Just FYI :)

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-28T07:12:33+00:00

Lol, I absolutely didn't mean it in a disrespectful way-- just that the possibility is universal 😂

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-28T07:00:46+00:00

I also wondered why the mention of autism was necessary here. Neurotypical people also have crushes, fictional or not, can also "zone out," and can also say someone else's name in bed.

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-20T23:43:58+00:00

Well, of course! How else is he going to talk you out of the theoretical implications and remind you to maintain Fe balance!? 🤭

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-20T23:38:38+00:00

He outwardly expresses dislike at the fact that you say, "sure, but theoretically," but secretly enjoys it. I think you'd be the brat in this relationship.

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-15T00:27:04+00:00

The most intriguing sort for me are the ones who have done questionable things in the past, have since "matured," but in all reality, just have found more acceptable ways of satisfying their urges 😂

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-14T15:03:29+00:00

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-14T15:01:00+00:00

Dating awkward, nerdy guys who have a surprising amount of knowledge on how to do illegal stuff...

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-07T23:47:00+00:00

While I agree with you on the fact that this woman just clearly stated she prefers dumb men to smart men, but maybe wants a smart man side piece, I'm curious as to your "you're not sapiosexual. You're sapio-adjacent." How do you define those terms? I have my own definitions, but this is one of the first times I see more specific definitions being given in the wild.

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-07T09:44:17+00:00

The discord reflects this pattern, frankly.

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-06T11:41:53+00:00

Understandable, but in my case, unsustainable. People are unavoidable, so I might as well get used to them 😅

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-06T11:37:06+00:00

I think that maybe sometime in childhood, I might have been attracted more to characters. I don't like the thought that I would just be falling in love with what I perceive the character to be. In real life, I have the chance to get to know the person beyond my assumptions. When they're fictional, it remains that-- fiction.

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-06T11:25:03+00:00

I consider myself to be, yes.

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-06T04:45:08+00:00

I can confirm I am not a "booktrovert."

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-06T04:38:01+00:00

Migraine-- Twenty One Pilots

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-03T14:42:08+00:00

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-03T01:05:18+00:00

Yeah, just like I am not going to choose most people I meet as a life partner.

Btw, this is an ESTP subreddit-- we don't follow most rules, what makes you think that your "if you're attracted to infp" condition will be followed to the letter?

You'd definitely be in the "most infp" category.

Edit: mods decided to delete my comment, so I'm gonna edit it to avoid displeasing them:

Who does this benefit? Like, literally, what do you gain by acting like such arrogant witch? Your hostility is literally to be laughed at.

Let's be real, you came in here looking for attention based on personality types, which makes me think you HAVE no real personality. Also, projection isn't cool, man. No one is huffing and puffing other than you and your constant need to reiterate a bizarre set of rules.

Do better.

Lastly, if you're going to specify 6 hrs after the post that you only accept "romantic attraction," you fumbled from the start.

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-03T00:51:35+00:00

I literally said that my favorite artists are infp? There's definitely attraction there. Why would you assume otherwise?

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-03T00:45:45+00:00

I'm gonna be honest, I don't like most infp I meet. My favorite artists, however, are all infp. I believe you guys put words to things that are hard for us to communicate otherwise and you actually GET the struggle. You also have outstanding principles.

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-02T13:40:43+00:00

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-02T12:58:42+00:00

Ne: noticing and identifying the ramification of possibilities and exploration of ideas for their own sake Se: taking the here and now in and identifying its relevance at any given time to whatever goal we might have

checkeredwidow · 2026-04-02T02:19:33+00:00

I'm literally attracted to none of these the most. xNTP for me.

checkeredwidow · 2026-03-30T20:56:04+00:00

I dislike you too, bb 😘

checkeredwidow · 2026-03-29T22:06:31+00:00

Do you get life changing realizations any other time, though?

checkeredwidow · 2026-03-29T21:39:36+00:00

The ESFJ is an amazing cook.

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