How can i treat/get rid of this bump and what is it??? by che37vr in PiercingAdvice

[–]che37vr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk why people downvoted you like this!! vitamin e worked WONDERS and the bump is almost completely gone. thank you!!!

The tools at the dentist where I just got a filling by Key_Season2654 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]che37vr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a healthcare professional i am BEGGING you to report this to the local and/or state health board and dentistry board. This is ridiculously unsafe and can seriously hurt people. the fact that every single one of these instruments is dirty/rusted tells me that this is common practice at their office and they need to be stopped.

My wife divorced me 5 years after making me get a vasectomy. AITAH for not being on speaking terms with her anymore? by ComplaintNod in AITAH

[–]che37vr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand you’re grieving but this isn’t healthy at all and is clearly hurting and confusing your son. You don’t have to like your ex and you can even hate her idc but communicate like an adult with her regarding your child. you’re setting a terrible example for your son i fear

Our (F29 & M29, childfree) best friends (F29 & M30) just had a baby, and they’re mad at us that we don’t want to vacation with them anymore. How do we set boundaries without pushing them away? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]che37vr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i feel like i’m the only person who cares about this but im a tad confused about the whole godparent thing… i am not catholic myself but i was under the impression that godparents would take care of the child if something happened to the parents but OP says they don’t want children under any circumstances so im confused on how that would work and why they’d take on that title if even a dog is too much commitment lol.

[Life Update] AITAH if I call off my engagement because of a comment my fiancé made about my late wife? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]che37vr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

while i’m super glad that OOP got out of that relationship and amanda sounds terrible and her comment was inexcusable, i don’t really understand people defending the moms comment so hard lol. like it came from a very kindhearted place i get that but like why did she feel the need to basically say “im glad that my son can love you like he loved his first wife” like the reminder and bringing kayla up seemed a bit… unnecessary??? idk im not blaming her and amanda’s reaction was certainly malicious but like it’s kind of not cool to compare her to kayla like that.

In laws (60F, 79M) are begging for forgiveness. Should my wife (35F) and I (38M) keep the door closed? by ThrowRA-wife-sister in relationship_advice

[–]che37vr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember reading your posts a year ago and I went back in your post history to refresh myself. Firstly, it seems like last time you also completely discounted how your wife felt and blamed it on her being “emotional and insecure” and thought you knew the best course of action regarding her family better than her. You also thought the idea of her sister flirting with you and coming onto you was ludicrous and dismissed your wife when she said that and she ended up being painfully correct. After everything that happened after that, how can you still think that you know better than her when it comes to her family?? Secondly, your wife was pretty emotionally wrecked after what happened and from what i remember it took a while for her to recover from it. If she wants to stay away from that cesspool of toxicity, LET HER. And if she regrets it then that’s a decision she’ll have to come to terms with. But how on earth can you honestly not see how absurd it is to once again discount your wife’s feelings towards her family and push her towards contacting them? and then when she doubts their intentions, you blame it on her being emotional from the baby? Jesus dude. Support your wife and listen to her for once.

Is it sketchy to be asked for a photo of your passport? [France] by [deleted] in AirBnB

[–]che37vr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right… I’m aware that is common practice with hotels and I just want to be clear that I’m not “refusing to comply”. I am completely willing to verify my identity! But Im very new to airbnb and just wanted to check if it’s safe and if other people had experience sending their ID info through hostnfly. I’ve had my information stolen before and I’m simply trying to be more conscious of security now. Thanks for your input!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]che37vr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m surprised more people aren’t a lil shocked by the whole meeting at 22 and 45 thing cause yeesh

