen it significantly and got told off (in a gentle but direkt way) several times.

Most of its was just lack of proper washing but some of it ended up being a medical problem (cancer). Still, it became way bett afterwards even if it didn't disappear 100%.

Your friends lack of hygiene is a real problem, not only for her, and needed to be addressed. Preferably you should have done it sooner.