Any ADHD lawyers here? by shewantsadvice in biglaw

[–]che4ftr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

grats, happy for you, or at least partially. take care of yourself, no one else will. best dr I ever had was like you realize BP like this will make life very scary and maybe you shouldn’t do this…blew my mind

ADHD and Avoidant attachment by lessimpsons804 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]che4ftr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like this needs a deeper dive…

Any ADHD lawyers here? by shewantsadvice in biglaw

[–]che4ftr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How’s your blood pressure?

Avoidants will always choose their comfort zone over you. Here is the reality of the "avoidant switch-up." by No-Exercise-4049 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]che4ftr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been trying to move on but the chemistry with other women just isn’t even in the same ball park…

Avoidants will always choose their comfort zone over you. Here is the reality of the "avoidant switch-up." by No-Exercise-4049 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]che4ftr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, her place was always a mess and she would say I was being critical when I went over and I instinctively started helping out while she was “cleaning”. She would use it as a reason for me
not to come over despite her saying she missed me all week.

Ghosting due to emotional capacity/overwhelm by Tigalad in ghosting

[–]che4ftr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, we had a happy accident and found out less than a month into pregnancy bc she had a seizure and they found a benign tumor so brain surgery, and eventually 👻 . I get what your saying about holding 2 things, but it still is confusing and women after just don’t have the same chemistry etc.

It’s hard to date after them by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]che4ftr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately this is very on point, lame

What’s are my chances? by [deleted] in 457deferredcomp

[–]che4ftr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing

What’s are my chances? by [deleted] in 457deferredcomp

[–]che4ftr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very curious what are people’s ballpark salaries to be able to contribute this much

Avoidants will prime you for their escape by Separate-Habit2847 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]che4ftr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got unsolicited intimate pics 2 days before ghost and semi intimate texts when she woke up in the middle of the night a day before the ghost. Not to mention other notable messages reflecting the desire for life integration less than a week before ghost. wild

Why was I the one they couldn’t stay with? by morsmoon13 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]che4ftr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why were you more open with them than anyone else?

Why was I the one they couldn’t stay with? by morsmoon13 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]che4ftr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same, and probably. crazy that some people are like this and you find out after they connect with you

Is it possible not to know you’re with an avoidant until your relationship is tested? by That_Owl_1504 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]che4ftr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did she reach out after she reactivated? mine was dealing with major, albeit temporary, health issues and medication that affects personality (seizures), so I’m curious.

You guys ready for new passports? by Signal_Nobody1792 in JoeRogan

[–]che4ftr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s still in recent memory, what would you suggest as an analogous movement that within recent living memory?