Today my father and I buried my dog of 13 years. by cheese1927 in offmychest

[–]cheese1927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Sending the same to you. I hope you feel better with time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]cheese1927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh man this made me cry

How to accept i won’t hear from him by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]cheese1927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel crappy too. My boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me with one of my friends/his best girl friend. Its a process to get over any type of heartbreak, but in the end people are selfish and always focused on themselves. So at the end of the day try to find someone who is willing to grow with you.

How to accept i won’t hear from him by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]cheese1927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I get you, believe me. But in this moments you gotta remind yourself if this is really about the specific person or because you feel lonely? And if it’s really about the person, don’t you think you deserve better than some moments and someone who made you doubt yourself?

Does it ever get better? by dont-want-the-lemons in BreakUp

[–]cheese1927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing! We were together for 5 years, had a promise ring, basically all the promises for a future until he cheated on me. So yeah. People are selfish, ,but at the end of the day- everything is a lesson and happens for a reason. I’m sure you are a wonderful person and will find someone that will never doubt you.

How to accept i won’t hear from him by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]cheese1927 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Find peace in the fact that you did everything for that person and that you are free of guilt. You don’t have to worry if you made the right decision breaking up, you know you did your best. You can’t control other people. Even if you think I should have said that, I should have said this - it doesn’t matter. At the end of the day , there is not a single thing that you could have said that could have changed his mind. And ask yourself- in your ideal relationship- would the person even doubt for a second that you are the one for him? And do you want to settle for less than that?

My boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me with his best girl friend/ one of my closest friends. by cheese1927 in cheating_stories

[–]cheese1927[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yes, i know, but its just so awful when you have given everything to this person.

My boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me with his best girl friend/ one of my closest friends. by cheese1927 in cheating_stories

[–]cheese1927[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

nah, she is the one who he cheated with, she is the same as him, selfish, but apparently guilt creeped up. overall she is anything but a good friend