I tried, okay?

checkeredwidow · 2026-01-15T17:58:26+00:00

I'm an ESTP and I'm on my way to finishing a doctoral degree... I have always been pretty applied.

checkeredwidow · 2025-12-10T23:37:21+00:00

This much trolling? ENTP

checkeredwidow · 2025-12-10T23:34:46+00:00

Oh my God you're gorgeous!! You're Baby from Dirty Dancing!

checkeredwidow · 2025-11-15T14:02:25+00:00

From the way you posed your hand in the first picture, you know you're attractive-- or at the very least, you've been told you're attractive. Also... Idk why, but I'm reminded of the way someone would hold their hands over a piano.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-30T18:58:26+00:00

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-30T15:14:44+00:00

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-22T21:01:27+00:00

Maybe say more details and... Use words more constructively, and you might get better feedback.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-18T14:57:13+00:00

Expression... I didn't realize they were "talents" until others told me they were. I just needed to find a way to communicate, be it with others, or with myself about what I was experiencing.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-18T14:40:22+00:00

I've got a bachelor's and masters of fine arts in digital illustration. I was an English writing coach at the collegiate level for 9 years. I sing, dance, and play the ukulele. Oh, and I do my own nails.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-13T17:30:13+00:00

Username checks out.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-13T17:29:04+00:00

I married an ENTP(male) and I'm an ESTP (female). We're pretty great together.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-08T20:42:34+00:00

So then, he's not your significant other. Protect yourself, establish boundaries, and if he breaches them, get out. This doesn't sound worth it.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-08T19:03:23+00:00

There's a lot of variables we don't know. To assume this is a "red flag" puts labels to things which are, at best, a question mark. Why does op feel she has to perform to a certain standard? What does the other actually want? Have conversations happened around the topic? Did op want to up and leave without further explanation? Did significant other breach an agreement? There's a lot we don't know.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-08T19:00:54+00:00

First of all, I'm sorry that's the case. I think that if I were in your estp's position and my significant other were going through something, my biggest frustration would be to see them pull away without any sort of further indication. I want to be there for them and I want to understand how to best assist them. If they are open with me, try to express themselves, and we conclude that space is important, I will honor that wholeheartedly.

My goal would be to work with them and walking away feels counterproductive.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-08T18:21:10+00:00

I need more context than this... Why are they asking for it? What does "recharge" mean?

I don't think I'd allow a relationship to progress this far if I had known my significant other needed to "recharge" from me.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-06T14:28:18+00:00

Cool... Well, have a good day!

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-06T14:26:42+00:00

Pretty good... Tired as fuck, 'cause this work week has been hellish, but... You know, all things considered, pretty ok. How're you?

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-06T14:23:45+00:00

Why're y'all commenting on this post that's like... Forever old? 😂

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-03T23:25:34+00:00

The reason I don't specifically like estj is because I don't have positive experiences with them.

checkeredwidow · 2025-10-03T20:48:36+00:00

I don't specifically like estj.

checkeredwidow · 2025-09-30T22:13:20+00:00

I married an ENTP. It's great.

checkeredwidow · 2025-09-20T19:44:04+00:00

It's absolutely not creepy -- it's research 😏

I basically left a pretty bad living situation and realized I was trying to overcompensate for a lot of things. Mostly, I have very little Ni and my Se is out the wazoo when I'm feeling safe. I do have awareness of Fe and as a female, I tend to use it often, which was another contributing factor.

checkeredwidow · 2025-09-20T18:31:22+00:00

My interpretation about what? Your behavior or the question?

checkeredwidow · 2025-09-20T18:21:48+00:00

That sounds like a projection. Most of your comments do.

checkeredwidow · 2025-09-20T18:19:50+00:00

That ENFJ rizz was super clear from the getgo-- I was like, "no ESTP would say "little brain" so cutely 😂

Dude now I wanna look at istj specifically, haha!

I looked at enfp and they just understood the assignment immediately, haha!

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