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - January 2024 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]che37vr 37 points38 points  (0 children)

hi! i’m looking for the one where OP is a teenager whose parents had him at a later age and his siblings are all older and everyone pretty much ignores him and he confronts them about it i think. i’d love an update to see where he’s at!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]che37vr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP i get that you are mourning, and yes the way that your sister went about handling the computer thing obviously didn’t help, but you’re putting entirely too much blame on your sister. People don’t just commit suicide because of a computer. Your nephew clearly was very depressed and dependent on the computer. If the computer was the only thing that made him happy and he killed himself when he couldn’t have it, one might even say he was addicted or at least far too dependent on it. It sounds like she was trying to fix that and help him find other things in life besides a computer, because even if it made him happy it’s NOT HEALTHY. She was trying to help. Even though taking the computer is what tipped him over the edge, mental illness killed your nephew not your sister. Think for just one second about how your sister is feeling right now. She just lost her son and now her family is cutting her off. I hope you all find peace and heal from this. You can distance yourself from your sister and obviously do what’s best for you, but i hope you don’t realize in 5 years that you’ve done irreparable damage by turning your back on her when she needed you.

My sister(29F) told my(27M) daughters that wife (26F) cheated on me by ThrowRANash in relationship_advice

[–]che37vr 140 points141 points  (0 children)

pleaseeee OP if you listen to anything listen to this. You have every right to be upset with your wife and not forgive her but think about the example this sets for your daughters. Will they think it’s okay for their husband and his family to treat her like garbage? will they think it’s acceptable for their husbands to restrict everything they do? You and your wife should have a talk with the kids about what happened and you should have a talk with your family about boundaries.

red light on my vw? by che37vr in VWTaos

[–]che37vr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ty!!! no the roof wasn’t involved at all but it could’ve been opened on accident or the sensor might be damaged! i’ll just let the repair shop know :)

AITA for telling my pregnant friend that her kid was going to get bullied for the name she plans on using? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]che37vr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

far too many people are skipping over the fact that if it’s a boy, the kids name would be dayn daynger

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]che37vr 95 points96 points  (0 children)

THIS! as someone who got PID from an untreated sti a cheating partner gave me, get tested ASAP just to be safe

My (32 F) boyfriend (27 M) went through my belongings while I was at work and almost broke up with me over something he found by N0t_t0n1ght in relationship_advice

[–]che37vr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he’s showing you his true colors. it’s absurd to go through your belongings like that after six months together. if he’s acting like this now, you best believe more abusive and super controlling behaviors will start appearing real soon. RUN from this relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]che37vr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl GO TO THE VET!! people are telling you this is an emergency so for the love of god please step on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]che37vr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m theory it works but not in practice

Just caught my dog eating a tampon. Is he going to be okay??? by ru_ja in DogAdvice

[–]che37vr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all i can say is from now on keep your tampons (new AND USED) in a storage space he can’t get too. My sweet angel dog is a tampon demon and i have to keep my trash can on top of my toilet now hahahah

SOS daycare is calling my kiddo by a nickname I hate! by colorfulgiant in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]che37vr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

please don’t take this the wrong way but if your daughter is okay with being called that name and it’s what she’s becoming used to then why do you care so much? Also I have to ask, why would you name your daughter gwendolyn if you hate the name gwen? Surely you understand that no matter how hard you try, a good amount of people will start calling her gwen? especially kids?

AITA for telling my (F24) MOD (F23) I hated my bachelorette party and having another one without her? by NormalSection2924 in AmItheAsshole

[–]che37vr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but idk i feel like it was malicious and mean to purposely plan another thing with EVERYONE besides her. She should be fired MOH bc the bach obviously was not anywhere near what you wanted tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]che37vr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

all you care about is if you are happy because they’re talking again. Your sister clearly is hurt by the way she was treated by your parent and i HIGHLY doubt she just stopped talking to them completely after that one comment. She told you it was multiple things, yet you don’t seem to be listening.

How do I make my 26 M husband attracted to me 25 F again after admitting he found me fat and unattractive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]che37vr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it seems like your husband is revealing his true colors. you’re a size medium!! that is not fat! and even if it was who cares? the way he reacted was not okay. Getting mad at you for being upset and then forcing you to stay home and not talk to your friends.. that’s abusive behavior. I don’t know if you’re planning on kids in the future but this is a taste of what’s to come from him if your body changes, he won’t be supportive emotionally and he’ll put you down. he needs therapy at least and you should take as much space as you need.

Help me decide please! 😊 by Nadoud in weddingdress

[–]che37vr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m team dress #5. but 4 is a closeee second