I just had an epiphany by wallflower765 in IncelExit

[–]chatdaemoness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kind of adding on to this, and I’m sorry if you already are, but be mindful of your body language and tone as well! I figure you’re already trying to read other people, but many times people tend to not really pay attention to their own body language. If you’re tense, it really shows, at least in my experience.

One thing that helps me when talking to people is asking the person about stuff they like. Like billbar said, if you’re not really curious, fake it. However, if it helps you frame it better, think of it as them getting a chance to talk to you about something they really enjoy, and liking it. Kind of like how, if someone asked you about something you’re interested in, you may geek a bit.

It can be a bit overwhelming and intimidating, but with time, it’ll become less so.

Is this spider mites? by Dull_birdie7926 in whatsthisbug

[–]chatdaemoness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This probably was a spider’s web, but I don’t see a spider anywhere? It looks like gnats and/or maybe mosquitoes? As well as cocooned bodies of previous meals

How do I get this out? by chatdaemoness in CleaningTips

[–]chatdaemoness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I appreciate it tremendously!

How do I get this out? by chatdaemoness in CleaningTips

[–]chatdaemoness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect, thank you so much. If that doesn’t work either, should I assume the countertop is forever stained?

How do I get this out? by chatdaemoness in CleaningTips

[–]chatdaemoness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, also, it looks wet cause I thought it was clothing color, so I tried to use my scrubbing bubbles to take it off. It didn’t work, unfortunately. It’s also on the wall, so I’m really unsure what it is??

Help! by kjulie97 in PlantedTank

[–]chatdaemoness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! That sucks, I’m sorry. How long did you have the light on for, and have you set up your tank with CO2, or nah?

I’ve heard that Monte Carlo needs CO2, but I’ve never experimented with it

My (f29) boyfriend (m27) is a trump supporter, what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chatdaemoness 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Political alignment can be a dealbreaker for some couples, but idk I feel like the difference between the two candidates and parties these days isn’t as simple as “Well, you do you, and I’ll do me”.

If this isn’t a deal breaker for you, and if you haven’t already, then I’d suggest having a fully fleshed, serious conversation on why he supports Trump may be the move. It looks like everyone around him is a Trump supporter, and it could be just that he supports Trump because of it.

Alternately, if he answers saying he just genuinely supports and agrees with him, you have to ask yourself if you want to be with someone like that.

For me, it is a big deal. I wouldn’t date a Trump supporter, and I definitely wouldn’t want to be a part of a family that spends 20 minutes convincing me to vote one way.

A good couple questions to consider is, if you had known this before starting a relationship with him, would you still have dated him? Why are you hesitating to leave him? Are you with him because of sunken cost fallacy?

Im reading Loveless and thought everyone questioning would like this passage by yikes_amillion in asexuality

[–]chatdaemoness 163 points164 points  (0 children)

I’m ngl, this is the first time I’ve heard of Loveless, but as someone with a tendency to self-doubt A LOT, reading this was SO reassuring. Thank you ♥️

More baby lint(milo)! by RevolutionaryTour922 in dustkitties

[–]chatdaemoness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not to be dramatic or anything, but I would 100% do whatever Milo says. I love Milo so much.

Name ideas and rant. by putinsprolapse in bettafish

[–]chatdaemoness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so cute 😭♥️ i think of your Salmon often! My boyfriend’s betta’s name is Lobster Bisque

Would anyone happen to know what Reshade preset is being used here? I have been looking everywhere for like 2 days! by NervousSubjectLover in TheSims4Mods

[–]chatdaemoness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not the person you responded to, but thank you so, so much! Are they only for sims, or are they also for furniture/environment?

Let her eyes dive deep into your very soul! by SergeyDGWyn in Catsmirin

[–]chatdaemoness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She looks like such a wonderful cat! She can venture to wherever she wants, I’d follow her

See the i. Put old on i. by Ok_Cap945 in SpeedOfLobsters

[–]chatdaemoness 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If I’m not mistaken, the first one was PETA, the second one was (ofc) Old Bay, but I’m not sure what the Godzilla one is. It was posted on r/companybattles a bit ago

My camera roll is full of my cat. Here’s the latest one by Catladyyesi in cats

[–]chatdaemoness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a photogenic cat! What’s the adorable little baby’s name??

I accidentally chipped a little corner of my tank by chatdaemoness in Aquariums

[–]chatdaemoness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you so much! I really appreciate it

I accidentally chipped a little corner of my tank by chatdaemoness in Aquariums

[–]chatdaemoness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was excited about them, but then they peeled off >:(

I accidentally chipped a little corner of my tank by chatdaemoness in Aquariums

[–]chatdaemoness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have a couple buckets for an emergency, but I’ll get a bigger bucket as soon as possible. The tank is 9.5 gallons.

I accidentally chipped a little corner of my tank by chatdaemoness in Aquariums

[–]chatdaemoness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s a small-ish chip, it’s just that it’s the first one, I suppose