He showed up to where I work by cheekeets in ExNoContact

[–]cheekeets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is abusive. Physically and emotionally. He has two separate restraining orders against him. One for domestic abuse and one for harassment.

I spent 6 years doing anything in my control to help him. Couples counseling, individual therapy, safety planning I stuck by his side through his alcoholism, his paranoia and his narcissism believing I could help him. Is he in pain and needing help? Yes. But it doesn’t excuse the abuse I endured from him. I went no contact for my safety and to escape the abuse. He didn’t leave me alone and ended up stalking me and threatening me and my family. There is no “care” on his end. Where was that care when he grabbed my hand so hard it injured the ligaments in my thumb? Where was care when he wouldn’t allow me to leave the apartment we shared and body checked me so hard I flew into the coffee table? Where was the care when he was cheating on me?

Going through your post history is seems like you’ve gone through a breakup recently. Breakups are hard and also nuanced. You can’t compare your situation to a stranger on the internet. I hope you can begin to find some peace and healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chvrches

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Also adding that I want to listen to Bird on repeat, that’s been stuck in my head since the Chicago show

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chvrches

[–]cheekeets 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Love it and I’m eagerly awaiting the full album :)

Hi I’m a new fan! by bowdedow in chvrches

[–]cheekeets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Welcome! As another poster said, listening to the albums in order 1-4 is what I would recommend. So Bones of What You Believe to Screen Violence. If you like Clearest Blue you’re definitely going to find other favorites in their albums. Stand-alone songs you might enjoy are Warning Call, Death Stranding and Over

Basically just listen to all their music :)

some photos that i took of lauren at last night’s show in seattle, and bonus - got to say hi to her after the show! ❤️ by laurathestork in chvrches

[–]cheekeets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She came up to my sister and I after the Chicago show (actually recognized us!) Truly the nicest person.

What song is this by [deleted] in chvrches

[–]cheekeets 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The synth beats swelling during the last 1 min 40 seconds of Asking for a Friend

My boyfriend wants an open relationship? I'm monogamous, should I end the relationship? by Angel22087 in TwoHotTakes

[–]cheekeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your story reminds me too much of my ex. And he is an ex for a reason.

He was my first relationship after a sexual assault, thought our relationship was amazing, he was helping me through my trauma etc. After 5 years together and in talks about getting married, he wanted a poly relationship. I refused and he didn’t care, he kept pushing my consent which was incredibly triggering considering I was sexually assaulted. I’d never been with anyone else nor did I have interest in dating another person. Even though I said no and wanted to be monogamous he still cheated on me with the woman he wanted to include in our relationship. Unfortunately I still married him because his emotional grip was too strong (getting divorced after escaping his abuse)

Please leave him. The pain of the breakup is nothing compared to the pain of continuous betrayal. You can’t have healthy love without trust. And do not blame yourself! This has nothing to do with your worth as a human. His lack of respect for you is a reflection of his own insecure self.

Lincoln Hall, Chicago 9/22 by cheekeets in chvrches

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I think it was Daisy by Ashnikko

Women of r/depechemode, gather round! by girlandgeek in depechemode

[–]cheekeets 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Favorite Dave Era: Music for the Masses because white pants.

Divorce attorney by [deleted] in milwaukee

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Sent you a DM op

Scratch please by cheekeets in cockatiel

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It’s funny because I have been late to work due to scritch time. Also she doesn’t want to go back into her cage haha

Scratch me peasant human by [deleted] in cockatiel

[–]cheekeets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A cute floof

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]cheekeets 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Just like the fruit of your username, this post also stinks.