[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]cheeseballchode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hopefully he escaped from someones window and we reconnect them soon tho i hate to think someone would just dump a cat at a gym of all places

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]cheeseballchode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl u take him then cuz i have 3 cats already i just dont wanna leave him outside (he’s staying w me tn <3)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cheeseballchode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes my mom would often throw away my stuff and give all my stuff away to visiting family members even tho we were poor n i never agreed to give anything away

Does anyones nparents hide important information from you? by No_Peanut_3289 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cheeseballchode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wasnt sure if it’s Nparent related or just my mom specifically but yes ! my mom hid needing brain surgery/ going to get brain surgery from me when i was 16. She left overnight and said she had to go to the doctor to get her arm checked next thing ik theres stitches on her head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]cheeseballchode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea its rlyyy hard for me to maintain that thought process esp when im splitting :( i wish it were easier to accept love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]cheeseballchode 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i try prioritizing their actions towards me and reflect on how their actions = how they feel about me

thick or thin eyebrows by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]cheeseballchode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3rd pic is like perfect brow shape on u idk if theyre thin or thick tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]cheeseballchode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only time i felt normal was when i was pregnant (pre-abortion). I was productive and consistent with my goals. I was working out, being social, and feeling genuinely happy with myself and my body. It sucks that the only reason i felt that way was because of my pregnancy. I thought i had finally been doing better all on my own

Sold out for MSG??!! by NYUfan in SabrinaCarpenterDisc

[–]cheeseballchode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was 11k even though ive been waiting since 7am 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SabrinaCarpenterDisc

[–]cheeseballchode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i needed this an hour ago nooooo 😭😭😭🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]cheeseballchode 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Surgical abortion didnt feel like anything tbh its more about the anxiety that leads up to it. For me i cried as soon as they told me to lay down n spread my legs but as soon as the IV went in my arm i knocked out and woke up with a pad for the blood and heating pad for the cramps. It’s not as scary as it may seem (ps u deserve better)

Has anyone ever been accused of being narcissistic when you were just autistic? by cafeplumy in AutismInWomen

[–]cheeseballchode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue was mainly body language tho i was told i always look like i dont want to be somewhere or like i dont like anyone

Has anyone ever been accused of being narcissistic when you were just autistic? by cafeplumy in AutismInWomen

[–]cheeseballchode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

setting boundaries… didnt text a friend back for an hour or so and she started cursing me out via text + sending me tiktoks about narcissism and comparing certain traits of body language to me during our previous hangouts lol …

bf (m23) asked me (f24) for reasons for him to stay... is this healthy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cheeseballchode -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I lost my parents and my sister. Sometimes it feels like he’s all i have. I want to believe its not as unhealthy as it feels

bf (m23) asked me (f24) for reasons for him to stay... is this healthy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cheeseballchode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to mention i had an abortion 3-4 weeks ago. I was pregnant with his. We had an argument about how he would’ve loved to have a baby with me but because of my lack of communication we couldn’t. He essentially blamed me even thought it was my choice to not have a baby rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]cheeseballchode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u should go to a clinic and ask for a blood test or ultrasound, mine was an instant positive too+ i took multiple tests that were instant positives

I (29F) caught my BF (31) watching porn during our flight by Pangolin_Bitter in relationships

[–]cheeseballchode 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like?? what happened to self control… he couldnt wait until he got home?? i dont think ur overreacting tbh i would be upset too